My ex girl & I just broke last week. This will be the 3rd MAJOR TIME n THREE YEARS that she has broken it off with me VOWING that she hates me and wants nothing to do with me, and that's she DONE FOREVER. We are suppose to be going on a cruise in Jan, & she's told me thru txt that it would b n my best interest to get someone else to go, but I don't know if she wants me to chase her, like I'VE ALWAYS DONE, or really find someone else. Even tho it's only been about a week since we spoke, I miss her, and I want her back, what do I do, and what can I say to get her back??
2007-12-12 09:51:05 · 4 answers · asked by D3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHY did you break up?
If she is immature and childish and wants you to "beg" her like a dog that cannot find anyone else, then yes be her slave for life because she IS a control freak and will threaten you with leaving EVERY TIME she does NOT get her way son.
Be a man and take someone else, or better yet cancel it thank GOD you didnt make any babies with her and start over.
2007-12-12 09:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is playing a game, maybe not. Sometimes girls just need to feel like their boyfriends want to be with them, and maybe she wasn't feeling like you wanted to be with her, so she broke things off, wanting you to come back and get back together with her in some unforgettable way. If you really think she wants to get back together, and if you really want to go on the cruise, then think up a way that is romantic and sweet to ask her back out, but if she says no, then i would just forget it, i would take someone else on the cruise, that way she can not blame you for not taking her, cause you will have tried to take her. Good luck, i hope everything works out.
2007-12-12 17:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her is time to cut this run and chase off. Tell her you love her and you want her but she can't keep this on and off thing up, if she doesn't want to go on the Cruise then you will have to find someone else to go and you're done playing this game. Good luck.
2007-12-12 18:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Nasra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like being someone who dumps you whenever they feel like it than coodoos to you. I would find another sexy braod to go with me and forget about homegirl-she sounds really immature
2007-12-12 17:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by nyjae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋