Are im inlove or force into love?

Question

Im i in love? Im not sure weather i really love him or forcing myself to love him. Because im crying and fighting to be with him and i feel like i going be happy. But this happen before, me and bestfriend broke up (dating at the time) and i cried and me forgave me and got back togother. So after we got off the phone, i wonder why i did that. So now me and him, are broken up again (months) and its been hard on me. So he asked me weather i really loved him, because i was doing alot of stuff, that he knows i would never do! And i been feeling the same way too. So he said, to him it seem as if i was forcing myself to love him because i feel that i someone won't love me. So i got the thinking about, and i been felling that way for along time. So what do you think?

Answer 1

My bet is that although you probably like him as a person and have a slight attraction to him, you probably are forcing the little feelings you have for him to go too far.

I've done it before, myself.

There several reasons you might do this, such as:

1. Are you "in love" with the *idea* of being in love? Are you bored and want your life to be more deep/exciting?
2. Seeking to confirm your worth through someone else?
3. Trying to get over another guy?

You might be kicking yourself for feeling confused/immature right now. But hey, the fact that you have asked yourself this question shows maturity.....

Answer 2

i think you are scared of being alone so you take what you got and try really hard to be happy with it. idk because all people are more complacated then you can write in a paragraf. but take things slow and see what happens.