my boyfriend and I are getting married on the 30th. he is really nice, strong and handsome. we have been dating for a year now. one day about a week ago i heard him talking on the phone to his friends saying that I was nowhere near as sexy as the clerk at the grocery store. she is 39 ( I'm 23) , has short blond hair, is about 10 pounds over weight, has green eyes, rosey cheeks and she is single. do you think i am prettier than her? be honest guys. I can take the truth!
( guys only!)
2007-12-12 08:51:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
my avatar is a picture of me at my bosses christmas party.
2007-12-12 09:04:35 · update #1
Karrey,
My heart goes out too you.
First people do Joke around,but unfortunately that can be deadly too, when another lover talks about another person body or what ever like what you Just described?.I know that had too hurt.
First Karrey i would sit right down and talk too him for his action.You have feelings Just Like he does.And boy do we know Guys have feelings,because most of them are selfish and blow up..
Second Karrie,if he does not take your feelings Lightly,put the marriage on hold.I am not saying too cancel it! But too put that on hold and work things out.
Third Karry,one Yr?
Umm Karry Dating takes many tries,many many turns and it goes through many Trials.First you are still young yet.26 yrs old or more is the best time too get married,but it takes time and allot of Love and respect.
So Karrey start talking,and if he Looses it,or does not respect your feeling in what he Just did,please put the wedding on hold,and do not,i mean do not!! let any one tell you what you can or can't do,it is your Life once you make that vow.
Good Luck Karrey.
Sincerely,
Kenny
2007-12-12 09:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by kendaw374 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well from ur little avaitar pic u look alright and all.
Just dont think about those stuff right think about the happy things in life that u and ur soon to be husband are going to go through when u get married. He must be just messing with ya as well, u sure he was actually talking to anyone on the phone at the time or just holding the phone to his ear and saying random stuff to get u jealous?
Well hope u have a great wedding and hope this helps u out :)
2007-12-12 08:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by Luke 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Since I have not seen either one of you I cannot make an honest assessment of your physical beauty. However, if this schmuck fiance of yours is already ogling the lady behind the counter at the local stop and rob, you may want to reconsider marrying this guy.
Remember, different people have different tastes in women when it comes to physical appearance. Some like Rosie O'Donnell others like Nicole Richie. Personally, both make me sick. But that's just me.
2007-12-12 08:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can't really see you , but he's not right. Love is more powerful than the looks of you or some bimbo. That isn't right. Even if I found a woman more physically attractive, if I loved my woman I'd never chance hurting her by saying something so obviously insensitive.
2007-12-12 09:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he's still looking and not ready for a wedding.Besides it's to soon to get married,your young and just need to hang on awhile longer.But what ever you do you be sure it's really what you want and are very sure of this guy.Good luck.
2007-12-12 11:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Larry-Oklahoma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the boy ASAP. You're marrying the guy, so you should be able to have a discussion with him about how he hurt your feelings and his devotion to you.
This isn't about who's sexier. It's about who he wants to be faithful to for the rest of his life.
2007-12-12 09:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter, he's marrying you not the clerk. Although, I'd give it serious thought after the insensitive remark. Is he the right guy for you?
2007-12-12 08:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by Timprovphilly 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
no truth involved. you told us about her but nothing about you. and beauty, and trust me on this, is found on the inside, not the outside. maybe there is something else about her that attracts him to her. as far you getting married.......after overhearing this conversation you might want to rethink your plan. if it happens with a random clerk in a grocery store, it will happen again. and again. and again.
2007-12-12 08:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you or was ready for marriage, he would in no way be thinking about other women, and most certainly wouldn't be thinking or saying that they're more attracive than you are.
2007-12-12 10:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by LunaRossa 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If your really worried about this, I'd think long and hard about that up comming wedding
2007-12-12 08:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by skully 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋