My parents finally came to see me and my baby.Since I was raped and had the baby. They came to my apt with gifts for the baby and for me. At first I didn't want to let them in but something told me to open the door.They were happy but I wasn't. These were the same people who kicked me out the house when I needed them the most. I was happy because I had my new boyfreind there to keep clam. Should I let them in my life again and my baby?
2007-12-12 08:14:39 · 8 answers · asked by ceecee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They are your parents. I don't agree with how they kicked you out, but they are your only parents. Talk to them about how you feel, then forgive them and move on. Good luck.
2007-12-12 08:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? So they made a mistake. Aren't we all entitled to them? They are trying to make amends and it's Christmas. A time for family, friends, and loved ones.
Don't hold a grudge against them. They obviously want to make things right with you and they want to still be involved in you and your baby's lives.
Yes, it will be tough getting over the fact that they kicked you out all that time ago when you really needed them. They're only human, and we all make mistakes. They had to learn from theirs in that they missed out on being with you and taking care of you in your time of need.
Don't do to them what they did to you. They're opening the door and giving you the opportunity to take back what they took from you. I'm sorry it happened, but rekindle your relationship with your family.. t'is the season =)
2007-12-12 16:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by iammai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - they may not have been right but it seems that they want to be in your life and your child's life. Two wrongs don't make a right - be the bigger person and let them back in your life, if not for you, for your baby.
2007-12-12 16:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give them a chance but if they are mean just ignore them. Ohhh yea and does anybody know why my questions aren't popping up?
2007-12-12 16:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody deserves a second chance. i think that u should just give them another 1. theyre ur parents + they love u.
2007-12-12 16:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have come to show you support and are not out to hurt you, let them in.
2007-12-12 16:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are your parents, grandparents to those children.
i think your family is trying to say they are allright now, and that there is nothing to worry about.
2007-12-12 16:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by xoxoAmeliaRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, we all make mistakes
2007-12-12 16:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Whatdoido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋