i have a husband ande all he wants is sex and i don't.i've been with him for 13 years. i just don't want it but i will go out and experiment with different men and he doesn't know about it
2007-12-12 08:37:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't have a 'sex' problem, - you have a marriage problem
- Get it resolved, - quick !!
2007-12-12 08:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by MK6 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Ok, for 1. The reason you may not want it as much is like you said "i just don't want it but i will go out and experiment with different men and he doesn't know about it." So how could you ask a question like that, but say what u said. It doesn't make sense...But to answer the question disregarding your remark....Men are very sexual creatures...And their sex drive is said to be higher than a woman....So more than likely when they get aroused they automatically want to having some kind of sexual pleasure(oral, sex, masturbation, etc).
2007-12-12 08:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Tha Blessed One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evolutionarily speaking, in order for human reproduction to run at maximum capacity, a woman can only reproduce once every nine months at the very most, while a man can run around sprinkling his DNA everywhere he wants. So it kinda follows logically that natural selection would favor men being randier, as they reproduce successfully more often than men who don't care as much about sex.
Although on a side note, it's very ironic for you to be asking why men want sex all the time when you're unable to get enough of it.
2007-12-12 08:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by venatiusadelmo 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Lemme get this straight... Your husband of 13 years still asks you for sex... which means he likes you and is still interested in you... but you turn him down... meanwhile you go out and "experiment" with other men... which means you aren't interested in your husband to the point that you'd cheat on him... and you have the nerve to ask why all men want is sex? You are screwed up in the head lady.
2007-12-12 08:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by just nate 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he has it in is heart that your cheating on him and thinks he can change it by having sex more. All men don't like to have it all the time but in my situation I get it only once on twice a week. I would gladly appreciate your situation. Sometime less, it's not that we don't want to intercourse but because we forget to make love to one another
2007-12-14 06:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by ASI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you say you don't want sex all the time, but then you say you experiment with different men? Maybe you don't want sex with him because you're having it with other men. Sounds simple to me.
By the way, sounds like you have a really happy marriage. You're what's wrong with the institution of marriage today.
2007-12-12 08:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by murlow12 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Your extra-marital affairs may be the reason you are not interested in sex with your husband. Have you thought about the fact that you are probably making the situation worse?
2007-12-12 08:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ тнє σяιgιиαℓ gιяℓfяι∂αу ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want it then why would you go out with different men to experiment because all men want it all the time they might just tell you there different until they get it
2007-12-12 08:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by LOUIS G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL You sound like a friend I have. It also sounds like you want it just as much as he does but you don't want to with him. You both need to go your separate ways so you don't hurt each other any more. Also what makes you think he wont find out. This is just my opinion.
2007-12-12 08:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by fiji2litre 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the issue isn't you not wanting to have sex...but that you don't want to have it with your husband!! If I read this question correctly...you don't want to have sex with him all the time but you'll go out and sleep with diff men?? Sounds like the person not the act!!
2007-12-12 08:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by HUh?!? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is this question serious? Why are you cheating on your husband? Maybe you should tell him and give him a chance to be with someone who truly loves and wants him. It sounds like you are making this guy waste his life with you! If you arent into him anymore then tell him and cut him loose so he can find someone to share his life with!! Good luck!
2007-12-12 08:40:12 · answer #11 · answered by Susan F 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋