Okay. First of all, my life is not doing to well right now. Everything seems to be happening all at once.
I have 2 younger brothers & 1 younger sister. My sister will be 6 Feb 1. She is my life. I love this little girl soo much. Well, she & my 2 brothers are not my bio. moms but, my bio. dads w/ another woman. They live with this other woman, Stacey. My dad & Stacey are now divorced. They live 5 years away from me. My dad is no longer able to see the kids due to his touching my sister just like he did me when I was younger. My dad has also scared my brothers where none of the kids want to see them. I got to talk to my little sister last night and she told me she was writing me a letter. She told me it said "I *heart* you. I love my family. I love my sissy" It hurts me so bad that I can't be there for them. I know what my sister is going through. This made me break into tears. This is SO hard for me. I have no way to get where they are until the spring time or so..
2007-12-12 08:54:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Those kids have no idea how much I love them and how much it hurts to not be able to see them. My sister also determines to be called "Amber" (My name) instead of Alyssia (Her name) by her teacher and friends. It's really upsetting. My brother ask me if I still live in North America. He's 8 and he doesn't understand either. I'm so depressed & upset that I cannot do anything to do with my sister. I just want to hug her for having to go through what she did with our father.
The whole story with my sister & my dad was my sister came home from seeing my dad on the weekend. She came home and told Stacey they watched a "movie" together. Stacey asked her what kind of movie, Alyssia said "Oh, you know the one where the girls put weiners in their mouth." Like it was no big deal. Stacey then asked if anyone touched her privates. She said "Daddy did". Well, come to find out hes also taking showers with her & rubbing her privates. I'm so stressed, depressed, & hurt. I need some comforting words
2007-12-12 08:58:28 · update #1
When I said they live 5 years from me, I ment 5 hours.
2007-12-12 08:59:17 · update #2
Yes, she is safe with her mother. But, I want to hold her & tell her everything is going to be okay.
The reason both of the cases (From when I was younger & then my sister) have not put him into jail is because theres not enough evidence. Her "cherry" is still there & there was no anal brusing. He was fondaling (SP?) her not raping. Just like he did to me.
2007-12-12 09:02:41 · update #3
OhMiGosh Amber it celery here (:
I can't believe all thats happened.
I'm sure oneday you will win and he will get sent down for a long time, VERY long time.!
-hugs- :(
Sorry it took so long, i couldn't get my password ..
2007-12-12 09:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by cerysss. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really sad when dad's do that to their daughters. You and your sister deserved much better from him than that - he should be ashamed. An one day he will be punished for what he did to you all. What goes around comes back around... you know?
As for the distance with you and your brothers and sisters... if you could write to them, or call them (calling cards are a good way to keep phone expenses down), email them... just to let them know that you are with them even though you aren't able to be there in person - it would mean alot to them. I think it's really great that you are reaching out to your sister to comfort her -- that means you are a strong young lady and that you aren't selfish. You should be proud of yourself for wanting to help her. There are more girls out there like you all... don't think that you're alone. Your heart is still pure sweetie... after what your dad did to you it is a wonder that you can still care. Things happen for a reason... we don't always know why... but they do - remember that! Best of wishes to you all!
2007-12-12 09:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by get_it_right 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Surely you can understand that your sister is safer with her mother and no where near your father. I'm not sure why he's not in jail but you obviously need counseling to gain the ability to cope with this. Talk by phone as often as you can, but for now, its safer for her to not be there with you.
When you grow up, you can have all the relationship you want with her.
2007-12-12 08:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get counseling ASAP. You may be going into a depression and there is medication that can help you if it becomes a worse depression.
Sorry for your loss. The best thing you can do is keep in contact with them.
2007-12-12 09:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dina K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a worrier also. Persevere in prayer.
2016-04-08 23:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that you are in a situation like this hope things get better for you soon. Best of luck
2007-12-12 09:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, first you need some counseling. second, stay as far away from your dad as you can. and, third, get your sister out of there. if it has to involve the police, do it. she is not safe with him.
2007-12-12 08:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats still sexual assult (what your father did to u and ur sister)..
read this and look at this site.. you still may have hope to put ur dad in jail for this :
http://www.ipt-forensics.com/journal/volume4/j4_3_4.htm
read EVERYTHING!!
2007-12-12 09:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋