a week. I am so mad about this because they have a son who is 3 and his wife is upset because he is trying to make his self better by taking classes at night so he will be able to move into a high bracket of pay at his current job. they agreed as a couple before he started taking these classes that it was the best thing to do... so long story short she wants another baby and he isn't ready and she now wants a divorce because she says he is too romantic for her and she needs more sexually... i just don't get it .. He asks me questions about their relationship i don't know what kind of advice to give him or should i keep it to myself? I personally know a lot of girls that would die for the romantic things he does for her ..me included... what do i say to him????
2007-12-12 00:18:22 · 4 answers · asked by no x 4 games 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok i don't want him ... he is my friend and best friends brother.. he keeps asking me what is he suppose to do? i just kinda try to change the subject as much as possible...i feell like if i tell him what he wants to hear then that will be bad and if i tell him my true feelings about this then it will be bad. tahnks all for your answers it is so helpful.
2007-12-12 06:13:52 · update #1
ok i don't want him ... he is my friend and best friends brother.. he keeps asking me what is he suppose to do? i just kinda try to change the subject as much as possible...i feell like if i tell him what he wants to hear then that will be bad and if i tell him my true feelings about this then it will be bad. thanks all for your answers it is so helpful.
2007-12-12 06:15:33 · update #2
Sounds like this man wants to better their lives & his wife is being selfish. She wants another baby, but financially, he doesn't feel ready, which doesn't mean that he doesn't want another child, but wants to wait until their finances are a little stronger & nowadays who can blame him....It takes alot to raise kids these days. As for the romantic issue, A lot of women would die for that type of man & they are few and far between anymore. If this man wants to talk to you, I don't see the harm in it. And they can still be sexual without having another baby. Good Luck
2007-12-12 00:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Blu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay FAR away from this mess. They need to work it out on their own, and you don't need to get in the middle of it. Almost anything you say will be held against you if/when they get back together. If he insists on your opinion, then stay away from the issue of marriage, sex, etc., and be supportive of his night classes and his trying to advance in his career.
2007-12-12 08:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No advice needed, you can listen...but they really need to work this out themselves. And if she ever catches wind that he is talking to you, there may be hell to pay for him. If you are his friend you just listen and sympathize. But realize if she should get jealous you need to step away.
2007-12-12 08:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you want this guy, don't you?
if not, A-B situation, C yourself out.
2007-12-12 08:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋