I'm currently in a realtionship with a great guy, and I've just recently met this other guy whos super nice and everything, but he keeps asking to get together and stuff but I don't know who to let him know I'm taken without him getting hurt. Help Please!
2007-12-12 18:12:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty is the best policy
2007-12-12 18:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by a'Cheesy'Guy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loosely mention your boyfriend in a conversation with him. You could use " My boyfriend _____ and I have plans for that day, you should meet him though!" It is very important to take the first step in leting your dating status be known because if you hold off on telling he will think you were leading him on. Another great way is to ask him if he is interested in a double date to a movie. That way you get to find out if he is single or not and he finds out if youre taken. Because the friendship is still new he wont take offense even if you said it out straight.
2007-12-12 18:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how nice you think he is and that if you weren't in a relationship you would definatly be into him. But be careful people always want what they can't have so that might just be fuel on the fire!
***Keep his number, never hurts to have a back up plan you never know what might happen!
2007-12-12 18:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest, no need to sugarcoat anything. Tell him your taken and you are happy in your relationship and you want to keep it that way.
My guess is that your new friend is just friendly because he likes you in that special way, after you tell him you are not interested he will likely start fading away.
2007-12-12 18:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be strate with him tell him you know you keep asking me out and there is a reason i am saying no you are a grate guy but i am already taken
2007-12-12 18:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by nacago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree to get together
have coffee or lunch or something other than movies.
during conversation, say some stuff about your bf. he will get the drift.
2007-12-12 18:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that it is very tempting, however, you are in a relationship right now.
2007-12-12 18:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wont be hurt.just be honest..youre taken
2007-12-12 18:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by cant take heat?get the f%&k out! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋