she let me go cuz her work and school. shes also 16. but then the next day she told me how she made a big mistake and didnt want to let me go. she was just scared that i was gonna dump her and hurt her agian. like i did last time, and like her other ex did. but i wasnt. and she realized how much i loved her when it hit me hard when she dumped me.
but now the problem is she really wants me back and all.. but my bestfriend knows how much it hit me hard, and my brothers knows aswell. my bestfriend says go for it, if itll make u happy, but my bros like stay away from her cuz she'll hurt you again.
but i really doubt she will. and i dont plan on hurting her at all.
so what should i do?
2007-12-12 16:40:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would follow your brothers advice, she seems to flip flop on her feelings. Tell her that the both of you need to take a break from each other. Either you both are going to find other people or realize that you both need each other. I don't know witch it will be and both of you are young and have plenty of time.
2007-12-12 16:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Minot_1997 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should put this episode down to one of the less harmful learning experiences of life.
You have to follow your own path. While taking advice from others ultimately your decision is personal.
Try to remember that you are very young and have a long way to go in understanding girls.
Learn from this experience how NOT to treat others, and you will be on your way to a more successful next relationship.
It is a precious time in your life so make the most of it.
Have you ever considered talking to your Dad? He has been there before you. Best of luck and good management!
2007-12-12 16:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chuckle, sorry, but this is what it is all about.
On the pro side, she seems to have been honest with you and you state that you really like her, so why not give it another go?
OTOH, if she dumps you again, then at least give it a few years before you try again. You both might just too different or simlar in personalities to make a long time of it.
2007-12-12 16:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Terryc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you dating your brothers or the girl? Because the only one who you need to figure things out with is the person you are dating - so as long as you are clear about that, I think you know what to do, eh? Your brothers will be all "No, don't do it" but they will get over that if you go ahead and get back with her - it all depends on what you want and whether the two of you can work it out. They have opinions, but your brothers will, in the end, support whatever you do.
2007-12-12 16:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Amy R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16 years old and your old enough to make up your own mind, At the end of the day your happiness is what counts not your brothers or anybody elses....You go for it, If it turns out to be a mistke then so be it, As the saying goes, You learn from your mistakes....I wish you all the best and i hope ye work out. keep us posted
2007-12-12 18:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by bitch27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you know what it feels like to be dumped so put it in the past ..let her know you regret doing it and ask her for another chance.She only hurt you because you hurt her first.
2007-12-12 16:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by Janell T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend some time away from each other
you 2 are developing trust issues & relationship baggage
wait until after the holidays and start fresh with new people
2007-12-12 16:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by whatzername? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all breaking up with someone because you THINK they might break up with you is very immature! but on the other hand if you have strong feelings for her, go for it! And f it doesnt happen agian at least you'll no you tried and you'll move on!
2007-12-12 16:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by mnikolai24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consume smaller nutrients and attempt to consume some fruit or some thing on your injury time and once you get homestead from college. do working and in case you have a song in school do this throughout your lunch time until eventually now you have lunch. good success
2016-12-11 03:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by giallombardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live an learn! Always communicate, be honest and respectful, and be sensitive to the feelings of those around you! Finally, stop worrying and enjoy your time with her.
2007-12-12 16:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋