My gf and I of 3 years just broke up. For a a while I havent been as attracted to her as I once was and it was clear our relationship was spiraling. We are also going in two opposite directions. I feel like breaking up was the only right thing to do but I also feel intensly sad about not having her in my everyday life anymore. Is this normal. I love her but I dont want to be with her anyway. What does this mean, should I not have broke it off?
2007-12-12 16:48:44 · 1 answers · asked by Orion B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAHA! Sorry to laff, just that TV, is such a bad teacher for the human heart, sorry again.
The point is that the hearts pretty easy to scar, have you ever had a scar? Does it ever go away? Same diff, your forced to come to terms with the scar she left on your heart, anything less, is what your feeling, its a process, but the fact is relaitonships never end. Even if she isn't there, your still FORCED to have a relationship with your MEMORIES of her, ouchie huh? Thats why I brow-beat people, love experience leave a LASTING effect. Now you have to ether go back and work on that relationship (Because your heart warrants it) or find something else you can love as intensely. (because your heart needs that) best of luck!
2007-12-14 04:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋