Well I like this guy but we just met like 3 weeks ago. And we talk all the time but he doesnt know me that well yet. Hes coming to my friends on Saturday and I wanna tell him how much I like him but I'm scared he wont want to speak to me again. I dont want to loose him as a friend if he doesnt want to date. Theres a lot I need to tell him before I tell him I like him. Because I have trust issues and I hate liars and cheaters. And I'm bipolar. But I dont think he would mind any of that. I just dont know how to tell him. I'm very shy and hes kinda shy himself. Any advice?
2007-12-12 20:34:23 · 7 answers · asked by girlnamedmorgan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you talk all the time he must know you ok. why is he coming to your friends house on Saturday? are they friends? does your friend like him? does he like your friend? these are all questions you should ask yourself and your friend. make sure your friend knows how you feel 2. friends are the best hooker upers. why dont you just tell your friend to "make it happen" and i bet if he likes you it will happen at your friends house. everyone likes to be the hooker uper!!!
2007-12-12 20:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by thegoobman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you, I'm a sort of shy guy myself. If the feller talks to you and the two of you seem to have a comfortable vibe between you, or if you notice that he gives you all of his attention whenever he has a good excuse to do so but doesn't give that much attention to anyone else, chances are he likes you. The best way to handle shyness is often the hardest thing and that is just facing it and doing the best you can. Like getting into a pool of cold or hot water, the best thing you can do is just jump in.
Oh, and if he rejects you, don't let it get to you too bad. Just dont get your hopes up too high. Again, very difficult to do, and I can relate since I too am allways afraid of getting rejected. It hurts and makes me want to go and cry. normally I just hold back the tears and keep composure long enough to find a nice and secluded area and let it all out there, and by the time I've given a good cry, I'ts not so bad. Like in the Matrix if you've seen it. Just eat the cookie and by the time your done eating it you'll be right as rain.
2007-12-12 21:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by goblinslayer2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get stuck in the whole shy circle where you both like each other but never made a move, all cause of shyness.
One of you has to make a move, if he's that shy, then I say you grab your huevos and go for it. Only 2 things can happen, you get rejected. Which is actually fine, because you'll know instead of always wondering what could have been. Or 2, he wants to go out with you.
It's all a matter of getting over shyness. So, work on what your words will be so you won't freeze up, and just go for it. Good luck.
2007-12-12 20:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here walk up to him and say i like you you want to do something saturday nite. If he declines at least you will know dont worry about him not talking to you anymore because im sure he isnt that type of guy that would just shut you out because you like him.
most people talk to people that like them more than those that dont like them if anything it will at least put your feelings for him out there.
2007-12-12 20:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and approach before it's too late, however you have to be confident about your action first.
2007-12-12 21:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by Fayaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you positive your bipolar? Just go at it and tell him. If he rejects you, it's his lost.
2007-12-12 20:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Cali C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a coward.
2007-12-12 20:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋