Lol i don't know when ever there is a question such as why do men look at other girls,i would be like not all men,or will every guy cheat on me,no they wont....i like to be positive as it gives me hope...saying that i do have a bf so am building my trust issues,they are so much better now,i always use to get hurt but the best thing to do is be positive and not think every guy is the same.even if i do get hurt,well atleast i can say i was the one who trusted...anyway if a person gets hurt then it happens and you cant do anything about it....yeah cry and move on and be positive till you find a better partner....guess am giving advice lol
2007-12-12 00:30:58 · 22 answers · asked by london-fem 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol no question grrrr just a question about am i right for being the way i am,,,lol there you go,got away with it.
2007-12-12 00:36:41 · update #1
yeah i only want 1 guy at a time,thats a good thing!
2007-12-12 00:38:27 · update #2
i think what your saying is very sensible. good for you to be able to take a really mature attitude towards a break up and also you have a very healthy attitude towards men in particular. your right, not all guys are the same. there are a lot of good ones out there, we just have to be lucky enough to find them. id give you ten points if you were an answer to a realated question lol. :)
2007-12-12 00:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men aren't the same. All women aren't the same. Some you can trust, some you can't. Some you can enjoy, some you don't.
About the "trust issue." Look at it like this: People don't get trust automatically. They have to EARN our trust. And that takes time.
That's why I don't believe in Love at First Sight. I do, however, believe in Attraction at First Sight. But for me to develop trust in someone, it takes getting to know them and finding out what their character is. Seeing how they relate to others, finding out what their opinions are on business issues, etc. Finally, you realize this is a person who can be trusted or not. Just because a guy is your boyfriend, you can't trust him. Require him to earn that trust.
"Trust me" from the mouth of a guy is only going to lead you into trouble. Trust your good sense. You seem to have a lot of it. You're right! Stay positive and keep looking until you find the right guy. Good luck!
2007-12-12 08:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Woods 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, Guys are not all the same. We are visual by nature and we will look at other girls, But that isn't a bad thing! And be honest because girls look at other guy's too! Not all guy's cheat. And you are perfect just the way you are! Don't change, stay positive!
2007-12-12 08:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Locke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No two people are exactly alike, or ever will be on the face of the earth. It is best to be positive. I am a firm believer in red flags, so keep them checked.
2007-12-12 08:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by Cherrry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or you could try to figure out why you continue to be attracted to men who cheat and shouldn't be trusted.
There's a reason why we are attracted to the same type of men over and over.
2007-12-12 08:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by pinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to think the same thing....recently I found--well he found me. Hes the perfect gentlemen but Im scared to let him in(my heart) because I've ran across some no good bums thru the years.
Go with your heart ...as for me---it'll be one day at a time.
2007-12-12 08:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by ms.yahoo answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not every guy the same.i fill the same about women. they seem to always cheat on me , why are the guys that are true end up with the cheatter, and the guys who cheat get the true chicks . somethang is wrong
2007-12-12 08:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jimmy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right! All men are not the same. We girls should occasionally remind ourselves that men are people too sometimes. Good to stay positive!
2007-12-12 08:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dlola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a positive thing to learn that you can't lump all people together because of their gender race age or any other characteristic.
2007-12-12 08:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by ModernMerlin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. All men are not the same, though a prince is hard to find.
2007-12-12 08:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by candyroses68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋