2007-12-12 00:34:41 · 32 answers · asked by mutt 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can tell you this..After 10 years of a unfulfilled marriage that eventually ended in a divorce and a nasty custody battle, I wouldn't recommend staying in a marriage due to any reason: kids, financials,security, loneliness. None of those can make up for wasted tears and headaches. I say, we are here once. ONCE! and then is over. Make the best of it. Be happy.
2007-12-12 00:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No! If the marriage is unfulfilled, that also means that the loneliness isn't being taken care of either. You can be in an entire stadium of people, and still feel alone. Get out of a marriage that doesn't do anything for you except bring you down!
2007-12-12 00:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No my friend is doing this because she likes her house so much and can't afford it by herself. She complains about her unhappiness and her husband every day though.
Aren't you already alone if your marriage is unfulfilled?
Where is the difference?
2007-12-12 00:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer484 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can be alone and more so when your mate is not being what you desire learn what it will take to make you happy while you are discovering this let him know what you are feeling ask him what would make him happy help each other become a couple share your food your bath your bed get close talk laugh cry truly share what you feel let him know you want a fulfilled marriage and you want him to work with you for both of you to gain in the happyness to come
2007-12-12 01:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by BOOGIE49er 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and yes both, see it depends upon situation in which you are financially, socially, mentally and physically.
If you believe you can take care of your self in a good manner than i will certainly suggest that you need not to stay in such relationship. but be conscious that you night be unfulfilled in your relationship because of your wrong attitude towards life and the circumstances and in that case you might be losing a good relationship unnecessarily. so plz be conscious before making any decision.
2007-12-12 00:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by vikas singh 2103 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it unfulfilled and what have YOU done to cahnge it?
A big portion of satisfaction in life starts from within.
The concept that your marriage is unfullfilled indicates a lack of effort on your own behalf.
The concept that you would go through the pain and hurt of divorce because you are "unfulfilled" seems a bit lazy.
2007-12-12 00:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Would you still feel unfulfilled if you left? Really? We all feel lonely and unfulfilled at times, but can you really blame your partner for not feeling fulfilled?
2007-12-12 01:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simply answered, No! I was married for 15 years the first time and divorced my X because we just were not compatible. I am SO glad that I did because my present husband is my soul mate, my love and my life! If I would have stayed 'unhappily' married I would have never found 'true love' with my present husband of 5 years now :-)
Life is just too short to live unhappy, plain and simple.
2007-12-12 00:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by Patty 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nope, that says that you care nothig of the other person. You aren't doing them any favors by sticking around just so you have someone to come home to. That is fair to anyone. A marriage should compliment your life, make you feel good. Not bring you down all the time.
2007-12-12 00:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
its possibly the only reason why marriages are as unhappy as they are. I'll never understand why people feel alone either way, much less how being unhappy beats being alone. It doesnt make sense
2007-12-12 01:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋