My boyfriend didnt want to have sex with me last night even though i tried,i feel like when i want sex he doesnt want it but when he wants it i comply,i thought he did as he told me to take my panties off then he was saying how he was too tired,should i not have sex with him tonight or will he think i'm sulking about it?
2007-12-12 00:31:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sex is a two way thing dont jus do it because he wants to wait until a night u both want to he thinks hes got u were he wants u weneva hes gaggin thyre u will b takin ya panties off. keep um on n ur legs losed for a few days tht will show him hell b wishin he did sleep with u tht night
2007-12-12 00:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my guy has not wanted to have sex before. he works in construction all week out of state and doesnt come home until on friday nights. because he has not had it all week, he wants to have sex the minute after he gets home and gets out of the shower. and then saturday night when i want to have sex, he will say that he is too tired. he really is too tired. he has been at work all week. the friday night love making is just a special thing with us because neither of us have had it all week and we want it as soon as we can get it. honey, he probably is telling the truth when he says he is tired. does he work all day? is his job tiring? did he just exercise? there are many physical factors that can make him too tired to have sex.
2007-12-12 09:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about the sulking I would be irritated to, he told you to take off your panties to me that says that he wants to make love or play with you down there. Men are confusing, don't try to figure him out. Use reverse psycology on him tell him to take off his bottoms then tell him you are too tired.
2007-12-12 08:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by CrazyGrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, he probably was tired, but asked you to take your panties off because he wanted to, but sometimes they physically cant have sex when they are tired, drunk, stressed etc!
just gently bring it up today or tonight, you should be able to talk about these things.
if he does it again tonight, start playing with yourself and im sure he will want to join in!
just talk to him about it, the first time this happend with my boyfriend and i, i felt rejected and ugly! but realised he really was too tired. he did actually want to have sex, but couldnt!
its not your fault!
just speak to im and ask why he doesnt want sex when you do!
hope this helps and merry christmas!
2007-12-12 08:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As angi says, he is using sex as a weapon here as part of a fuller picture of sociopathic controlling. By refusing to have sex when you want to, he is tryin g to make you feel worthless and unattractive. this is a VERY common gambit by men who wish to take total control over their partner - often simply for their own gratification, sometimes with more sinister intent such as gaining full control over you in order to con you out of your possessions and savings, before disappearing to set up a new victim. EXACTLY this happened to someone very close to me - in fact I would not be wholly surprised if it was not the same bloke......
2007-12-12 08:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by eriverpipe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this the same guy that you are so scared of..the one that you are trying to get pregnant by? Or is it the one that you really don't like that you want to know if you should just lead him on till the one you do like comes back into town? what about the vodka problem..and are you still worried about him hitting you? is this the same one that repeatedly asks you if you have been pregnant before? I'm confused. Where do you come up with all this stuff?
2007-12-12 08:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lucy*JakeFanClubFounder* 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he was having a bad day all around. He just couldn't get into sex, with you or anyone. If you are having a bad day, do you always want to have sex, or maybe just want to be cuddled instead?
2007-12-12 08:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex really should only take place when both sexes are in the need of it, otherwise there is an alternative to satisfy your partners needs by masturbation if only one of you wants it.
2007-12-12 08:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Tango 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why he did that. Sry.
But I am SO happy to know someone has had to deal with this. I hate it! its so frustrating.
My bf works a lot so I know hes really tired sometimes. But godamit a girl should be able to have it when she wants not just when he does. ~=(
2007-12-12 08:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Behaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dear, i think he was just tired.. Tonight if he asks for it, say you are feeling tired. I think you might be thinking too much over this.. Dont worry.
2007-12-12 08:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by Ruksana P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋