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2007-12-12 01:34:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she is there for a funeral and she is going to be there for 2 weeks
2007-12-12 02:10:48 · update #1
no i am not home alone
2007-12-13 11:52:02 · update #2
Call your mom and talk it out.
2007-12-12 01:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by $Sun King$ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Awww sweetie! Your mom went to Canada permanently? or just on a trip and she will be back? Are you alone? It's OK, don't be afraid! I'm sure there are people around you that love you, and you aren't alone or helpless! Please talk to the adults around you and tell them how sad you are. If your family won't listen, see if there is a school counsellor or a crisis hotline in your area. I know there are lots of people who can help. I'm sure wherever your mom went that she's thinking about you and worrying about you and sending you her love. And y'know what? You're a big girl now and need to start looking out for yourself and your family. Do you have any brothers or sisters? I bet they are sad too. You should try to help them. You can calm yourself down if you want to, but you have to be willing to be a big girl and try. Hugs!
2007-12-12 09:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by Brigid's Priestess MorningSt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, sweetie, I'm sorry. I hope mom will be back soon.
Write letters to her that you'll give her when she returns. Do things that she wants you to do. She doesn't want you broken hearted. Read, write, draw, play, clean your room (maybe rearrange it?), hang out with friends...do anything upbuilding that will fill the time. Talk to your close friends about your feelings.
Hang tough, honey, you'll make it, but pretend you're strong. If you can pretend on the outside, you'll get through this.
You love your mom so much, she's delighted with that. She'll hug your guts out when she gets back.
Here's a hug 'till then: hug, hug, hug (and 2 for later).
Don't be overly sad. Force your attention onto other things to pass the time.
Very best wishes. Thinking good thoughts for you.
PS/ When my 11 year-old went to camp for 3 days, I got all weirded out because I missed her so much. But when she got back, there was so much excitement, because of her experiences. It turned out okay.
2007-12-12 09:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for your mom canada is beautiful land. your only sad because your probaly use to her being with you. but there comes a time in everyone life when you just have to do what you gotta do. hopefully time will fly by and she will return. till then keep busy and do things so that yall can have something to talk about when she does return. so go to school and try not to think of her till after school. remember stay busy. it is hard to be without the one you love. be strong!
2007-12-12 09:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by cocopuff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mum went visiting and she will be back, Right. Of course you are lonely and want mum. Nothing wrong. Just think of nice things. Crying will not bring Mum back and it does make you miserable and maybe embarassed in school.
Think nice thoughts and talk to mum on the phone. You know she cares so much about you. Be secure in that. Don't be sad, Just be OK and things will work out for you.
2007-12-12 09:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by organbuilder272 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you alone? or are you left with other relatives? talk to a teacher or a friend/relative how upset you are feeling, its no good holding in the tears and bottleing it all up. perhaps take a few days off school to get your head round things and the change in your life, arrange for your mum to call regularly too.. but always talk to people how you are feeling and you will know you have a lot of other support xx
2007-12-12 09:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww you will be okay!! im sure your mom will be home soon and will be so excited to see you!
its normal to feel a little scared and sad if your mom is away from home but just get some rest, dry the tears and go to school...you will talk with your friends and not be so emotional and sad...
give your mom a call tonight and talk with her, she will reassure you and make everything okay, good luck hun xx
2007-12-12 09:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by CDsummersun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long will your mom be gone?
Don't worry, I still get that way and I'm an adult. Whenever my husband has to go away, I miss him like crazy. Try writing her a letter or email. Even if you're not certain she'll get it, just writing it and getting your feelings out will help. Good luck and hang in there!
*Hugs*
2007-12-12 09:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by SoBox 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You miss her? Call her. I'm hoping you arent home alone. If so, call family or friends to watch you until she returns. Just relax. She will be home as soon as she is finished with her plans.
2007-12-12 10:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Doz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to get use to it, be strong. i am borned in a poor family, i might not gonna see my parents in the whole month, when i was home, they were working; when they were home, i was in the school. now they are out of the town, and i was by myself. i already used to it since i was 6. sometime i felt lonely and wanted to cry, but i hold my tears, i told myself to be strong, and i know i will make it by myself.
2007-12-12 09:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by black snizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mom just went to my home country i feel the same way u do
its okay she'll some back
try to keep ur self busy with games homework and friends
2007-12-12 09:37:42 · answer #11 · answered by morning star 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋