My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and I love him with all my heart but when it comes to sex.. it's not so good. For some reason he cums extremely fast and I mean REALLY fast. Like the other day he litterally lasted MAYBE 20 seconds!! It was horrible!! And I don't know what to do!! Sometimes I get so upset and cry. Does anybody know what is wrong with him or what we can do to fix it??
2007-12-12 00:47:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok first off I wanted to say is that I'm not waiting until I get married.. ApPaReNtLy we have already had sex and I'm not stopping now. Second.. We are not little kids.. We are both adults and are able to make our own decisions. Third, I don't say anything to him about it that would upset him.. He has brought it up to me before and we have had a few "disscussions" about it. He says that my body gets him excited and that we cant have any foreplay because that makes him go faster also.
But anyways.. thanks for all the advice. I hope that he just gets better in time.
2007-12-12 23:32:22 · update #1
Come again?
2007-12-12 00:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are all kinds of things.Foreplay comes to mind.Oral sex is another.Let him get off fast with that.Then he does you and he should be ready to go again with some syaing power.
If he is young which I think he is.Sometimes tyoung people get excited to fast and when your young you really dont know how to control it.
As you get older you learn to control your breathing and can almost do it at will.
Work with him on this.Make sure he gets off once before you have intercourse.That should help.Dont criticize him.Like I said when you are young you have little control if any.
You must be a smoking hottie to make him go that fast anyway.If all else fail by a video that teaches men how to control there orgasms.
Hope that helps.
2007-12-12 00:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by kenneth h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very common. There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend.
There is one thing that can make a man ( esp a young man) last longer.
BEER.
It desensitises him and he doesn't feel quite as much. He will last much longer.
Good Luck. P.S. try not to put pressure on him
2007-12-12 01:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him to consult with a doctor that its not natural to end up sex in only 20 seconds. And you should tell him not to sex that first.... make him to love over your body and then have sex
2007-12-12 01:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get him to have a **** before. and think about really ugly peope when he is on the job. Go over old football scores. Use thick condoms. put ice on his balls. get him to do it in morning when he hung over. keep changing position. slow down
or if all else fails
dump him
2007-12-12 00:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by peter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think what he needs is viagra
tell him to give you some foreplay b4 getting it on
sex is all about communication so both gender can get the satisfaction out of it
good luck, i hope i helped
2007-12-12 00:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Blank 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would get one of those creams that hold up an ejaculation for a period of time. They advertise them all the time on tv. ask your doctor or gynecologist about it.
2007-12-12 00:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you and ur boify shudnt be having sex unless ur married so Gods hand isnt on ur pleasure, (in other words ur "sex life" is dammned)
2007-12-12 00:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by uncrowned ruler 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
read some kama sutra books.
2007-12-12 00:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by KurleySue 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Practice, practice, practice.
2007-12-12 00:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by mark019 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋