Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

2007-12-08 17:54:47 · 28 answers · asked by Roberto H 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a few months back, I cheated on him he cheated on me, we don't trust and we lie to each other but everytime we try to call it quits one of us calls or we just don't give up, I don't know if I want to be w/ him but I know I don't want to be w/out him, It's such a weird feeling; Has anyone had a relationship like that where you try to let go but for whatever reason you can't and if so, how did it end up? why can't I get over him and let him go? Please help me figure this out!!

2007-12-08 17:54:33 · 5 answers · asked by Danny82 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 17:54:27 · 1 answers · asked by Patricia B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm still feeling naturally high from my Lovers prowess.

But in the meantime I feel a bit guilty when I went into our childrens rooms.Seeing them sleeping so peacefully .
But then I get nauseous seeing my husband snoring like a pig.

My Lover is younger and richer,smarter,beter lover and MUCH BIGGER in the right place.
I know i'll be sore tomorrow but I just want to eliviate the guilt.
any helpful hints?
Thanks

2007-12-08 17:54:22 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

should he do to protect his interest?

2007-12-08 17:53:00 · 5 answers · asked by Patty B 2 in Family

women seem to treat men bad and blame everything on the fact that the have there period or there hormones why cant they just be more like men and be easy going

2007-12-08 17:52:06 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im not a super thin girl but im not really fat either. I have a little pooch on my stomach and a ghetto booty. My boobs are really big (not to be graphic its just true seriously like DD) and I have a lot of muscle. Seriously Im not thin in my waist but I do have a lot of muscle there but i cant say theres no flab. Basically hour glass shaped with an average waist and then big hips and big chest. Is this attractive at all or do guys prefer the normal looking girls who have all proportionate boobs waist and butt?

2007-12-08 17:50:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About a year ago, I ended an engagement over cheating. Two of my favorite men in the world - have cheating pasts. Because of those facts, and a few others - I really wonder - do men just have a cheating instinct?

2007-12-08 17:50:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okayyy so here's the story..

♥Mom and dad got divorced about 5 yrs.ago
♥My dad never ever calls me and i haven't seen him since father's day..
♥He smokes in the house when I am there and drinks every night
♥Never does anything when i am there w/ him my older brother who lives near by always is the one who spends time w/ me
♥I probably see him about three times a year ( He got me a pink digital camera for my birthday but i still never see him)
♥He hasn't paid child support to my mom in probably three or four years he's paid on and on , but trust me he owes a lot
♥My mom is a single parents and struggles but still manages to buy me nice clothes and provide for me
♥♥♥

2007-12-08 17:49:02 · 5 answers · asked by Madddiii(: 1 in Family

they arent directly related but is it still considered incest?

2007-12-08 17:48:29 · 42 answers · asked by Cassandra 3 in Family

Thanks for your time for my question. I’m a 16 year old senior high student. Relationship is making me dizzy. If you could give me some advice, I\ll really be appreciated.
1\parents
It seems like we can hardly understand each other. We both know that remaining silent can’t solve the problem but each time we come down for conversation, it ends up in a quarrel.
2\teachers
My parents think I should be initiative to keep in touch with my teachers cuz they have a lot of students and won’t have time to offer help to me personally.
For example, last week I needed a recommendation letter for the university. I telephoned my parents to ask my maths teacher to write one for me. I didn’t go to the teacher myself because I was not sure where he was at a certain time. The next day after maths class, the teacher looked at me and I was waiting for his answer. But finally he didn’t say anything. It was embarrassing. I didn’t talk about the recommendation thing because I was not sure whether it

2007-12-08 17:48:22 · 4 answers · asked by cuteyboy2001 1 in Friends

I have to close one eye to be able so see the keys!

2007-12-08 17:47:08 · 11 answers · asked by Tanya M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

- Hi.

I'm 16. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a month, and I get the hint that he is trying to make out with me. I deny him everytime because I've never made about before.
Everyone is like "Just go with it". That's not much help.

Is it true that he won't be able to tell that I've never made out with anyone before, because everyone kisses differently?

- No, I'm not going to tell him I've never made out with anyone before.


I'm really scared and nervous about it.
I have no idea, what to do; and I'm super scared about him thinking I kiss badly and maybe breaking up with me.

-Don't post articles from google in here about "how to french kiss".
I've read.
No help.
So i've come to Yahoo.
I want to know about your experiences.

Will it be great the first time?
Or is it going to suck because we have to get used to the way eachother kisses?


HELP PLEASE!

2007-12-08 17:46:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 17:45:47 · 15 answers · asked by chipet.thosndojewls 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad is being a real... pain. He starts an argument with me about everything. For example, he starts criticizing the way i sit, the way i eat and how I don't get enough homework. We fight just about everyday and it usually ends with him hitting me and me on my bed. My biggest problem was today, when he comes over my shoulder and reads what I am saying to my friends. I tell him no to read what I am typing because it's disrespecting my privacy(in an angry tone of course) and as usual, we start fighting again. He keeps telling me that he can do whatever he wants because he is my father and he can disrupt my privacy if he wishes to. What should I do?

2007-12-08 17:44:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm designing a website for a Wedding Planner.

What would you expect to see to make you feel more comfortable about your event?

I'm having a little bit of a hard time because I'm a male, and this site is most geared towards females.

Thanks for any help!

2007-12-08 17:42:55 · 5 answers · asked by Nic W 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, Now this will your second Christmas together, and my boyfriend asked me what I wanted and my answer was "just a simple, quiet romantic evening, just the two of us, planned by him." He is far from being a romantic, not so much as flowers on a whim here, and we are on a tight budget for the holiday season. So I am looking for some ideas I can throw his way as to a few inexpensive but completely romantic things to do. Any ideas will be appreciated.

2007-12-08 17:38:00 · 9 answers · asked by kitten 2 in Singles & Dating

i was supposed to transfer to a university and live in the dorm there and was hoping to get a gf so i can look at her eyes as if no one else is there with a big crow in new years now guess what?? im gonna be spending a lonely new years eve no friends...the plan to transfer was last year and now its almost new y ears again! and now im thinking wow another dreadful year!
i moved around alot when i was young..and now i go to a junior college...its like impossible to make friends(commuter school) and i tried out the clubs there i didnt like it...they were oh so gay......and i thought i was gonna transfer and live on a dorm...and meet friends....but since of my financial difficulties.....i wasn't able to transfer...now i wont get a gf!!! thats what i was planning and now its ruined cuz i wasn't able to transfer....i started beinbg social later in my life but i can't look back at it now! HOW DO I GO THROUGH A PAINFUL NEW YEARS!!!! IM SO LONELY LOL

2007-12-08 17:37:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There was this girl in my theater class whom I never really spoke to until a friend who had the same class started to hang out with her, about 3 weeks into the class. It was cool for a while, we became friends, and hung out at every lunch.
About the 6th week into the class, I realized that I had developed feelings for her, but I am completely shy when it comes to matters like this. I found out that my friend had liked her too, and had actually gone out with him for about a week, then split.
It was the last week of the course when my friends were all saying to ask her out, but due to the show we were putting on, I had no time at all to talk to her. I had even said to her that I needed to talk to her, yet I still couldn't say anything. That night, I had written her a 7 paragraph email explaining myself to her. Again, with the show going on, there wasn't any time to talk.
The class ended 6 weeks ago, we hardly see each other at all, yet I can't stop thinking about her.What should i do?

2007-12-08 17:37:26 · 5 answers · asked by MkidTrigun 2 in Singles & Dating

Everytime my boyfriend goes to work and he's gone for a whole day with out seeing him, what should I do to make my self feel better ?

2007-12-08 17:36:40 · 9 answers · asked by Mandy D 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a gf, about 12 years ago, that I had dated for several months, who had a sweating problem. It smelt like sour milk and I'd withdraw (right in the middle of the act!) and run to the shower. Needless to say the relationship was short lived.

2007-12-08 17:36:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

21 years old never had one never even kissed yet -- how do I handle this part of my life

2007-12-08 17:36:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's Been Hurting Him Self ..He's Been To The Doctor Don't Know What To Do Any More.. Have No One To Talk To Either ..Email Me If You Want.

2007-12-08 17:33:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

there's this one girl at my high school ( she's about 15 years old) we dont talk but she kept on looking at me in the hallway and sometimes even stare at me but when i look back she seems to start looking away. When she sees me in the hallway she start to scream her friends name loudly, one time she even dared one of her friends to say hi to me. then i started looking at her and she started to just ignore me and look at ceiling or the wall when she sees me. So i just ingore her and walk away when i see her and she started looking at me again. but when i started looking back again at her she is ignoring me again? i ask one of her friend to ask her if she likes anyone and she said that she doesnt.

2007-12-08 17:32:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and working 2 full time jobs. I graduated from college in May this yr., but a bunch of things happened and I have been working to pay off some of my undergrad debt (credit cards, etc) while waiting to start grad. school for social work in January. I at times am depressed because since I am either literally at work or asleep, I have no time for a life. I was wondering, should I try to find someone for me right now, even though I have very little time-and be upfront/explain my situation, or should I just sit on the sidelines until January? I at times just hate my life right now and find myself counting down days on the calendar often, almost like a prison/probation sentence.

2007-12-08 17:31:44 · 5 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex and I were together for almost 3 years... I know that we both still love eachother but a relationship isnt an option right now..we are both still young (19) and everytime we try to stop talking to eachother something always happens and we get close again..He broke up with me 2 times in the past for other girls and for some reason i always forgave him and took him back.. He would always tell me how sorry he was and that it wouldn't happen again. Well it did because now he is dating someone. I don't see how I can love this guy so much when he has hurt me so many times.. We still keep in contact sometimes but my problem is....I can't seem to move on. I want to go out and have fun and party with my friends.. but im scared that if he finds out about me having fun with other guys or partying he will never want to be with me again. its like im sitting around, not doing anything just for the small chance that he might come back again. i know this sounds so pathetic but i need some advice

2007-12-08 17:30:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my bf for almost 2 years and a few weeks ago he broke up with me. This was a very serious relationship to the point that we just assumed we would and planned to be married. Now we have gone through some rough patches and are very confused and it doesnt help that we live an hour and a half apart and always have. We have broken up yet we still see each other sometimes and are taking time right now to just be single and think. We planned to do that when we broke up but he ended up getting with someone else a week after we broke up. He doesnt really know why but we talked and he broke up with her and is back to the original plan. We will talk again when he comes to Christmas to see how we feel. In the meantime I am finding that I have a male friend who I am starting to really like. I know I am not over this other guy, after 2 years how could I be, he is the first one I have ever loved and in 5 months I will be moving to his city. But my friend that I am crushing on is

2007-12-08 17:25:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was cleaning today and said something to my husband about not helping, he was just sitting there watching TV all day why I cleaned. I walked out of the room and he called me a Sl*t. I was very upset and then he got mad at me and said he was just joking, he turned it on me and said I had no reason to be upset then went on to ignore me the rest of the day. Am I right to be upset? What do I do about this?

2007-12-08 17:25:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has a brother that has been 18 since March and has has 3 jobs all for about 2-3 days each. He lives in Kentucky and we live in Virginia, but he calls and whines endlessly to my husband about how hard his life is and woe-is-me crap. He has a girlfriend who has just turned 18 and is fully supporting him, she works and buys his food, pays when they go out on date, everything! She is an idiot. My husband asked him if he was using protection, you know, and his reply was"sometimes." i am about to scream at this kid to get his head out of his butt and get a job. What is going to happen when said girlfriend gets knocked up and he is without any income or insurance. He still lives with his mother in her basement and his main objective of the day is playstation 3. When my husband was this kid's age, he had been in the Marines for 7 months. When I was his age I had been in the Navy for about 6 months. We have tried to talk him into the military, no use. What can we do?

2007-12-08 17:23:25 · 7 answers · asked by Cha togar m'fhearg gun diola 4 in Family

Me and my boyfriend have been together since January, he treated me like no other when we first got together, flowers, candy, cards, and poems. I bought him a new tattoo set and many other things because at the time I was able to get him things, now we have moved somewhere else and things are not anywhere close to where they used to be I ask him questions he yells, he spends all of his time with our neighbor at their house only comes home to shower and sleep, He is never here anymore. We are having money problems and when I stopped being able to buy him things he started changing. I am pregnant as well and he is sending so many mixed signals I don't know where to begin. when I ask him what is wrong he tells me nothing or he gets angry. When I try to show him more that I still am madly in love with him he doesn't accept my love. How do i know when enough is enough and to just let him go?

2007-12-08 17:22:37 · 5 answers · asked by heathermboyer 2 in Singles & Dating