Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

I have been together with my bf for 8 months we were talking about marriage after 5 months, & I have been wearing his promise ring for 4 months. We are in love undoubtedly & we couldn’t see each other anywhere but together until we are old and gray. We are both 18 & will turn 19 in 2008 I'm still in high school but when I'm out I want to start planning a BIG wedding. At first I thought it was weird to get married before you can even legally drink but who needs to be wasted on their wedding day? I’m not going to start “planning my family” until I'm at least 25 so kids are way out of the picture. We both have family members who got married in love at 16/17/18 & are still married 20-50 years later. We are in love & no it’s not a fling, it’s not lust, it’s not a crush, it’s not puppy-dog love. it’s LOVE I find myself finding things that id like for my wedding and dreaming about it & him. Is it odd/normal to be IN LOVE this young?Did you get married/someone who got married young & had a successful marriage?

2007-12-08 19:48:37 · 16 answers · asked by the_best_blonde_barbie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think a n average lady has the willpower to avoid sex from her life If ?1) If she wishes so.2)She don't really wish so but she fears the sosciety.

2007-12-08 19:48:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do some men come before sex?
For example; In the movie American Pie, Jim
watches Nadia getting nude and then she puts
his hand her you know what and then he comes?
And I know this is real because it happen to a friend
of mine with his girlfriend. Can anyone explain
to me why do some men come before sex?

2007-12-08 19:43:35 · 8 answers · asked by Enrique 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 19:30:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-08 19:29:23 · 12 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He is a recon marine and we have been in love for over a year now> it is mutual and he has just told me that he wants me to be his wife. He is 30 years old and says he has never felt about any women how he feels about me. He calls me every day to say hello and tells me that he loves me see what I am doing and who I am with and tells me he never wants to be apart from me again< he said lets go to vegas and get married< i told him there is the small part of engagement first but he tells me its just a formality to him. Well not to me, he wants me to move in with him next month but i want a bit more of a commitment before I do..he said sure I am ready to do that but he wants it to be the way he sees it and he has plans in mind. so here is the question what do you all think< is he just stringing me along (it does not feel that way I know he loves me) but still its a bit strange. Any good answers for me on this.

2007-12-08 19:28:12 · 11 answers · asked by one Life to live 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend will be visiting his family for 2 months next year, and unfortunately his family is in another country :( He hasn't been back to see them in 8 years, and I understand the need to see them.

The question is how to stay positive while he is gone, how to stay away from depression? He's my everything, as I am his. He's that one guy for me, he's The One.

What are things I could do or think to stay away from the depression of his leaving?

2007-12-08 19:27:25 · 12 answers · asked by Ember-san 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

appreciated when i was being a gentlemen towards them?

2007-12-08 19:22:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 19:20:05 · 6 answers · asked by nepthalie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this year she is coming to us as she is asked each year, and her daughter has flipped and become abusive about it, can anyone tell me why?
She won't speak to us anymore and I find it very childish!

2007-12-08 19:17:54 · 11 answers · asked by AnnieG 4 in Family

I was looking around Lovepersy.com has some very good reccommendaions. Tell me what you all think.

2007-12-08 19:14:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even though were married some of my husband's exs flirts with him. I don't wanna stoop down on their level but sometimes they are really irritating.

2007-12-08 19:13:50 · 27 answers · asked by niCoLE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Some people live their entire lives without ever getting married, without ever starting a family, etc...Do you ever wonder if maybe you're just meant to be one of those people?

2007-12-08 19:12:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend of mine-and it actually is a friend. He lives in NY state, and he is trying to divorce his wife of 7 years. They have no children together. She is blackmailing him for adultery and threatening his career if he leaves her. She MIGHT have pictures of him with another girl kissing or just hanging out. Can't be sure about the details. She is threatening him that if she tries to leave him that she will go to his CO and bring these "pictures" and get him Court Martialed and discharged from the military. He is afraid to give her the divorce papers that he has already had drawn up because he doesn't know how much trouble he could actually get in if his CO saw the "pics" she has. She said she would go to the lengths to make things up to get his career ruined and have him thrown in jail. He doesn't know what to do and as of right now, he is wrapped around her finger afraid to drop the papers. According to the UCMJ does she have any right to do this at all? Wut would any1 suggest?

2007-12-08 19:11:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I bin tryin to think up ways to get rid of this new boyfriend. Will ever sinse he moved in I ben notisin all these weird things about him. things that dont make sense in my mind. I halfway keep him around for protection against the nehborhood caus it is kind of rough and I havent bougt a alarm for the place yet. So I notice instead of going grosery shopping at the store, he goes to a buffat/buffete [?] with his friend to eat unlimited lunch and thin he sneaks a bunch back home in his backpack. This is kind of imberrasing becous we get food help from the government and isnt this why they give it to us?? So we dont have to steal food???? I REALLY want to turn him in sometimes like win I get mad at him I just want to call and bust him. could he get in trouble for this??? I am just curious about the ways of law. I no your not suposed to take the food home. and I think this is trashy....cous theres always stuff on the food that it didnt get baked with...

2007-12-08 19:11:11 · 10 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

different states for 12 yrs? I am working on my divorce, doing it myself. In all the papers & instructions I have read I have not found anything that says I do. But the courthouse wants me to bring in a paper called State Vital Statistics Form, when I read the instructions on it it was ONLY for those that have been legally separated 1st before getting divorce. I have known many people that did NOT file for legal separation 1st.

2007-12-08 19:08:40 · 3 answers · asked by MaeSalgo 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-08 19:06:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hear about this all the time. I don't understand it though. Men will charge a hill under machine fire, but are scared "successful" women? Where the hell do women get this idea from??

2007-12-08 19:02:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Currently, I am a junior in college and going to graduate next year with degrees in marketing and management. I was offered a four year football scholarship and since I am only nineteen they would register me as a freshman. If I accept the scholarship, then I will not graduate next year and instead will play football for a while longer. The question is wheter it would be more attractive to be the football player since this is my only chance to do this or should I go ahead and graduate with two degrees and be only 20 yrs old?

2007-12-08 19:02:22 · 11 answers · asked by Eric N 4 in Singles & Dating

my guy has no problem pleasuring me orally, but does not like to kiss me... Why? It is very strange to me. He will kiss me if I kiss him first or if I say kiss me, but not other wise. I don't get it.

2007-12-08 18:59:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met her in Hawaii on a cruise ship, she is the most beautiful woman ever cross the path of my life. Then I proposed to her and she told me she'll think about it and I lost contact with her but I still have her phone number.

2007-12-08 18:58:03 · 8 answers · asked by Joachim A 1 in Singles & Dating

and just don't know what to do about it. I love him, I love him, I love him. How do I tell him that if he just does not feel the same way goodbye, when I know I can't just get him out of my life.

2007-12-08 18:54:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why are men expected to get down on one knee to ask a girl to marry them? its like they're begging. i wouldn't want anyone to have to beg for my affection

where did that tradition start? or like how or why?

2007-12-08 18:53:41 · 5 answers · asked by nanabe 4 in Singles & Dating

My sister is in middle school and her school is close by so she walks. She came home after school and told me that these Black adult men called on her. She was smart enough to ignore them and walk off. I'm not worried because they are Black, I'm worried because they are adults, they wear ghetto clothing, and the police always drives by that area.

Should I be worried? How would you feel if your sister told you this? What is the best solution?

Thanks for reading.

2007-12-08 18:53:23 · 15 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family

I have a life, I don't wanna work with her and I don't think those business ideas would work, I like my freedom and she's offended by this. She keeps on pushing... What can I do to make her understand that I have other plans without upsading her?

2007-12-08 18:52:57 · 2 answers · asked by Inno 3 in Family

I'm wondering how many couples share one drawer for undies. My wife and I did until she could no longer stand the "tidyness" of it. We now have separate ones, me one, her two (don't ask me how, but the stuff just grows!) Also how many just jumble it all toghether and go fishing each morn and how many wear the same underwear interchangably? (ie both wear the same shared panties)?

2007-12-08 18:52:21 · 6 answers · asked by klingongac 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I went grocery shopping with my younger brother tonight and of course we were joking around not at all acting our age...im 24 he's 12
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we stumbled upon this question, he asked me kidding around, and I will share in my response to best answer what I thought it would be for the two adults within my home. So if all of the food inside an average chain grocery store were yours to eat..say free ;D
how long before its gone? Also how many people do you have in mind that will be munching on all this food.....hehe

2007-12-08 18:47:26 · 5 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I tell my friends that I am a virgin. I am 19 and in college. I don't want to lie to my friends, but I think if I told them that I was a virgin they might think I am a loser and not want to hang out with me or they might think I am gay. I just dont know if its a good idea to tell them that on top of that I have never kissed a girl and I know if I told them that they would think I was gay when I am not. I am asking cuz they like to talk about sex and all some times and I kinda just sit there and I got nothing to say.
Or if they talk about it should I just make things up and tell them I have had sex and all?????????/

2007-12-08 18:46:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy were to work out in order to make himself more physically appealling, what areas would you recommond?

2007-12-08 18:45:58 · 16 answers · asked by lmspencr 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I just dont have a very good sex drive I'd like some input on how to get it back?

2007-12-08 18:43:12 · 5 answers · asked by Krissy W 2 in Other - Family & Relationships