and just don't know what to do about it. I love him, I love him, I love him. How do I tell him that if he just does not feel the same way goodbye, when I know I can't just get him out of my life.
2007-12-08 18:54:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love him you don't give him an ultimatum, but rather just wait off to the side and make sure you can be there for him.
I'm guessing your idea of love and his arent a match.
2007-12-08 18:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how to interpret what you've said - this could either mean:
- you are in a relationship with him, but feel he doesn't reciprocate your feelings completely. I *think* this is what you meant, and if so you really just have to sit down and have an honest and adult conversation about each of your feelings. If he can't do that, then he probably doesn't deserve you and you will have to decide what to do. If the answer is "end the relationship" then just end it and get on with your life.
- you are NOT in a relationship with him, but have the strong feelings... in which case, either (A) ask him out already (this is the 21st century after all) or (B) stop spending time with him and get on with your life.
In either case, if you come to the conclusion that "getting on with your life" is what you need to do, and THAT's the hard part, then the bad news is basically, it's just a matter of willpower and avoiding putting yourself in situations where you see him. It's really that simple, although it certainly isn't easy.
Good luck.
2007-12-08 19:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Nate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be honest with him. Tell him exactly how you feel. Don't expect that he is going to give you a reply right away so I suggest you tell him to think it over and give you an answer in a few days. In the mean time, spend some time away from him. This will give you a chance to see how you will do without him in the worst case and also give him time to realize how much he wants to be with you and needs you. Honestly everyone deserves to be treated like they are the most important thing in their partners life! So if he can't give that to you find someone who will worship you! It may hurt now, but you'll be much happier in the end!
2007-12-08 19:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An honest talk with him to see how he feels about you,that will give you an opportunity to either hold off telling him you love him or waiting to see how his feelings for you go.
Just because you love him does not mean that he loves you and a one-sided love relationship is as bad as a no love relationship.
2007-12-08 19:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just cant MAKE someone love you but there are things you can do to make him fall for you- start by ignoring him this always gets a guys attention and maybe go out with some one else guys want girls who are taken dont ask why i dont know but its true! I dont really have enough details about what hes doing to present that he dont like you to help you more
2007-12-08 19:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by child4jc74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um maybe trying dating him first... he might think you are a little crazy if you just run up to him and tell him you love him...
by the obsessiveness of this question you sound like you are just infatuated, you sound about 15.... can you tell us if you are actually in some relationship with this guy... and the age...
2007-12-08 18:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by My cat drinks bong water 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a great question . I am going through the exact same thing as you but with a girl . If you want to know how mine is going email me and I would like to know how yours turns out also.
Good Luck
2007-12-08 18:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by BILL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love so much...don't tell him that you love him......do everything that you can to make him feel that way....do these things...1:call him right be4 he sleeps...2:be with him and stay at his side whenever..even if you don't feel that way....3:don't think dirty at all...(cause it's temporary.....4:go see him whenever you can.....show him that you love him...not just by word.....i can do it too....so becarefull about what are you saing....and tell him this: i'm looking for a boy friend as good as you, i don't think there is anyone like you(and make it somehow funny)(this is the last part...don't do it first)......thats it
and you're going to have him.... i hope it might help you.....
2007-12-08 19:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by sina b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult adult males tend to choose what they cant have and whilst they get it the grass is greener and vice versa...u now choose what you cant have and you like the belief of him and doubtless no longer him as a guy or woman. Its gonna take a whilst yet there'll definatly be a extra suitable guy obtainable for you. Take care and remember its no longer your fault
2016-11-14 04:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by prottsman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you can't live without him, but about four billion women on the planet are doing just that, and doing fine. I'm one of them. So quit worrying.
2007-12-08 18:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by Einsteinetta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋