My mother in law goes every year to her daughters for Christmas?

Question

this year she is coming to us as she is asked each year, and her daughter has flipped and become abusive about it, can anyone tell me why?
She won't speak to us anymore and I find it very childish!

We did invite them, they are welcome into our home all times, but the abuse we recieved was viscious and a bit scary, she does like her own way mostly.
Iv'e never known anything like this as my family all get along!

Answer 1

she's jealous! it's her mum, not yours, even though you're married to her son. i can't understand it either, but please try not to let it spoil your Christmas. think of poor mum stuck in the middle of all this; she's trying to please everyone & has ended up pleasing no one. i'd carry on as if sister in law doesn't exist if she won't accept your invitations etc. she'll be the loser in the end. diane.

Answer 2

Families !!! Her daughter is upset, perhaps invite her daughter round after dinner for some nibbles so she can spend a bit of time with her mum !!

Answer 3

She thinks that her mum is favouring your family and leaving her out and she is jealous. If you really feel charitable you could ask her if she would like to come over for Christmas and see how she reacts. If she says no...then so be it but then her mum will really how selfish her daughter is being

Answer 4

Who knows that's families for you. Tell her to grow up, and that she can always invite her next year.

Answer 5

she must feel very jealous that's all, why not invite her round to and all of you can have a lovely Christmas together, it is the season of good will

Answer 6

maybe this might help you: i grow to be 10 while my father gave up the ghost. while he found out he grow to be loss of existence of maximum cancers, and earlier he grow to be too unwell to do it, he wrote me letters. One for each 12 months of my existence till i grow to be 25. earlier he died, he gave them to my mom, with training to furnish me one each 12 months on my birthday. In them, he wrote approximately how he felt, what he was hoping i grow to be feeling and had carried out. He imagined what my existence must be like that 12 months (the two solid and undesirable) and pronounced me on subject concerns i might face growing to be up. And he enable me understand that for the time of spite of the certainty that he grow to be long previous, he enjoyed me and can continuously be with me in spirit. those letters have been a great convenience to me, and that i nonetheless have them right this moment. (He chosen letters so as that i ought to continuously carry them and study them. in spite of the certainty that I nonetheless have some videos he made for me as properly, it is starting to be an increasing form of stressful to locate cameras the right age to play that media. So i think of he made the excellent determination determining on paper and pen, even nevertheless he himself grow to be a photographer and filmographer.) maybe in case you do some thing comparable on your daughter, it is going to bypass a protracted thank you to helping her by existence. Even without you, she will understand she continuously has your help and love. and it will proportion together with her the path you wish she will carry on with and your advice for the pitfalls all of us face alongside the way.

Answer 7

Game recognize Game.

Answer 8

yes.. I can tell you the inner thoughts of your sister in law... I have a crystal ball made of snow.. its my crystal snow ball.. it will tell me when you're sleeping, and when you're awake... it will tell me when you're bad or good.. so be good for goodness sake!

Answer 9

jealous , why not invite her too, after all it is Xmas

regards x Kitti x

Answer 10

It's about time your sister-in-law grew up I think!