Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

Well my sister amber has a boyfriend brandon and he lives with us right now. He never respects our house rules and is always yelling. Hes always saying mean stuff to me and my brother but i don't know what to do about it cause i don't want to make my sister upset. He thinks that he owns the house when hes a guested. He never says thank you or please and he never ever listens. I need help!!! PLEASE!!!!!!

2007-12-08 14:25:24 · 3 answers · asked by Honey Bunny!!! 2 in Family

this is a convo between me and this guy i like. We started back talking after a month of not speaking to eachother and he tells me he doesnt want a gf!!!!

He tells me "whats wrong with making out?"

i say "i feel used and i dont want to get hurt."

then he says "we aint going out so why would you get hurt?"

Then i asked him "ok so you dont have feelings for me at all?"

He says, "I do but i dont want a gf"

OMG!!! is this boy immature???? hes 17 and im not doing anything with him!!!
Insecurity or Immaturity???

2007-12-08 14:24:08 · 11 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to ask my girlfriend to marry me but i don't know how many roses. how many roses should i give her and what color??

2007-12-08 14:23:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

when i came home from work yesterday, my wife had all of her things packed up, and said she is leaving me, and going to las vegas.

i asked her how she was going to financially provide for herself. she said that she had heard a good hooker could make $100 for oral sex in Vegas.

i was thinking about following her there. i don't want her back or anything, but i would like to see how the hell she is going to get by on $200 a year.

you think i should?

2007-12-08 14:23:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay. So. A few weeks ago, I found out my husband of 4 years has what is know as a "cuckhold festish", where he enjoys seeing me with other men (he told me). I want to know what gives men this strange fetish and what they get out of it. Before anyone answers, please note that a) my husband isn't gay, b) I absolutely WON'T have sexual contact with any other men, c) I won't leave him no matter what, and d) I know he loves me. Any opinion is appreciated! Thanks!

2007-12-08 14:22:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering because I feel like the only girl in high school who hasn't gotten their first kiss....it sucks. lol

2007-12-08 14:19:25 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is confusing but here it goes


my x-gf we broke cause she was moving to ejrsey she is moving back i was like yay but i got a new girl and this new girl she gave her virginity as a birthday present i luv her but i luv my x-gf more i dont want my gf to think i use her cause im not like that HELP!!!!!!!!1

im18,x gf 16,gf 15(when i ahve sexualrelations iw as still 17 one day before my b-day)
i was 6 months depresed before i start dating again and i defently luv my x much more than my gf

i go out with her cause i though i never see my ex again now im screw really screw and i need ur help
and my ex-gf still luv the same way i know is true she even told wer she is moving and she egt happy cause my dad live there(my parents are divorced)

2007-12-08 14:19:16 · 9 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

theirselves for stupid things; One night stands, affairs, premarital sex, etc...I dont understand how it happened, i guess, is all.

I'm going to be 20 in July; Never smoked/ drank/ chewed once, am still a virgin (and will be), and, sadly, never had a gf, either..dont do wild parties, etc....am i the only one? It seems that way.

I'm just wordering if its my morals or my looks that hurt my chances of getting a decent girl. o_O

2007-12-08 14:18:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious to know what the thrill is and if its better than the real thing ?

2007-12-08 14:16:49 · 30 answers · asked by Alicia27 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you feel a man should bring to a marriage...?

ie-affection, trust, love? What makes a marriage last and I dont want any text book answers....

2007-12-08 14:16:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How many of you live under the curse of the Orange and the Green? How may of you know what it is?

2007-12-08 14:15:09 · 7 answers · asked by Mike S 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is obcessed with making my life miserable. I am so depressed, and almost homeless. When will it end? I wish I knew why he is doing this? It's as if he is from outer space. One minute he is fine......next minute, ca-plu-ee! Please......stop!

2007-12-08 14:11:05 · 3 answers · asked by reggie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

dear mom,

im sorry to say this, but i peed on the couch again. my boyfriend came over and we were "you know whating" on the couch, but i forgot to go potty first, and next thing u know, i lost control and peed all over the couch. pls dont be mad. i tried to clean it all up before u got home, but see, i thought i was grabbing the resolve stain remover, BUT i grabbed a bottle of ketchup out of the cupboard, and then when i went to go spray it, ketchup got everywhere, and i got so frustrated, that i said "to hell with it" and left it for u to clean up, since u are the master of cleaning!!! anyways, its been 4 hours already, and i know u wont be home until 1am, so the ketchup stain might really get tough in the fibers of the couch, but don't worry about it, because when u get home, u can come and wake me up, and i will come watch u clean the couch, so that next time this happens, i will know how to clean it right, and i wont need you to do it anymore. i promise. i love you, and dont be m

2007-12-08 14:10:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently met this guy from Yahoo Personals and we were talking about past relationships. Well, he told me he had an on again off again relationship with a married lady for about 10 months. He knew from the beginning that she was married..
I don't know..
I'm a very moral person (but not judgmental) I can let bygones be bygones..
but does this mean he has the tendency to cheat also?

2007-12-08 14:07:48 · 20 answers · asked by ^^ 2 in Singles & Dating

I believe in god but i'm not crazy about him. I don't necessarily believe in what people say about him either. but i do believe he exists. My gf is a hardcore Christian and goes to church every Sunday. She asked me to come with her tomorrow in the morning and i really didn't want to go to church so i declined it, i just don't feel comfortable in church, (lol i'm a devil child). Well yeah. How many of you people think it's okay not to go to church? and is what i did the right thing? Btw, i tell her not to bring friends with her or go out with friends on weekends so it's only our days and she still does.. so does that sorta even it out? eye for an eye sorta thing? I love her very much though.

2007-12-08 14:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

my motherinlaw is is nuts. icant stan to be in the same room with hir. my wife just has been baddeling a adiction problom for the last year. Hir mother set up some therpie with a family freind and it din't work becose the freind told my wife she did not have a problome and she would bee all set. My wife had a relaps and i set hir thepay up with a addiction concelar. i kept the mother inlaw infomed on what i was doing and have never had a call fom hir to check up on hy wife. she dose call my wife from time to time onley when she need sumthing! and my wife will drop everything and go runing. doring the first 4 weeks of my wife most recent sobritey she did not call hir or I at all. I Wint to sit the mother inlaw down and talk to hir ablout how she is efficting her dauder but i cont know if this is A good idear looking for any advise??? Should I just stay out of it ??

2007-12-08 14:05:01 · 6 answers · asked by irishfirefighter762 1 in Family

2007-12-08 14:03:33 · 14 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I frequently have thoughts, disturbing thoughts, of hurting my daughter,and i know in my heart that i would NEVER EVER EVER hurt her, but i cant shake the feeling of for example we will be outside on the patio, and i have a image of letting her fall from the second floor, know that im writting it out it sounds horribly wrong!! I dont want to hurt my baby,she's my heart i love her, but i wish that these thoughts would go away, i pray for them to go away, i dont want to go to counceling for fear of them taking the baby away from me.

What should i do?

2007-12-08 13:59:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

serious answers only please, have any dads out there been discriminated against by the bias british family courts? hearing after hearing another ajournment for a few more months cos of yet another unfounded allegation of harrassment or domestic violence/ 15 months 7 court appearances 6 different judges 9 unwarranted arrests all of which was based on unfounded allegations 1 or 2 weeks before the so called final contact hearing which leads to another ajournment .. what about caffcass the caffcass officer in charge of my case said in her reports that my son really missed me andc wanted to see me but still advised that i had psyciatric reports which took 3 months to do and also came back that i pose no danger to my 6 year old son and the court sent my ex wife a copy of my reports without my knowledge! another "final"hearing next friday and i see my ex"s house in the property guide for rent section and no forward address, whats your experiances dad"s?? good? bad? or totally unbelievable

2007-12-08 13:57:43 · 3 answers · asked by crin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My aunt & uncle are getting a divorce. My uncle is my moms brother. When my aunt moved out she was VERY rude and immature about it. Her and my cousins left all pictures and anything that was connected to my uncles side of the family. I am only 14 and knowing that she left things behind that I gave her/pictures etc. makes me feel angry and unwanted. As if she and my cousins don't love me anymore. I had some confidence and esteem issues before, but now I am hysterical. She is so caught up in her own little world she probably doesn't even know how much she is hurting me. How can I cope with this? And is it just me, or is it immature to do what she's doing?

2007-12-08 13:57:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this is confusing but here it goes


my x-gf we broke cause she was moving to ejrsey she is moving back i was like yay but i got a new girl and this new girl she gave her virginity as a birthday present i luv her but i luv my x-gf more i dont want my gf to think i use her cause im not like that HELP!!!!!!!!1

im18,x gf 16,gf 15(when i ahve sexualrelations iw as still 17 one day before my b-day)
i was 6 months depresed before i start dating again and i defently luv my x much more than my gf

i go out with her cause i though i never see my ex again now im screw really screw and i need ur help

2007-12-08 13:56:48 · 8 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

Lets call him "John". When we met a few years ago we were married to other people. Our (then) spouses were best friends at the time. John and I had an affair while I was in the midst of an ugly separation from my husband and John was still married to his wife. Our spouses soon found out, and within days afterwards John and I had stopped talking to each other. He went back to his wife to try and make things work so we backed away from each other completely. My husband and I began the proceeds for a divorce. It has been about 9 months since then, my ex and I are still going through a divorce and John and his wife separated within 3 months after the affair's discovery. John and I started talking again 2 months ago. He and I have had an incredible friendship and care very deeply for each other. I am unsure if we should just stay friends for now till our divorces are finalized or if we should just persue our happiness and a deeper relationship together, or nothing at all. What should I do?

2007-12-08 13:56:19 · 16 answers · asked by Intrigued 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I would call myself shy, i mean i'm extremely self-conscious and have a huge fear of rejection. I was told by my friend last week that the first time she met me, she thought i was stuck-up. This isn't the first time i've been told this, a guy a few years ago who i knew a bit told me when he was drunk that i'm stuck up. I get really hurt by this, i don't think i am. I'm just naturally nervous and reserved. Now there's this guy at college who i really like and i'm not sure but i think he might like me, i mean he looks at me and smiles a bit and acts kind of nervous around me. My friend told me the other day though that this girl who knows him says "he's stuck-up". This worried me a bit, but then i thought, well people think that about me and i'm not, and he seems really sweet. I mean he dresses well and plays with his hair a bit too much, but he's always on his own, he's like a loner...i'm kind of like that. But yeah, i guess i just wanted to ask whether you think shy people are stuck up

2007-12-08 13:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay....so, my boyfriend asked me what size I am.
What does this matter?? I mean, I am no size 2..thats for sure..but he was like..."Are you like a size 7?"....Um, NO, I'm not..but why would he ask???....?? I am like a size 14, by the way.

2007-12-08 13:55:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to help so badly. My dad has been 9 hours away for the last 2 months and just as he finally decided he couldn't avoid putting my grandpa in a nursing home (and put him in hospice) and came home for a weekend visit- my grandpa dies. My dad isn't handling it and I need to do something.

2007-12-08 13:55:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Share your story.
Or if you know a close friend that did something mean, or had something awful done to them, you can also share.

You don't have to mention names, and don't feel obligated to share anything you don't want to. I'm just in one of those moods, and want to read some stories.

Thanks!

2007-12-08 13:51:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I recently asked a question about homosexuals and other stuff like that. And I was surprised because just yesterday my friend confessed to me that she felt like she was lesbian before but now she's not because she fell for this guy and now she really loves him. I was like "WHAT?!?!?"

Well anyway...

She felt something else whenever she was with this girl in school. She wasn't sure if it was a crush but most likely, yeah. She just couldn't accept that she was lesbian because she felt that it was wrong to be one and God wouldn't accept it.

But when this guy came along who's a good friend of mine, he fell for her and then eventually she felt the same about him. Now she's not in any way attracted to girls. Could it be possible that she was lesbian before and now she's not?

Oh and we're not in college yet, just in high school.

2007-12-08 13:47:54 · 31 answers · asked by jenn :] 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 13:47:00 · 27 answers · asked by mr.wwe 1 in Weddings

There is a woman I work with who is extremely friendly with me in the workplace (hugging and going out to lunch). Anyway, she has made is clear that she is single and we are planning to spend the day together tomorrow. Well, we had a company celebration this evening and she shows up with a guy at this celebration and it is obvious from his point of view that he is interested in this girl. I mean, he was wearing the kind of outfit men would wear to pick up chicks at a night club or a date. Now, I'm suppose to spend the day with this girl tomorrow (which I plan to cancel). I'm probably in the friend zone, but could a girl please explain to me what happened? I'm kinda pissed right now.

Thanks!

2007-12-08 13:46:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah I know what it means. But like we're pretty close and we're friends and all and he does all the flirty stuff..but like why would he message me that!? lol?

2007-12-08 13:44:17 · 25 answers · asked by likeingtheworld 3 in Singles & Dating