What's the meanest thing that you've done to someone, or someone has done to you?

Question

Share your story.
Or if you know a close friend that did something mean, or had something awful done to them, you can also share.

You don't have to mention names, and don't feel obligated to share anything you don't want to. I'm just in one of those moods, and want to read some stories.

Thanks!

Answer 1

welll my cat got sick this one time, my brother said to lock it up in a closet until it got better, i said ok ya asshole

but nxt time u get sick im lockin you in a closet until you get better

my parents went out of town the next week and haha my brother got sick
so when he was still asllep i dragged him into a small closet with a bag of chips

i left him there fo 1 week
he was still sick when my parents got home

Answer 2

I'm old, so we are covering a lot of ground here. I've snapped at people who didn't deserve it when I was tired or angry about something else, I suppose, but the simply meanest thing I ever did, I think, was tease a girl in the 7th grade. I went to a small rural school, and there were few people in my class, however two were more popular than the rest of us. I was almost always on the "outside" looking in at these two "cool" girls. I found myself in the unusual position of being allied with them one afternoon when they decided to pick on a fourth girl. I took part, and have felt bad about it since! I have thought about looking her up and telling her I am sorry I joined in. She was really one of the sweetest people I had ever met, and there was no excuse for my behavior.

One of the cool girls married a boy a year younger than we were right out of high-school, and had, last I heard, 5 kids which after 15 years she was raising on her own. The other "cool girl" is on her second marriage, estranged from her own family.

Answer 3

Well, my Mom promised me co-ownership in our family business if I worked for her for less than we paid our employees, and I did this for five years, working 40-70 hour weeks, earning a 5% share of the business instead of wages for each year. After we more than doubled our sales and her income tripled, she decided to close the stores. She waited to tell me until right before we boarded a plane to New York for a buying trip so I couldn't get too upset. Then, when she realized how heartbroken I was, she once again lied and said that we would re-open the one location the following fall with a complete remodel and change of product line we had been discussing, and that was just a fib too, so I would keep working until closing day. She left the state two months earlier with me to close the family business. I never saw a dime of the money for my 25% "ownership" of the business. She said I was young and had lots of time to make it up, but she was close to retirement and needed it all.

I was mad for a long time, because that was what I really thought my life's work was to be, but it all turned out okay for me in the long run. I got married, have a different business of my own, and she is the one who is sorry she ever did this. My life is actually easier and better than it would be running the stores. I make good money, and none of it is tied to her. Her retirement money didn't last her long....she blew it in a few years, and is now working the rest of her life to pay for her lavish lifestyle in Arizona.

Moral of the story....be good and honest and live the Golden Rule, because what goes around really does come around.

Answer 4

The meanest thing ANYONE has ever done to me is spank my butt. It's sexual abuse (to me). I have been manipulated, back stabbed, stolen from countless times, had my heart stomped on countless times. Took it all like a man ( just like Jesus ).

THE MEANEST THING IN THE WORLD (because of its mixed messages and the powerlessness to stop it ) is to hit a kid on their butt, have a host of problems with it and be told by almost every AMERICAN citizen that a) it's not sex b)that kids deserve it c) that you're just a pervert, or need to be sexually fulfilled.
Seriously, is that how people solve problems? By demeaning people who care very much. Do you expect that people who "survived" such events would just do NOTHING when they see what they perceive as children being seriously hurt?
I perceive children as being seriously hurt, I know most don't. THAT'S WHY I'M TELLING YOU. I'm somebody's child, too, you know. and I'm having this same discussion with them as we speak.
spanking is alive and well in America, it's not a PC issue that super sensitive radicals just can't take. ( though I don't know why people hate super sensative so much...if you're hurt they know how to take care of you. Sometimes they're the only ones that will )

That's the worst anybody has ever made me feel. There is nothing like a child's trust of a parent going out the window because they didn't know how to care for you. There are worse homes to have been in...for sure...but comparing being raped to being raped 20 times and not having food on the table most nights is absurd. I'm not competing for who had a worse life growing up or currently.

Answer 5

My so called "friend" decided all the sudden one day she didn't like me, I'm not100% sure on what she did but i have an idea that she tryed to make my friends not like me && when we had to choose a sport for school, she tried to trick me into choosing a different sport....she was quite a bad friend, she always saw her self as more important than everyone else && if she had a small problem it was more important than anyone else.
I am so glad though for her jelous additute coz me && my best friend went out to the movies one weekend && she saw us there && then back at school on monday she went all quiet && the next day she had a major spaz coz she claimed she was being left out all the time, when she was the one leaving me out && trying to make my friends not like me scince then i haven't talked to her && i'm so glad coz she was the worst friend iv'e ever had in my life.
Thanks for reading my story =]

Answer 6

one of my friends was really mean b4, like around after Halloween. She invited me to g2 the home-coming football game w/ her, w/ a bunch of my other friends, and i said sure, im not doing anything that day, and 2 hours b4 the game, me and my other friend were putting the school colors on our faces, and such, and the first friend called, she didnt know i was there, so she starting talking bad about me, saying that i ruined her plans going, b/c there wasnt enough room in the car, and she was the one that invited me to go.....she was just being mean..idk, thats one of the meanest things i can think of at the moment..

Answer 7

hmm...one backstabber made me bullied by the girls in seniors years at junior high school. it's traumatizing, even until now. they're really mean! *actually it's not me alone* and it's worse since there arent too many students at my skool. and that backstabber made me a loner all years. and i never feel it's fun to be a junior high school student until all of those seniors graduated...

the newest is my ex. he hated me so much so that he doesnt hand me in my science project in bundle that the teacher give to him. it's ONLY MINE that left out. we all know the paper has to be corrected and submitted again to the teacher on the same day or i'll lose the points. and i searched trhough the skool, thinking it may be fall somewhere. even after broken up, he still made me cry! and fortunately his friend hand me my paper...

the meanest thing...
hmm...
maybe cursing ...
or sometimes saying sarcastic, sharp yet witty comments to people i dont like in front of them and making fun of them (thats funny for those who hear it)
or sometimes even bullying one of my junior at my skool... ooh...kissy boy! for a reason that i cant tell you here XD
too many to count...
but i don't do backstabbing because i was backstabbed more than couple of times by different friends in my junior highskool years...believe me. now my high skool years are really bright and fun anyway...
*bullying is hereditary* doh!

Answer 8

The meanest thing I did to someone was cheat on my wife....TWICE with 2 different females online(no contact). Me & My wife got 2 kids together and 3rd one coming up.
Let me tell everyone that even has a hint of the thought of cheating.....you don't know what you got till it's gone.

And you'll discover that the HARD WAY if & when you cheat on your loved one.

Answer 9

My friend told me that when I go with her, she SOMETIMES doesn't want me to, but I didn't know that she feels that way. So one time, when we and our other friends had a serious conversation, she told me that so I was kinda hurt but I didn't care for my feelings, I just go for the right thing and the proper one. I told her, so if you are not happy being with me, then I won't go with you anymore but she cried and said "No, I want to hang-out with you. That's why I didn't told you that because you'll stop hanging out with me."


Kinda awkward,huh?

Answer 10

in 6th grade, i got a haircut and it wasn't how i planned it out to be...
it didn't look bad, but it didn't look good either.
my *best friend* told me she loved my hair and then told all my *friends* that she hated it. i got called nicknames and got death glares the whole day. at lunch they moved to a different table, at recess, they got in a circle and looked at me and laughed, and it was pretty bad the rest of the day. i had to go home early that day because i was so upset and i realized that they had been pulling stuff like that on me since 4th grade. the next year i went to a different school and i've never been happier.

immature, huh?
but hey, in the end it turned out pretty cool

Answer 11

A really neat guy got me sober.
He has never met me just over the phone and he cared enough about me and my kids to get me sober. I love him like an older Brother now. And I still haven't met him but I hope to