Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

I got married 2 weeks ago and married life is great. My problem is my Husband and i have not had sex since Feb 2006!! I posted a questin on here about it a few months ago and with the help of that i manged to get him to see a dr and ha has now been reffered to a phyciatrist (we are just waitng for the appointment to come through). But i dont know who i can talk to about how its affecting me. I cant help thinking it me even though he has told me its nothing to do with me. I caught him looking at porn the other night which really doesnt help my feelings. Some days im ok and think that at least if he is looking at porn its not a physical problem but other days i spent the entire day at work trying not to burst into tears!
I love him so much and just want him to get better. we both want children, and he has said he would like me to be pregnant by this time next year!
Sorry its so long. And thanks in advance

2007-12-08 21:59:35 · 21 answers · asked by lucy m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Yes she did.

2007-12-08 21:52:03 · 7 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Marriage & Divorce

your dad if you find out that he is not your biological father?

How would you go about that? Do you need legal documents?

2007-12-08 21:49:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to know the saves time to have sex.please help because i don't know much about women menstration cycle.thanks for your help and deciding to sharing your knowlegde with me

2007-12-08 21:42:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So how do you tell the difference?

2007-12-08 21:41:30 · 9 answers · asked by STRESSED spells DESSERTS 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not a cheap person. I spend money like there is no tomorrow. But when it comes to dating i feel alot of women out there sometimes go out simply to get a free meal from a guy. I have actually had female friends who have stopped talking to me because i refused to pay for their dinner. Once or twice was enough and as soon as they realized they could freeload anymore they left. I believe a woman should be treated like a woman, and in my opinion if women want to be treated as equals (i believe they are equals) then they should provide equally. By this i mean when it comes to dinner or having drinks, either pay 50-50, or alternate who pays. In the end, the reason i date is because i want a partner, not a dependant.

2007-12-08 21:39:01 · 18 answers · asked by mars_23 2 in Singles & Dating

im 14 years old. Im a boy. You can say im a Mummy's Boy. I always wonder what happens when my Mummy pass away in the future... Whats gonna happen to me? Will i get to see her again? How am i gonna survive without her? I always think of that that i get worried sick for no reason. Please help me... **tears welling up**

please help me for those who have the experiences.

2007-12-08 21:36:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It takes me ages to get to know people but i travel a lot with work so i don't get that time. Also, spending ages in the company of my male work friends believe it or not can get very boring!! I'm NOT looking for sex just company and the chance to have a laugh and a chat. What do i do??

2007-12-08 21:34:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 21:32:38 · 26 answers · asked by scsspace 3 in Family

I've been with my man for 15 years and we've no children. However I've met someone that's awoken me from what I can only describe as a living coma. He's perfect and last week I told my partner I was leaving (I've not been happy for a while and we live two very different lives). I made no mention of my new love for fear that it would destroy him however I'm now riddled in guilt. The guilt lies with the fact that leaving will destroy him. He's a sensative guy and I know leaving him would finish him off (even though the house is rented he could'nt cope with the bills, rent, etc) and on top on that he runs his own small business which in turn would suffer. In sumary I think leaving would cause some kind of emotional breakdown that might lead to god knows what.

Is it selfish to be happy just once in my life for me?

2007-12-08 21:31:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hiii frnds.....
My online frnd proposed me in d march of this year....
i too loved him... bt didnt xpress due to fear, as he is a ol frnd n nt knowing wthr he is correct or not...Bt i love him n he too know tht... so ven i was abt to xpres my love.. i was known by his frnd tht he already has an affair n i too found tht its true n talkd to tht girl ... ven i askd him abt his affair...he said tht it happnd previously...bt i love u n need a life vth u....
1 thng is.... vch i was unable to make it out is whethr he really loves me ... or....
bt i love him a lot... n pray 4 him to lead a happy life....

2007-12-08 21:30:54 · 3 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Friends

when i was in grade 4, i got it, but i didn't understand because it was in my 2nd language
is it safe enough to gain knowledge from porn stars by watching them act it out because that's how i got to know at least the main positive and negative part of it

2007-12-08 21:26:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

consider this.. a woman, married, knows that i want her only for lustful intentions, still insists on me going to a club with her. when i meet her. she flirts with me hard. rubs my legs, plays with my hair.. but she didnt wanna come home with me. she said that would be for the 2nd or 3rd time we hang out.. why is she doing this? and is it wrong for me to continue to hang out with her. frankly i thought it was digusting.. but of course me being a single person, i went along with it. she does have a friend.. that is married.. and has a little "boy toy" her self.. please give me some insight...

2007-12-08 21:26:19 · 14 answers · asked by Daniel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay..my boyfriend broke up with me since our relationship was on the rocks. although he told me that he'd like us to start over again, but it's going to be hard for me to go about my daily routine since we're classmates. i need some help here. i really don't know how to deal with a situation like this.

2007-12-08 21:20:42 · 6 answers · asked by darkwillow 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There are 2 kinds of men, which one women prefer
One is, Bachelor,but slept with many
2nd Married to one and Divorced

Who is better ....?
then
I seen in many women online ADs, that they are not interested in Divorced men.... WHY ?

2007-12-08 21:17:25 · 9 answers · asked by 498A_Crusader 3 in Marriage & Divorce

after marriage I understand that in my husbands house in room where i started my married life is not mine & that room is of my smallest brother in law so what shall i do on this ? isn"t it it is fraud with me?

2007-12-08 21:14:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there's a photo of my Mum when she was in high school in the front room(lounge) and she looks exactly like me only she's got long hair, a bigger chest and is wearing a dress.
God I know I'm gonna have some resembulence to my Mum but how come in the photo she looks exactly the sameas me only she's the female version, I mean what's happened to all the thing I got from my Dad, the only thing I have from him is his taste in women and his intellegence?

2007-12-08 21:14:50 · 25 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Family

2007-12-08 21:07:20 · 11 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i still want to be with him even though he is running away from me, i have two kids we both love them,and even after so many years i still love him. he wants to have a single life,re live the years he has lost being with me.i m clueless why i want to hang on,can someone help me

2007-12-08 21:05:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am being bullied at school by people who i thought were my friends.it started with one boy then others joined in.
i dont want to speak to my parents because i cant trust them and i dont want to speark to my teachers or hoy because i have no proof coz they all gang up on me

the reason is because
i like vidio games even though i am a girl
i like pokemon
i used to have a boyfriend and i dumped him because i told him i dident deserve him
because i like to draw but i can only draw boys

i need some suggestions on what to do?????????

2007-12-08 20:58:33 · 12 answers · asked by Katie Cousins 4 in Friends

well i have an ex-boyfriend whom I have 3 children with and now he has got her pregnant and he does not bother seeing his own kids and does not do anythng for his kids and she has a child and he does everything for them and I get really pissed off about it what should I do please help

2007-12-08 20:57:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my husband but he is so controling. He gets upset at me for every little thing. Constanly throwing divorce in my face. Kicking my son and I out of our home. Distroying all of my personal belongings then urinating on them. He is also a sex addict not with me though. He has the biggest collection of porno I have ever seen and is in the strip club latley every night. Just to socialize he says. He was fired from his job about a year and a half ago and has been struggling with mental issues ever since. I try to get him help but he is to stuborn and won't get the help he needs. When ever I try to talk about any of this its all my fault or he finds some way to change the subject. What ever it is he is the victim. I love him so much and if he is truly sick he needs help and I don't know if I could leave him in his time of need. He is so manipulative I think if I turned him saying he is crazy they would think I am. We have been married for such a sort time is it to soon to give up? HELP

2007-12-08 20:52:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-08 20:47:55 · 5 answers · asked by alam g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a partner. He is japanese. He is married but they stop their relationships almost 10years ago, no talk, no sex. But these past few weeks they have communication in personal I think it's because of their son who past away 2weeks ago. I am worried.. What if he's wife demand against us, what will happen to me? Will i win or not? Or she has rights to demand us even no sex almost 10years?

sorry for my english but please try to understand... I am very very paranoid.... We live-in almost 6years and we have son now, he's just 3weeks old. I don't know what to do. I love my partner so much, and it is difficult for me to do separate because we already have a son. Please give me advise. plz. plz

2007-12-08 20:29:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

men and women were only allowed to have sex with one person. Say you get married and attempt to cheat, and the man goes limp of he attempts to cheat or some sort of bodily function happens to where he is incapable of performing, but when he's with his wife/girlfriend, everything works properly. With women, if we attempt to have sex with anyone except the person that were with, we close up and become too tight, to the point where we just can't do it. Do you think the world would become a violent place with alot of frustrated people or what?

Give me a detailed scenario of what you think would happen if we were all biologically forced to be faithful. LMAO!

2007-12-08 20:27:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-08 20:20:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have only been boyfriend & girlfriend for like 4 days. But he really likes me & I never felt anything for him in the first place. I still love my ex.

We are 15.

I don't want a lecture. Just a simple sentence saying exactly what to tell him.'

Thanks

2007-12-08 20:10:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a junior in college and have never had as much trouble figuring out a guy before this one. He is always willing to do anything for me, flirts continuously, puts a lot of hints that he's interested, and is always willing to hang out. Absolutely EVERYONE that is around us notices this, and keeps asking me when we're going to get together.

What's the problem? He won't make a move. Then tonight, I was a little tipsey and was texting him and I said I have to tell you something later. His reply was, "As long as it's not confessing your undying love." Is that a joke, or did he really mean that? I really don't get that at all. Ecspecially since last night we spent the whole night watching movies and cuddling. I don't get it. Please help? What should I do? What did he mean by this?

2007-12-08 20:03:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am Indian i like this white girl how do i get her she have blue eyes and blond hair she is british i am indian please help!!

2007-12-08 20:02:07 · 23 answers · asked by Brahmin-Hindu 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 19:55:01 · 7 answers · asked by jason_lockhart2000 1 in Singles & Dating