how to deal with bullying?

Question

I am being bullied at school by people who i thought were my friends.it started with one boy then others joined in.
i dont want to speak to my parents because i cant trust them and i dont want to speark to my teachers or hoy because i have no proof coz they all gang up on me

the reason is because
i like vidio games even though i am a girl
i like pokemon
i used to have a boyfriend and i dumped him because i told him i dident deserve him
because i like to draw but i can only draw boys

i need some suggestions on what to do?????????

Answer 1

I'm a girl, I like video games and I can only really draw boys. Theres nothing wrong with that. I'm even into comic books and boybands and sonic the hedgehog. The bullys are just jealous of you. Totally jealous because they are insecure with there own lives. When people make fun of you the best thing to do is to tell someone. Even if you have no proof, your teacher can sort it out. If she doesn't, when the bullys come up to you and threaten you n such just say 'at least i'm not ugly like you' or something. Or just scream LOL. Yeah, i used to be bullied but when they came to beat me up, i kicked them in the place where you dont want to be kicked and told them to leave me alone. They stopped then. And because i was good, when the bullys told the teacher that i'd kicked them, she didnt believe them because i was never naughty. I'd advise you to tell someone thouhg, maybe your sister or brother or friends.

Answer 2

Hey im a girl and like video games and pokemon, there's also nothing wrong with being able to only draw boys, it might be a gift others dont have, and if you dumped your boyfriend there must have been a good reason for that.
What you need to do is fire back if your bullied, dig up some dirt on your bullies and the next time they come play with their mentality. Its got to stop, so try that or ignoring them which is much more decent.
If it still doesnt stop video tape them bullying you or tell a friend and show it as proof to your parent or teacher. You' ve to pick up your courage though.

Answer 3

You're kindof a shy artsy type? I was too. Didn't fit in too well with the cliques. You're an independant person with a mind of your own. Be proud that you're not following the crowd like all of the other students.

Some tips: Avoid the bullies, find a friend to walk with, ignore their words, don't react to their words, walk away...if none of this works you may need to talk with an adult. Make them take you seriously by explaining how this is effecting you.

Keep in mind that time goes much faster than you think. Before you know it, school will be over, the bullying will end, next year is another ball game. Try to make one or two good friends who you can really share things with.

Sorry you're going through this.

Answer 4

I'm guessing they're calling you a lesbian right?
I'm guessing the one boy who started it was your ex boyfriend who you dumped?
Bullying is nasty, animal behaviour, often based on jealousy. If it was your ex who started it, it was probably his way of coping with being dumped "oh she doesn't want me, she must be a lesbian" ie nothing to do with any faults he has. And listen, even if you are, that doesn't give them an excuse to bully you.
Nothing wrong with any of the "reasons" you've given. What's wrong with a girl liking video games?? I know it's really hard, but you're going to have to get new friends and you're also going to have to tell your parents. I know you think it will make things worse, but it really won't. That's the very thing with bullying, they try and make you feel small, almost like you "deserve" it - rise above it and get it out in the open, not closed in where it can fester. You need support, you won't get it being quiet. It won't stop that way. Truly. You deserve better and your parents love you (regardless), don't be ashamed to admit to the bullying. It is NOT your fault.
Also, you say you don't have proof. When it happens make sure you write down times and dates and what was said, that way it looks more plausible. Rather than saying "I'm bullied at school" you can say on Tues 11th at second break, Sarah and Andy said "***".
Hope that helps
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Answer 5

I don't see why they do that. If they gang up on you try and walk away just ignore them. If they are really bad friends why do you bother hanging around with them. Try and make new friends. if it is hard try and go to the bully and say why do you always gang up on me. Tell them or he to stop immediately. If not tell him that there will be concenqenses. Sorry for the spelling. take care.
Ps If you live in Australia Plz call Kids Help Line 1800551800

Answer 6

is it physical or just with words if they are physically bullying u, u need to talk to ur hoy but if there only teasing u just try to ignor them and they should stop ot they are only doing it for a reaction.

u can always call kids help line on 1800 55 1800 and talk to an experienced counciler they will provide u with some stratagies to avoid the bullying

Answer 7

I know how you feel i was bullied loads at school and it was the worse time off my life the worst thing to do is leave coz of it i did i left with no exam results and it the worst thing i could off done, i find it so hard to find a job now they look at you like a idiot when you tell them you have no GCSEs. but i do look back now and with how mush better my life is because off it i am a stronger person and i have a 3 year old son i recon my life has turned out better then theres.

Answer 8

Look the first thing you need to do get some self confidence and stick up for yourself and i don't mean go shoot them. there are other ways to solve your problems and if they are really your friend then why do they pick on you. Maybe you should find some new friends. But i have dealt with bully's before and one day i got fed up with it and i told them to go F#%K themselfs and if they kep it up i would make them shut up. How do you Beat a Bully you become one, but only to the ones that diserve it. Other than that you need to tell some one about it B/c if you don't it's going to bield up inside you and eventualy you will exeplode.

Answer 9

Sometimes, what you need is a friend. Have a friend help you around school to avoid them.

If avoiding them doesn't help, then try confronting them and telling them how you don't like what they are doing, and if they resist from your attempt to cease them, then please, I urge you to talk with an adult/parent/guardian. It doesn't have to be your parent, but bullying should be taken seriously by any adult in charge. Right?

Answer 10

You have to tell someone about it before it will be too late because, they would never stop bulling you if there is no action taken against it.