Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

Ok, well there is this guy that i still love. we broke up because i cheated on him with my ex, and i told him. he was ok with it at first because i told him, but then he left me for another girl. i know he was still mad at me, i'm not stupid. well he got with her, and they had sex(we never did, and we were together for a year.) and he got her pregnet. now there getting married in a week and a half, and i dont know what to do. i still love him and i've left him alone for about 4 months and kept telling myself to leave him alone because hes happy now.

but i dont like this girl. i think that it is pretty weird that she just got out of a bad relationship with a guy and went for my guy(who would do anything to make a girl happy, he's just one of those guys) and convinced him to have sex with her right off the bat. i dont like her. she is just the rebound girl and my ex thinks he loves him. everyone who knows them dont think that she loves him.
what should i do? stop the wedding? what?

2007-12-08 17:21:09 · 17 answers · asked by u2crazy4meh 2 in Weddings

we usually speak every day or every other day, but the longest it has lasted is five minutes, and im not sure if he knows my last name! we text, but dont speak on the phone, can i say hey do you want to chill at my house? i mean i just want to do homework or watch stupid movies, i dont want to lead him on or be suggestive...is it best to invite someone else along too?

2007-12-08 17:20:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Explain why ?

2007-12-08 17:18:30 · 7 answers · asked by Joy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

we're on a date when this disater happen. while i was fooling around i grabbed his wallet and saw a picture of his ex-girlfriend. i was totally shocked. i was really hurt,but i didn't cry. this scenario happens 3 years ago.but still can't get over it,still the pain is here.

2007-12-08 17:17:49 · 13 answers · asked by dwayne_ratz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been in a lesbian relationship for a year and half. In that we've had several small break ups and huge fights. She has even got violent with me. But I love her as the same day, even though she is the first girl I have date. Now we've decided to take sometime, after she told me our relationship had become ****. Does this mean it's over? It's ok to love a person that hurts you?

2007-12-08 17:17:22 · 2 answers · asked by jiji(*):D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

(what about if he is handsome and desperate?)

2007-12-08 17:15:47 · 31 answers · asked by Sailor Rick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 17:14:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to a girl for about 2 months now, and unfortunatly, she lives out of state. She really cares about me to the point that she is willing to leave her state to move here to be with me. I havent spoken to her in over 2 weeks now because of our work schedules have been all screwy. Since officially we are not dating I have been with other girls. I met a girl last night that I like, but yet again she lives not out of state but a few hours aways from me (7 hours to be specific).
The girl that I have been talking to will be down the day after my birthday to spend time with me. Should I continue to live this way? I mean I dont want her to move down here in vain. Whats the correct course of action I should take in this matter?

Do not reply hatefully, just honestly please.

2007-12-08 17:14:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy im with im not sure that he is into me or have another girl on the side!he comes to my house to see me and we talk and stuff. he used to have his cell phone on vibrate cuz he gets alot of calls, but now he puts it on silent and he dosnt let me see it.we started going out 1 and a half months ago and he just acts so weird. tonight i text him to see if he was awake he was then i asked him y isnt he calling me the, after that he said that he was going to sleep now, its like he didnt wanna talk to me, or he was just really tired... he goes to college mon-fri.he goes to work at 6am then leaves at 4pm, i should have call him earlier but i had to work.....ahhhhhhhhhhhh so confused!

2007-12-08 17:11:05 · 11 answers · asked by Portiá 5 in Singles & Dating

He is 19 years old and has NEVER SEEN HIS CHECK BOOK that he has had since he was 16!! And his mom has had his savings account since he was 10. I'm don't at all think its a bad thing that she wouldn't let him spend his savings because it teaches responciblity but now he's a grown man and graduating college this year! HIS TRUCK is in her name, HIS bank accounts are in HER name. He has to ask permission to see me, leave the house, hang out with friends. The other day he told her that he's moving out this summer after he graduates college and she said "OH NO YOU ARE NOT!!" and complains that when he talks like that her heart hurts and he causes her heart problems. I'm 18 and we' ve been together over a year now and she informed me that she wants her first grandchild before she's 50 and she's 46! I was also informed she will be in the delivery room. Every paycheck he gets she makes him give to her and can only spend what she gives him for the week. She's starting in on me now! HELP

2007-12-08 17:02:01 · 6 answers · asked by Bailey G 2 in Family

My boyfriend and I would like to move in together. We have been dating 3.5 years. We want to be financial stable and ready to get married at least a year after living together/. Whjat would be a decent amount of money to have save up before living together?

2007-12-08 17:01:19 · 12 answers · asked by J'adore 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-08 16:58:30 · 16 answers · asked by movenpick 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well im in the 7th grade. shes in the 8th. she is emo. and is very beautiful. im just a normal kid. we are both popular. and i like her. alot. should i tell her? ive been talking to my cousin bout it and she told her that i like her. but i havent told her personally. she seems to give vague clues on i.m like on an away message "boy, i want to know how you really feel". but i dont know if its me that shes talking about.bonus: shes my middle school basketball coaches daughter :P

2007-12-08 16:56:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Several months ago I was playing an online game. This man started chatting with me. We exchanged email addresses and then started chatting. From day one he was very flirty. I let him know right away that I am not interested in romance at this time in my life. It got to where every time I got online, he had left me an off line message and he would always end it with xoxoxox. So, I told him that it made me uncomfortable that he was leaving me so many messages and we'd only chatted a couple times. He apologized and said he wouldn't do it again. Then he stopped talking to me completely. So, I IM's him one day and told him it was ok for him to say hello. Soon, he was back to flirtting. The other day I reminded him that I am not interested in romance right now, and again..he was very polite and respectful, but now he ignores me unless I im him. What's up? Can't a man have an online woman friend? We have never even talked. Keep in mind, he first started chatting with me.

2007-12-08 16:54:27 · 4 answers · asked by ceegt 6 in Singles & Dating

i truely love my bf and want to take it to the next level but what IS the next level and how do i take it to the next level. we've been 2gether 4 bout 2 months. plz help me =] WITHOUT FU.CKING HIM JUST YET

2007-12-08 16:54:00 · 3 answers · asked by Jade 1 in Singles & Dating

An attractive woman with a perfect figure and really really big boobs (but has got no brains), a health-freak who munches on carrot sticks (she doesn't like to be taken out to eat because it will ruin her diet), a plus-sized girl not afraid to gorge herself now and then (she acts like a pig and is not in the least embarrassed about it), an academic who is always into her books (and doesn't even look at you), a goth who hates everyone or an emo who hates herself? Choose one; no answering 'none of the above'.

2007-12-08 16:53:50 · 4 answers · asked by Kapes 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 16:53:09 · 12 answers · asked by 1/6,833,020,409 5 in Marriage & Divorce

If an alcohlic is lying about sometime should the non-alcohlic confront they about the lie. I am never sure if I should telll my boyfriend I know he is lying or not. I mean what's the point he is going to lie anyway. Causing me even more frustration.

2007-12-08 16:49:18 · 7 answers · asked by going to the dogs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's the holidays and i decided to get a gift for a girl that I am very close with. We are not dating because of parents but have really strong feelings for each other.

Now that you know the basic story heres the question: I bought her a $45 makeup box/kit from a store called sephora and also a $50 gift card to the same place, is that too much to give her? If it is what should i drop out of the gift? Thanks everybody in advance

2007-12-08 16:48:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been many a time but never again. Dam I was such a fool.

2007-12-08 16:46:44 · 4 answers · asked by D 7 in Singles & Dating

And followed through with it?
My ex did!

2007-12-08 16:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would u rather..
A-be stuck on a life raft with lots of supplies but only yourself?
or
B- be on the same raft with little supplies but have your1 true love with you?

.......................

C- die without seeing the Mona Lisa?
or
D- die being a virgin?

....................................

E- get a wii and 1 mill $ for christmas but not be able to spend it with your family?
or
F- get nothing for christmas but be with your family....

write your answers and why you chose them below, then PLEASE MOVE ON TO ANSWER THE OTHER QUESTIONS I ASKED!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-08 16:45:20 · 19 answers · asked by gillooloo_2007 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 16:43:58 · 6 answers · asked by jengtris 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm due in two weeks, and I'm thinking about asking my fiance to leave after the baby comes. He's been totally disinterested in my pregnancy, though getting pregnant was his idea. His cleaning skills don't exist and he only cooks when he wants to. Even after I got put on bedrest due to preeclampsia, I have to get up to cook and clean a little, otherwise the house is embarrassingly dirty when my sisters come by to help. One of the last straws was when he decided to spend $2000 for a new tv/audio set up at Thanksgiving. I've been struggling financially for a while, and he's been contributing little to the bills. Turns out he was saving up for that! I give 90% of every check to the house and he gives 50% of ONE check a month, and extra only when he can "afford it." Thing is, I feel bad because I've been putting up with it thus far, how can I gripe now that I've realized that he's just worthless? I feel like I may as well be living alone. I'd probably be better off in the long run.

2007-12-08 16:42:23 · 13 answers · asked by laffitupfzbl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend of seven years just broke up. She broke up with me because i had been going down a downward spiral for the last 2 months. I had not been supporting her as i should have, putting myself before her and neglecting her needs. I really didnt mean any of this as i was caught up in my school and stuff. I remember her calling and i would have to go. All i really wanted was to talk to her for hours. I guess she saw that i wasnt a person that could be in control. I was going to propose to her on chrsitmas and i had alot planned prior to that. She had Field Hockey all fall semester so when she saw me it was late for a couple hours we were both cranky and tired. We never got to talk about things or go out on good dates. She wants to date other people and shes telling me she does not want a relationship with me. I love her so much it hurts. Right now shes enjoying herself it sounds like. Can she still have feelings for me? Can she still give me a second chance?

2007-12-08 16:42:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

these days its what my wife will be telling her sister

2007-12-08 16:41:42 · 23 answers · asked by Billy Hughes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I am 14 and my parents are practically Nazis, because I can hardly do anything without thei consent. Long story short, pretty much every other person in my grade go out on dates, and a couple of gils have even asked me out on dates, but my parents won't even let me go to the mall by myself. Am I missing something? Do I need to prove something to them?

2007-12-08 16:40:38 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she wrote:
you are a really nice and sexy friend of mine...
even better because u are not like the other guys and your honest.

we just met this school year. the text message was kind of random, and the girl i was dating broke up with me last week so the girl that sent me the message knows i am available.

2007-12-08 16:39:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is Sunday morning in this part of the world,Saterday evening in other parts, what are you all doing? Do tell me if you do not mind. Me? I am thinking of you.

2007-12-08 16:37:49 · 10 answers · asked by maram 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

He said that hes not sure if its his but the girl told him when she found out that he was marreid and had 2 kids that he could go back to his family and that he would never hear from her again what can i do its the 2nd time he cheated on me i need lots of advice please help?

2007-12-08 16:34:46 · 32 answers · asked by Nora+ 1 in Marriage & Divorce