My girlfriend of seven years just broke up. She broke up with me because i had been going down a downward spiral for the last 2 months. I had not been supporting her as i should have, putting myself before her and neglecting her needs. I really didnt mean any of this as i was caught up in my school and stuff. I remember her calling and i would have to go. All i really wanted was to talk to her for hours. I guess she saw that i wasnt a person that could be in control. I was going to propose to her on chrsitmas and i had alot planned prior to that. She had Field Hockey all fall semester so when she saw me it was late for a couple hours we were both cranky and tired. We never got to talk about things or go out on good dates. She wants to date other people and shes telling me she does not want a relationship with me. I love her so much it hurts. Right now shes enjoying herself it sounds like. Can she still have feelings for me? Can she still give me a second chance?
2007-12-08 16:42:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
.It appears you screwed up and she flew away . I doubt she cares for you. The way you described your last few encounters all you did was fight , Sorry bub, it's hard to take but she is looking for someone completely different this time
2007-12-08 16:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is to just be there for her. If she says that she doesn't want a relationship with you then telling her that you love her and everything is only going to push her further away. You have to be her best friend. This is where the whole "try hard without looking like your trying" comes in. You have to start going out of your way to be there for her when she needs you. It's going to be hard at first. I know. I've been there. But it's just something you have to do. You have to be that guy she fell in love with 7 years ago. You have to be her best friend. The one that she feels safe with. The one that she can tell anything to. But you canNOT show your emotion if she does go out on a date with another guy. You have to be very supportive of her and whatever she decides or she's just going to keep running. If she wants space then you have to give it to her, but don't give up because I'm sure she could always use a good friend. Especially one that knows her as well as you probably do. Good luck!! I hope everything turns out great!!
2007-12-08 16:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by Darrel D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in time, you can. Keep in touch with her. It seems that she may need a break but she may realize how much she misses you down the road. Don't give up, just yet. It may take months or even a year to determine if you will be together again. Take the time to relax and do some of the things you were meaning to do but didn't because of time constraints. That way if you get her back you will have a few less things to share your time with.
2007-12-08 16:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by 사파이어 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Tim,
Christmas is still 2 weeks away. Enough time to choose a better girl friend and propose. Be positive. Have fun. Enjoy life.
2007-12-08 16:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Cooooool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have toooooo much going on... live your lives be friends with noooo strings and just LIKE each other..... nothing else if all that is in tackt there is not much more to worry about....life will happen for BOTH of you together or you will grow and live apart....knowing each other as intimate friends....and that never goes away for either of you....you never forget each other,,, trust me
2007-12-08 16:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by debbie e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time...act like your havin a good time even if your not cause if she sees your doing bad she's probably gonna think you need her and make you want her even more..so she'll keep you waiting more..after a while call her up and go out on a date and do something exciting.
2007-12-08 16:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time and see what happens. It really sounds like you were both too busy for each other.
2007-12-08 16:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really like her, and you can show how much u love her, i think she will give u a second chance! good luck XD
2007-12-08 16:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Avril Lavigne RULES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat how you would treat a new g.f. you know...go out on dates give her flowers send her cards or what ever. call her all the time, tell her she is sexy, you get the point. but dont smother her
2007-12-08 16:48:37 · answer #9 · answered by (¯`*•.(¯`*•.♥LeesaM♥.•*´¯).•*´¯) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course after 7 yrs...she probably still does...but if yall havent talked things out how does she how u feel? so go talk to her...and explain urself....she might give u another chance.....i would if i was her
2007-12-08 16:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋