we're on a date when this disater happen. while i was fooling around i grabbed his wallet and saw a picture of his ex-girlfriend. i was totally shocked. i was really hurt,but i didn't cry. this scenario happens 3 years ago.but still can't get over it,still the pain is here.
2007-12-08 17:17:49 · 13 answers · asked by dwayne_ratz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it was 3 years ago and you are still bothered by it, then you need to grow up. If at that time the relationship was new he would probably not have gotten rid of old pictures yet. If you had been going out for a while and were serious then you should have handled it then. Don't hold on to it for 3 years and then ask about here.
2007-12-08 17:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by just me 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
toddler, so what. I understand, nevertheless, the form you sense and as women human beings, we are continually comparing. He won't even understand he has those, yet do no longer throw them away! And once you're making a huge deal, then he's gonna opt to maintain them after which you will truly be pissed. So, this has been an entire 3 hundred and sixty 5 days and additionally you purely got here upon them? guy, I snoop waaaayy to plenty, I gotta provide up! i got here upon a photograph of my chum's ex spouse. She became very very perfect. In some strategies, i think of I want her, yet she's perfect too! even nevertheless, i'm additionally perfect and that i've got plenty to furnish him. it fairly is why while i attempted to interrupt it off and shrink all ties, he referred to as my mothers and dads and my siblings! So, relax certain which you bf is into you. I doubt he's taking those pictures out and daydreams approximately them on a on a regular basis foundation, stunning? you will have observed after a 300 and sixty 5 days. If he did run into it, he would be like "ok that became a exciting memory. Now I easily have this life." you're with him now, toddler, no longer her. And adult males like seen yet you defined your self as customary? you are able to desire to describe your self as "warm"!! Have that mentality! I do!
2016-11-14 23:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me 3 days to cry after I found a love letter that he never sent and also said he looks at her picture all the time. I found the picture and it devastated me. This was after 5 years of being together. I discovered he was still carrying her in his heart. I was gone before a year was up. It was a bit much for me.
2007-12-08 17:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by 4Seasons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened 3 years ago? Then what's the problem. The picture isn't still in his wallet anymore, right? If it's still in there then there's a problem... otherwise you should just forget about it, it happened 3 years ago! Everyone makes mistakes... as long as the mistake isn't still in his wallet.
2007-12-08 17:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont fret over it. My boyfriend of over two years had a picture of his ex-girlfriend in his wallet as well but when I confronted him about it, he merely shrugged and said he was too lazy to get it out. He did and we're still going strong.
2007-12-08 17:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wasn't over her... maybe he's over her now, i am the type of person that throws out a lot of things... my sister likes to save a lot of things from past relationships and I just throw everything away, it's kinda like a cleansing process and it really does feel good and it comes at the point when i am ready to move on.... i had to put my dog to sleep last christmas and even though it's not like a love relationship it was really hard to let go of him cause he was like my son, it took me 10 months to throw away his leash and collar and pics of him and what I bought him for christmas but I am ready to move on now and I have a new dog and love him like no other... it's what works for me :D but i think that you should take about it, especially if it hurts you so much
2007-12-08 17:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Tano A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 years ago? does he still have the picture til this day? I think he still thinks of her....why else would he keep the picture? he would have gotten rid of it a long time ago if he didn't care about her anymore..
2007-12-08 17:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
am sorry but he need to get rid of this throw it away or put it away in a box, if your the one for him he does not need any pics of ex's at all, its going to be hard for you knowing that pic is there, the past is over he has to focus on your relationship now. good luck
2007-12-08 17:21:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
, dear young lady, you brought that problem on yourself
by doing something you never should have done, grabbing
his wallett. your going together 3 years later, there should be no pain. moral of the story, do not snoop around.
2007-12-08 17:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
r u still with him? talk to him about it. be open. tell him it bugs u and ask him if he could take it out
2007-12-08 17:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by ♥MelissaMuffin♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋