Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

My husband's a Peds Dr., working a very heavy schedule this month. He rarely has been home for dinner or to help put our two kids to bed. I have been pretty understanding about that, until yesterday, when he wanted to take a few hours out of his very rare day off and help out his female cousin who recently delivered healthy twins. She is very sweet but pretty high maintence. She insists that my husband be her bablies' personal pediatrician, to go over there to examine the babies. He even bought a baby scale out of our pocket to weigh the babies. Anyway she asked that he go over and help her weigh the babies and show her how to give them a bath. I felt this was an unreasonable request and got quite upset that my husband was going to spend half the day over there considering the following cirumstances: This 37yr-old cousin is residing with 6 other adults, one of whom is her husband, a surgeon. My husband decided not to go, but is sulking about it and says I am being petty. Am I?

2007-12-08 01:22:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother is happily married with a great family background. I'm the only child, and she's been married to my dad for a very long time. Recently, she started a new job in July. At dinner, she always tells me the nice things her boss does for her. The first time I heard, I knew something was up with him.

She says he buys her lunch all the time. He gives her brownies and things to give to us. He's always calling her at her desk or cracking jokes. Holding doors, nice gestures. All kinds of really nice things. I'm only 16, so I don't know how adults handle these things. At the dinner table, I gave my dad a look like "something is up" and he returned the expression.

Do you think I'm overreacting and that he's just a nice man? I'm just afraid. She always talks nice about him.

2007-12-08 01:13:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiend is an official and rich, married and having children. he is good enough, but he is in the nature of not seeing anybody face to face.. if anyone subordinate or visitor or customer comes, he will ask them to sit. when talks begin, he will turn his face to left or right. he hears patiently and will send them back. After they left, his face comes to normal direction.. why this?

2007-12-08 01:12:57 · 1 answers · asked by Tamil from Vellore 7 in Friends

i have thongs!
and i wear them, but how do i show off my thong in front of my boyfriend!!1
help me

boys and girls out there help me give me some advice

2007-12-08 01:06:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend aren't happy together. we've been together for 10 months. we just argued last night. it's a long distance relationship. i don't know what to do. :( i'm starting to like another guy because he is close to me but i don't wanna break my relationship of 10 months with my boyfriend. what should i do?

2007-12-08 01:05:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It was awful. He told me he was married and someone shot and killed his pregnant wife and the baby died with her. That was lie, she left him and they never had kids togther. Then he showed my emails to his coworkers and they helped him plan his next move on what to tell me and they all thought it was hilarious. He would write how women loved him and wanted him and one time he sent me a pic of some woman and he wrote that she knew me and told him things about him. Come to find out, he saw her pic on a dating site and he made a game of it. All I could think of was how deranged his mind must be and I walked away without ever looking back. I think he has his own personal demons that torment him and I don't hate him for what he did, I pity him. Is that normal to feel that way?

2007-12-08 01:02:56 · 9 answers · asked by robin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ime 17 and I am dating a guy who I have loved since I was 13. We have been together for 3 years now. Our fathers are business partners and my father has been telling me that my boyfriend might propose.
I love him more than life but I am scared that maybe we are to young. I also know that my father wants me to marry him because then our fathers busineses will combine and thay will be worth something like $19 billon. My father has always been interested in money, that nearly ruined my life. I am sure that I want to spend my life with my boyfriend! Should I just forget about my fathers interests and get married?

2007-12-08 01:00:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

whatcha hoping to do with your saturday evening ..watch the fight,sit in and yahooooo or other

2007-12-08 00:58:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im probably gonna get him a cd of his favorite songs
but he asked me what i wanted him to get me
what should i say

plzzzzz help....

2007-12-08 00:58:19 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I knew a guy thru online since 6 months and we are in touch thru phone daily and we both like each other too.Recently,he expressed his desire to see my pic and I have shown it,without hesitating and when Iasked the same he says,he will show his pic very soon.As far as I know,guy will very eager to how their pic to the girl and this guy is quite different..what could be the reason and why is he behaving this way?

2007-12-08 00:55:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

• Her Body?
• Her personality (if she's loud or quiet/Kind or bitchy) ?
• Her face (Her smile/eyes/hair) ?
• Or her interests?

And what does a girl have to do to get a guys attention

2007-12-08 00:54:21 · 17 answers · asked by BR0WN-EYES 3 in Singles & Dating

Let's say the following factors:

1. The woman is 25 yo. Her parents are 5 years apart (father is older). Her paternal grandparents are 11 years apart (still man is the older one) and her maternal grandparents are of the same age.

2. The man is a 38yo foreigner. He is decent to the woman and he is absolutely not maniac.

3. The couple love each other.

So what makes me curious that, is it okay for an older man to date a woman younger by 13 (or more) years?

2007-12-08 00:49:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cause im allways bored

2007-12-08 00:46:28 · 15 answers · asked by Johny 1 in Friends

Hi, I read on another website that it said a female is more likely to kick/knee a guy in his balls when she is wearing a short or mini skirt or shorter length skirt than say a long skirt or pants, is this true ladies? It also said if the female was wearing/tights or stockings that it was still more likely to happen but not as much as if she was bare legged with no stockings. Is that fact true as well? Why is this? Do you personally agree with the statements or disagree with them? If you were in a short/mini skirt how would you strike a guys balls? With a kick or knee or both? Thanks

2007-12-08 00:44:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi there just to say a big thank you to people that have answerd my question it dose help to hear wot people have to say thanks again x

2007-12-08 00:44:01 · 2 answers · asked by Jmcleod 1 in Singles & Dating

okay,there is a girl in my class that i really like.but she doesnt like me{that i know of}any advice?ps:best advice gets 10 points

2007-12-08 00:38:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He does not even talk about his failure in sex..After sex he simply snores to sleep to enact the same the next night

2007-12-08 00:36:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They think that my brothers act really selfish like there the center of the unizversre and also me SOMETIMES they even said. So for this Christmas they are going to buy us REALLY REALLY nice toys. Like the Ipod Nano for me and the Wii anyways they are going to make us give it ALL to chairity and I dont think this is fair because I have been asking for an Ipod Nano FOREVER, and I even told them that I will not be opening my gifts on Christmas and I will not even go downstairs to watch my brothers open them and I have asked them to not even get me the Ipod because it will hurt to much to give it away if they are going to make me do that. They said thats the point so it does hurt you. What should I do? And do you think this is fair?

By the way my brothers ages are 10,8,4
And me and my sisters ages are 14 and 4
If you wanted to know

2007-12-08 00:36:08 · 8 answers · asked by jessieroo8399 2 in Family

I'm finding she's having difficulty getting things done, such as chores around the house (laundry, cleaning) as well as grocery shopping and other errands. I live nearly 1,000 miles away. Any idea what I can do to help her out?

2007-12-08 00:35:16 · 5 answers · asked by reggit124 1 in Family

i am not Pessimistic but most of realationship are not honest so bothering me on my question.

2007-12-08 00:32:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when i've had a bf

we've been together for a month now and i was thinking about getting him a teddy and probably some chocolates...would this be ok or is it weird for girls to buy teddies for the guy??
please tell me what you think and if you have anymore suggestions please tell me
(apart from aftershave lol)

2007-12-08 00:32:26 · 15 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2 in Singles & Dating

It was a great nite It was beautiful the garden and the water fall in our sitting. then the waiter walked up with the wine then it happened! I farted as she was saying how romatic I was as we kissed. I wonder if she will ever call me back

2007-12-08 00:30:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Men, please explain this to me. I am engaged to a great guy that i love. Our sex life is GREAT. However i am getting concerned that i won't be enough for him as years go by. I have always had a very high sex drive (i have been married before) and am not expecting it to change. Last night i went to a christmas party at work and i was talking to some of my male coworkers who were getting a bit tipsy. After years of marriage they all agreed that they would prefer to separate love from sex, that they would prefer having sex with multiple partners but still be married to their wifes who they love. They told me most men are like that

How is this possible? How can men have sex with someone they are sexually attracted to and at the same time dearly loving their wifes? Doesn't it affect their feelings for their wifes when they sleep with other women???

I am not trying to be judgemental and saying that this is wrong. I simply want to understand this better...

2007-12-08 00:28:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Men, please explain this to me. I am engaged to a great guy that i love. Our sex life is GREAT. However i am getting concerned that i won't be enough for him as years go by. I have always had a very high sex drive (i have been married before) and am not expecting it to change. Last night i went to a christmas party at work and i was talking to some of my male coworkers who were getting a bit tipsy. After years of marriage they all agreed that they would prefer to separate love from sex, that they would prefer having sex with multiple partners but still be married to their wifes who they love. They told me most men are like that

How is this possible? How can men have sex with someone they are sexually attracted to and at the same time dearly loving their wifes? Doesn't it affect their feelings for their wifes when they sleep with other women???

I am not trying to be judgemental and saying that this is wrong. I simply want to understand this better...

2007-12-08 00:27:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-08 00:26:15 · 21 answers · asked by jan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How old were you?

2007-12-08 00:24:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Met a guy and we went out 4 times. On the last date he showed me where he lived and we watched movies and talked and got along great. I always enjoy the dates with him and he said he felt the same about going out with me too. After the last date I haven't heard from him for 2 weeks now. I called him once before this and he acted like he didn't want to talk so I ended the call and never called him back, I just leave him alone. I can't figure out what I said or did wrong. What would you think and what would you do?

2007-12-08 00:23:48 · 16 answers · asked by robin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can be a bit needy sometimes but i have a heart of gold

2007-12-08 00:21:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we're married for 18 yrs. have 3 kids. but still we live only on basics though we're blessed. my father in law is in control of all our finances. we don't have rights over what we earn.

2007-12-08 00:21:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend cheated on me but confessed the same day and claims that he is sorry and wants a second chance.I love him and treat him so good I can't understand why he cheated and we were not having problems.Guys why do you cheat and ladies do you think I should forgive him.

2007-12-08 00:20:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating