Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

Question for the girls!

I'm thinking of asking a girl out and I'm wondering what kind of things to suggest we do. I'm interested to know what kind of things you girls think you'd like to do for a first date.

2007-12-08 07:22:52 · 1 answers · asked by tuthutop 2 in Singles & Dating

Tomorrow is my birthday.....and I am already down today....as I always am on December 8th. Not because of my birthday being the next day, but because it's the anniversary of the death of John Lennon. Anyway, my question is this:

Should I remind my fiance that tomorrow is my birthday or should I just wait and see if he remembers without being prompted?

2007-12-08 07:22:38 · 25 answers · asked by Scooter_The_Squirrels_Wifey 6 in Singles & Dating

This is an ongoing issue that i have pretty much had all my life ( i am 16). I can say with 100% certainty that my Dad is without a doubt the cheapest person i know. And i don't know how to make it stop.He makes alot of money for one, about 240-300k per year and my mom who is divorced and a single mother making less than 6 figs manages to be more generous than him. All my birthday's are lame as well as christmas. I get the cheapest version of everything i ask for, and its all crap that i never use. I've wanted an ipod and or a computer for a while, but i can forget it because he is so freaking cheap, and my mom would but simply cant afford it.He goes to the Dminican Republic with his girlfriend every year in addtion to trips to NYC, adirondacks, B & B's all year round. He has been to the DR like 7 or 8 times with her and yet i have never in my entire life been outside of the USA.He is generous with her and himself and thats it, he dosnt prioritize his kids like he should.

2007-12-08 07:20:27 · 9 answers · asked by ______ 1 in Family

loved someone SO much but you knew they were the wrong person for you..? but you couldn't break up because you love them?

2007-12-08 07:18:56 · 12 answers · asked by Emily rose 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend invited his ex girlfriend to his hockey game and then he f***ed her what should i do? should i be mad? i don't want to lose him. but what i like was that he was completely honest with me about it then he asked me if i was mad i said no because i really dont want to lose him then today he told me when he asked me if i was mad and i said no he learned the truth he didn't want his ex girlfriend he wanted me. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-12-08 07:15:01 · 24 answers · asked by KK B 2 in Singles & Dating

if U were not allowed to see your son for X mas....?
This is what I'm going through. My son's mother hates my guts or something because she told me to take her to court so I could see my son....it's VERY saddening and frustrating.

2007-12-08 07:13:11 · 5 answers · asked by ID 3 in Family

Is it ok for a woman to pay on a date?
I usually, after the 4th or 5th date, offer to pay for dinner and such and after that I try to take turns in paying. Is there anything wrong with that?
My friend was telling me that guys don't like it and I should never do that. I should let them pay for everything all the time for the first few months.
I don't agree with that. I think we both are enjoying the relationship and both should pay. Ok maybe the guy can pay a bit more at the beginning but I like being independent. What do you guys think? Please let me know.
Thanks

2007-12-08 07:10:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay im really confused about my guy friend. Last month on the 2nd he sent me an email saying that he had feelings for me and that when he gets around me he gets talkative because he gets excited i met up with him the next day and i told him we shouldjust stay friends(cuase i just got out of a bad relationship) but he kissed me anyway. (i did have feeling as mor then a friend at that time and i still do) People think were dating but i dont think he likes me like that anymore. We talk all the time and he likes to come up and tickle me when im walking in the hallway, and always wants a hug from me then yeaturday he gave me a really tight hug from behide wheni was walking in he hallway. He makes jokes about us being togther and calls me beautful all the time and he was trying to halod my hand yesturday in class.I still do like him and i dont know if its my turn to tell him how i fell about him because i dont want to get rejected do you think he still likes me??? What should i do??

2007-12-08 07:08:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im so enraged right now its not even funny less than 30 mins ago I just got this hate later from my fiances mother. This woman is a witch and shes is so mad about the fact that me and my fiance are moving to NC at the end of the month. shes telling me that my son and me will never be considered family amoung other things. I dont know what to do. Do I go over there and whip her 500lbs butt ( she really does weigh that ) or do I just let it go and just pretend that she dont even exsist I really need help with this one I cant live my life with her making it hell on earth HELP!!!!!!

2007-12-08 07:08:48 · 44 answers · asked by tiffany s 1 in Family

I just found out I'm going to get married, and I told my friend (who I have always planned on having as my maid of honor) and I was really put off by how she responded. Everyone has been so excited because me and my new fiance are so close and have dated for 2 1/2 years. She was more like, "This is a big decision; I hope you're making the right one." I just felt like "Who are you, and don't you know me at all?"

Later in the conversation I mentioned that I might not want to do the typical wedding party with a formal "maid of honor" because my fiance does not have one particularly close friend to name as a best man. She would still have the traditional "Maid of honor" spot at the wedding. But she made me feel really bad about this choice too.

I feel a lot closer to one of my other friends right now, and she has been a big help in getting me started on planning and listening to all of my ideas. Should I place her as MOH, or stick to my choice of having both? Or neither? Why?

2007-12-08 07:06:08 · 10 answers · asked by Christine 6 in Weddings

I am still a virgin, but I find that if I don't masturbate prior to talking to a woman (at least one day) I find it easier to talk to her and get along with her. It's easier to be friendly and make her smile and laugh if I don't masturbate. If I do masturbate, I tend to be moody, lackadaisical, and nonchalant which can turn a lot of women off. Is there any reasoning behind this?

2007-12-08 07:04:36 · 2 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

just curious i tried to help one by giving the guy some money but they get a lil too crazy so i stopped

2007-12-08 07:04:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you be wearing the short frilly outfit or would your husband wear it for you?

2007-12-08 06:49:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for over 15 years and for the past 5 years or so fill my wife has lost most of the attraction towards me. She never complements me regarding looks or how i dress or anything. She very seldom ineciates love making and when and if she does it seems like she just is doing it to fill a obligation or duty. I did fianally ask her this morning if she still finds her husband attractive ? when i walk into the room or she sees me , do i still light her fire, ????? She said that sexaully, she is not. I am having a hard time dealing with this and i dont know if she has falling out of love with me. I strongly beleive that she has. I am allways complementing her and rubbbing her back, her feet, brushing her hair, saying she looks so nice and that i love her very much every day. I dont here my wife say ,, i love you dear very much anymore. My wife had an affair about 5 years back and i still fill that they may still have some contact or talk or e-mail but not sure. ANY THOUGHTS

2007-12-08 06:48:38 · 11 answers · asked by danomanfishing 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont ever see it happen but my friend(girl) says during school these bullys keeps pulling her pants and undies down infront of public and pushing her down pulling off her pants and undies and bossing her around. some times they come to her house we shes alone and striping her down outside and beating her up. she says the bullies said if she tells eneyone they will beat her up.

2007-12-08 06:44:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm fifteen years old and my GF is 19 years old, meaning she can drive and I won't even be able to get a permit till April 2008.

Whenever we go out, I always go through somekind of roast over the phone where she burns me about not being manly and not picking her up and driving her around.

I know she's kidding, but the only thing I can say is men and women are equal, and she responds, "How so?" and I have nothing to defend myself.

Can anyone give me advice?

2007-12-08 06:44:48 · 15 answers · asked by Confused Boy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 06:43:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is married and his wife suspect something is going on with him. Everything was perfect. He pull back but he can't stay away. So I started to pull back. I need ideas from guys what to do. it feels like he is addicted to me. It's is going on three years. I love him but he was to understand I'm giving up more than him. I'm willing but things has to get back they way they were. I'm always there for him. I cook and clean better than your wife? I look better. I'm all those things and more? I need some more tips from you married guys what does it take?Ok his wife is fat and they have kids. He is trying to decide between us. What can I do to help him make his choice ME

2007-12-08 06:38:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have had 2 fallouts with a freind!
one was cause i found out she likes talkin crap about me
and the other one was cause me and her brother really hate each other and will fight in sight

should i keep talkin to this person
it seems like one fallout will cause another
so really this person is becoming troublesome

bigger problem is that she is friends with most of my friends
so its sort of like a "Cold War" atmosphere going on!
she is dividing up all my friends up and stuff
if we ever "go at it" it will be
like a self-destruct sequence!

i really hate drama, i dont make it, it follows me


but i see this person everyday what should i do?
keep my hatred toward her a secret (which i dont like)?

2007-12-08 06:38:02 · 1 answers · asked by Mr. Right 1 in Friends

I want to be like the great René Artois

2007-12-08 06:37:59 · 12 answers · asked by Lonewolf 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-08 06:35:22 · 4 answers · asked by Joyous Dawn in the morning 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you got divorced, and you had children, and you found a really really really sexy woman, if someone said that you had to choose, be with your children, or be with the sexy woman, who would you choose (sorry run on sentence)? And when I say be with I mean ever get to spend time with again.

also, if you had to choose never to see you kids again and keep your penis, or get your penis chopped off and get to see your kids, what would you pick?

I don't want any stupid answers like oh this is stupid.

2007-12-08 06:35:16 · 13 answers · asked by <3 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm talking about young (college age) adults from a relatively concervative point of view. I've been asking around on campus and I'm getting anywhere from first date, four-six months, or even a year. I'm trying to figure out a decent amount of time for the characters in a novel I'm writing. They're about 19 and were childhood friends (secretly in love with each other) before they get together at the beginning of the book. Both virgins. I currently have them wait 3-4 weeks. I've had a few people say that it's way too soon for unexperience people, a few more say that it's inrealistically prosponed.

2007-12-08 06:30:53 · 13 answers · asked by Jasmine 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 06:28:41 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay well my and my guy have been going out for 10 months yesterday was our 10 month anniversary and he didnt call last time i called to him was on monday and he told me he was having family problems and thats y he didnt call me ove the weekend okay soo we havent talked since monday and iuno what to do anymore i havent called him cuase i dont wanna seem like im on him cuase hell man would it really hurt him to call for like 2 seconds and be like oo hey um sorry i haven't been calling ive been busy or somthin ya know but hell we haven't talked since Monday and its Saturday he has boxing practice on Monday-Friday and he doesn't get home till 1030 and on Friday to Sunday he has work and supposedly he doesn't get off till 1230 iuno what should i do

2007-12-08 06:26:41 · 4 answers · asked by dopest_kid 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex split up with me in September because of distance. I still talk to her periodically and would do anything to get her back because I do love her. Her phone has been turned off because she did not pay the bill and now it looks like her internet service is gone as well. I sent her this because I thought I might have some remote chance of us getting back together. What do you guys think?

2007-12-08 06:26:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to hear from both sides about their experiences wiht David's Bridal. My sister in law is getting married and wants me to get my daughter's dress from there. My daughter is 7 and the wedding isn't for another 8 months. I know it takes time for ordering, but what happens when they won't return my dress and give me the right size????? Anyone have experiences with exchanges??

2007-12-08 06:25:29 · 13 answers · asked by Someonesmommy 5 in Weddings

Please guys, Ive liked my freind (guy) for 2 years now, I don't know if he feels the same! Any ways that I might be able to tell, like body language? Help me please!

2007-12-08 06:20:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 06:20:30 · 31 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother(divorced) and sister ( soon to be divorced) wants me to get out NOW. Not because of what I have said cuz I tend to defend my husband but because of the way he has been acting.

2007-12-08 06:16:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce