How come if I hold off on masturbation I find it easier to talk to women?

Question

I am still a virgin, but I find that if I don't masturbate prior to talking to a woman (at least one day) I find it easier to talk to her and get along with her. It's easier to be friendly and make her smile and laugh if I don't masturbate. If I do masturbate, I tend to be moody, lackadaisical, and nonchalant which can turn a lot of women off. Is there any reasoning behind this?

Answer 1

you know, it sounds like a silly question, but I think your right.
I've noticed the same thing. even when I was married.
I noticed that if there is a girl I'm interested in, never do the "deed". If I did, I would actually loose interest in perusing her, and would not always put my best foot forward when approaching her.

now if I hold off, and theres a girl I'm pursuing, My "desire" will work its own magic and I'll find myself nestled up beside her making plans for the night with her.

its strange, but MUST have something to do with the chemicals that drive attraction, maybe the release of oxytocin and adrenaline (satisfaction) over power other chemicals that drive you to the point to release the O and A.

your mind (chemically) is getting the "payoff" before the chase begins, so the chase becomes no longer needed.

The Indians (India) believe that the male sperm when released during orgasm contains hundreds of thousands of sperm = hundreds of thousands lives = a lot of "spiritual energy" (life takes energy to exist)

when you let the sperm out of your body, you also loose that energy.

I think they have a good analogy, but I believe it is purely chemical.

Answer 2

lmao ..yea man jakin off is bad try playin football instead of talkin to gurls after jacking off