loved someone SO much but you knew they were the wrong person for you..? but you couldn't break up because you love them?
2007-12-08 07:18:56 · 12 answers · asked by Emily rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah thats whats going on with me right now. but since i really do love him he cant be the wrong person for me, right? maybe you dont really love him
2007-12-08 07:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH yes. I was in love with an incredibly jealous and verbally abusive girl. Not to mention overly controlling. After a year and a half I finally realized with a lot of help from friends, family and even therapy....that that's not love. Why waste time on the wrong type of person? Set your boundaries for the kind of person you can see yourself with and STICK WITH IT! Because that person WILL be out there. Just a matter of patience
2007-12-08 15:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by bran1210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERYONE has been in this situation. It sounds like you know what you need to do. Eventually, you will break up if he's not right for you. Depending on what is so "wrong" about him, you might just enjoy it while it lasts for now. I mean, as long as he's not cheating or abusing you, what's the harm? You have to decide what you want right now. If he makes you feel good, then go with it for now. If it's too painful, cut the chord before you REALLY get hurt.
2007-12-08 15:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kevy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have loved a person that much, and I am just realizing that they were not mine to be with. I could not break up with this person, I did not want to. This person broke up with me...
2007-12-08 15:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by ID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you know they are the wrong person, how can you really be in love with them? You're letting your emotions live too much in the "what if" and not enough in "reality."
2007-12-08 15:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup..it's called marriage....They seem to be the one for you until all the fanfare goes away then you really get to know them and find things you really aren't keen on.
If you cannot accept the things that make you realize this is not the person for you, then end it now! Don't wait as it will only be harder later.
2007-12-08 15:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Hikerjoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. and it sucks!
It's bad news. And then your friends look at you and say: You make a BAD looking couple. Even your dog can't stand your choice and your kitten is always leaving presents in their shoes.
yeah, i know what it's like. Thank god she was allergic to cats and dogs!
2007-12-08 15:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by FlyingScooter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
I never date the wrong person.
2007-12-08 15:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is one big decision to make
2007-12-08 15:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by sashana06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep my first love
2007-12-08 15:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by november_special 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋