Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

O.k look my friend is getting married with the love of her life and according to her religion she has to get married and she is only 11 yrs old and i am very happy for her but i am scared for her fionce because imagine if she gets married and goes to college what if she fdalls in love with another guy then what will happen ???? Please help what should i do ?????
P.S She already had sex with her fionce and she is 11 and the guy is 14!! WHAT SHOULD I DO ????

2007-12-08 09:55:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is for both guys and girls.
Short kisses - Just a little peck
Long kisses - A peck but held on longer

2007-12-08 09:53:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my man have had a lot of problems the past 6 months. and we love each other so much and have tried so many things to make us work. we recently kinda discovered that we think our relationship is just based on sex. that seems to be the only time we make each other happy here lately. we thought about taking it away and trying to work on us but we are terrified that if we take out the only thing that makes us happy right now then we will just give up. i think its because we are both so stressed out its tearing us apart and so sex is the only thing we know how to destress ourselves together. is there any way we can learn how to base our relationship on trust or love or sumthing while still having sex... or what? i need help . . .its tearing us apart...and fast.

2007-12-08 09:53:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 09:52:39 · 35 answers · asked by Phantom66 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've moved my family half way around the US to be in a good job to support our family. I have a good job that pays well and the time to spend with my two beautiful daughters and wife. My wife only works part time but I make sure all the housework is done so she doesn't get stressed out. She spends money like there's no tomorrow and i'm not allowed to spend any because she says that she needs it for bills. She tell's me when we're fighting that she doesn't love me anymore and that she wants to leave me. I have been going through this for 11 years and it never seems to change. I try to keep it together because I don't want to lose my girls. Am I hanging on too long?

2007-12-08 09:51:35 · 7 answers · asked by DAN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Eyes!! Green, Hazel, Blue, Brown?

Arn't they fasinating??
1. What colour are your eyes?
2. What's your favourite colour eyes?

2007-12-08 09:50:42 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Suductive-bayb♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

im 19 and we have been going out for 2 years and a half.. i wanted to break up because of the fighting.. and the games she use to play with me.. she started crying after i told her i wanted to break up .. so i told her lets go on a break instead because i wanted to be with her and not let her go .. and she goes clubbing and makes out with another guy .. and we broke up ... she acts like she doesnt give a *** anymore .. and i still run after her.. and want her.. but i dunno what to do .. i want her back but .. i want her to realize what she has lost .. i was amazing to her.. i want her back .. what can i do to make her come back to me and chase me

2007-12-08 09:50:05 · 11 answers · asked by beddume 1 in Singles & Dating

naughty or nice list, this year...
from santas little helper, i lost my naughty or nice list, so i need reminding, santa will kill me,if i dont get it right. so i am trusting you to tell the truth. thanks ho ho ho

2007-12-08 09:48:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

her that it wasn't that bad! It wasn't even thong style it had a silky bikini panty. Well instead of getting her to wear it all she did was roll around laughing and teasing. I even stupidly let her take a couple of pics with her camera phone. I regret having worn the lingerie now

She went to work early, so do you think she has already forgotten about this ? Can I count on her not showing the pics?

2007-12-08 09:45:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Imagine you met the woman of your dreams and are in the most loving, complete relationship of your life.

How would you feel if you find out that she once had sex for money before she met you?

2007-12-08 09:40:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, how can I talk to my mom about me liking a younger guy. She thinks he is two yong (i'm 19 in college and he is 17 and a junior in high school)

I dont know what to say, so how do I talk to her about it?

2007-12-08 09:39:58 · 4 answers · asked by gurlypunkyprep 2 in Singles & Dating

its a fun little poll. but you have to answer this one little question....was it really scary the first time and is it something that kinda just comes naturally? well ok that two little questions! :] but thanks!

2007-12-08 09:39:23 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I have my engagement ring and was looking at it one day and noticed initials FDJ on the inner band. We didn't get it engraved and don't know what it stands for. Do you think that this was someone elses ring and returned it and Jared Jewelers then they went around and sold it to us. Wouldn't they have to tell you that before you bought the ring? I'm kinda mad about this. What do you guys think?

2007-12-08 09:36:12 · 15 answers · asked by Justice07 3 in Weddings

Keep safe and secure good people. Good night. Shy guy

2007-12-08 09:31:54 · 7 answers · asked by gerard h 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm clueless, HELP!!!??
I'm clueless, HELP!!!??
there is this guy.... and i really like him. i mean i dress up and look my best to see him even if it's only for a minute.
when we walk by each other he'll look at me i'll look at him then he'll look back.... his grin kills me.
ok so i never talk to him much any more, i facebook him but he doesn't really respond so i delete my comments.
i try to hang out with his friends....
ok so here's my predicament, lol.
at lunch he was with his best friend and he walked by and was looking at me but i pretended not to see him... 4 times.
i saw where he sat and so i got a table in like seriously direct sight.
i went to get a drink and came back with a FINE guy and he sat with me. i laughed a lot with the guy and i didn't look once to see if the guy i like was looking at me. was this good to of done? was it a bad thing?
the guy i was sitting with me was GORGEOUS but i like the guy who i wasn't staring at. ::sigh::
what do i ?

2007-12-08 09:29:31 · 3 answers · asked by daydreams4eva 1 in Singles & Dating

hi i'm a 16 year old male and i believe the chances are very low that i'm ever going to find any real love in my life. I am loving, honest, carring, i absoluetly live to love those who love me i would never cheat on my love with anybody ... i'm in a relationship for love not for sex ( sex would be prefered but i will not pressure her in any way if she feels she is unready ... sex is not a requirement for my affection and love ) i'm funny i'm very smart for my age. I always listen fuly when my love is talking i love cuddling i like talking about our relationship and her feelings and my feelings.I write love letters send flowers tell them i love them out of the blue just so they won't forget ... yet every girl i've ever dated ends up treating me poorely ( i've only dated 2 and am in a 3rd ) the 1st one just stopped talking to me one day and then stated out of the blue that she was hit by a car and didn't remember me ( which i know is a lie ) the 2nd cheated on me daily ( no joke ) why?

2007-12-08 09:27:39 · 27 answers · asked by L L 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 09:19:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and my mother has been with her stupid @$$ boyfriend ever since my Daddy died! He's ruining our relationship between my mother and I. I even confronted her with this problem and she doesn't listen to me. I'm so depressed and I don't know what to do! I hate him so much! Whenever I try to talk to my mom seriously, he calls at the 'right' moment and she just leaves our conversation ... I'm so tired of this!! What do I do?

2007-12-08 09:19:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She busted us the first time which got me totaly killed by my ignorant parents. So understanding of teen hormones. And the worst thing is she goes on the phone lies and eise drops on our conversation getting all her info on our sex life. Which is none of her business. And now she is back for more.

2007-12-08 09:17:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Our group did a secret Santa thing-and I got the hardest person to get a present for-Rachel. Don't get me wrong, she's a great person, but she's so balanced I don't know what to get her. She's not girly (rules out jewelry, stuffed animals, clothing, etc.) nor is she a tomboy. She notices when I wear the same shirt a lot, but she basically wears jeans and shirts. Inconspicuous stuff. She's pretty smart, but she's not nerdy, so no books. I've never been to her room, I don't know whether there's space for anything or not. She has a good-natured personality and a casual sense of humor. I wish I could provide more information but I've only started hanging out with her in October, and the year before that I knew her but we weren't even on a "Hi" basis.
She doesn't like to break the rules, but I wouldn't call her innocent or naive. Our group set a 10-20 dollar limit, although I'm willing to go slightly higher or lower. I don't want to get her something lame or impersonal like a calendar...but

2007-12-08 09:16:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Like i said my friend's ex just broke up with her. Then all of a sudden he told his friend that he wanted me to go out with him. Im really confused right now and i don't know what to do. My friend is heart broken and i don't want to make it worse. But this is the second time he asked me out and i think i might hurt his feelings too. what's the best thing to do?

2007-12-08 09:13:31 · 10 answers · asked by ~Julia~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and he likes me. We both know that we like eachother and he was supposed to ask me out yesterday...but he didn't. I'm assuming he was just really nervous cause he told my friend afterwards that he would do it, just not that night. and i don't think its because he doesn't like me anymore because we even already act like we're going out we just don't kiss.But if he knows i like him and knows that i'll say yes why would he be so nervous?? So what i'm really getting at is....would it be weird for a girl to ask a guy out???? i need both guys and girls answering my question please. because if he is so nervous about it then wouldn't he be happy if i just did?? I don't know.??!!

2007-12-08 09:12:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 09:11:02 · 3 answers · asked by xxxxxtenthousandtearsxxxxx 3 in Singles & Dating

nor is there any visitation mentioned. Does this mean that the time is split evenly? Lately my ex has been taking extended vacations and leaving the kids with me and if it is joint shared custody, does this mean I should be compensated for the time away? Just curious. Thanks!

2007-12-08 09:09:01 · 4 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok. so here's my story. the guy i like for a long time choose to date a really ugly girl. i'm left in the dust. everybody says that i'm a lot prettier than her and my personality is better. why didn't he choose me? why her?

2007-12-08 09:08:14 · 18 answers · asked by tictac 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is coming over tomorrow and I have it all planned out, i always plan it out to the last detail and we always have so much fun but it is really stressing me out. And don't say they will be happy just to see you cause I mean I want something to do but how do I make it less stressing? =]]

2007-12-08 09:06:56 · 2 answers · asked by xxprincessniaxx 4 in Friends

Something happend that was very inappropriate?
Is this wrong?
Would it be wrong for a 37 YO man to seduce a 23 YO girl whom?
was completely intoxicated, and he was completely sober?
She later on spoke to him and said she is not normallly that type of girl, which is true. Does he feel bad or weird maybe.
She did not really know what she was doing, but she did like the man. Why would he allow that to happen if she was drunk, and he was sober and then act like he had no part. He is divorced and more concerned with that.

2007-12-08 09:06:34 · 5 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Friends

how is the scene inside a court when a case of domestic violence/498A is going on?how many minutes or hours does 1 proceeding last?how many days it takes to finalize the case?is there lots of crying,fighting & shouting by defendents?are there many people/crowd inside?are only immediate family members allowed or even the relatives,etc of both husband or wife even if they were not involved in domestic violence towards the woman?in short,how is the scene otherwise?is it very traumatic for the girl if she is the victim?

in short,how is the scene otherwise?thanks in advance...........

2007-12-08 09:05:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

While bf & I were taking a break, a guy who had been interested in me for the past couple years found out and took me out of about six dates. My boyfriend knows that. Then, as far as boyfriend knows, when we decided to get back together, I stopped talking to other guy.

The truth however, is that the guy actually stopped calling ME, coincidently* around the same time boyfriend started trying to get back together.

Does it matter that boyfried believes I dropped the other guy, when in reality the guy kind of dropped me?

2007-12-08 09:05:48 · 25 answers · asked by Original_Syn 6 in Singles & Dating

see theres this guy ive been liking for a while and we finally started to talk and then i started to like him even more and i thought he liked me to by the way he showed it. and i just recently found out he had a girl and i was devestated. i felt really stupid because i was trying to act like a flirt around him and he had a girl the whole time. theyve been together for three months but they cant see eachother for the time being cause of her grades. what should i do? keep my hopes up and wait? or just give up now?

2007-12-08 09:04:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating