I've moved my family half way around the US to be in a good job to support our family. I have a good job that pays well and the time to spend with my two beautiful daughters and wife. My wife only works part time but I make sure all the housework is done so she doesn't get stressed out. She spends money like there's no tomorrow and i'm not allowed to spend any because she says that she needs it for bills. She tell's me when we're fighting that she doesn't love me anymore and that she wants to leave me. I have been going through this for 11 years and it never seems to change. I try to keep it together because I don't want to lose my girls. Am I hanging on too long?
2007-12-08 09:51:35 · 7 answers · asked by DAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say see if she would agree to go get some counseling.
2007-12-08 10:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Who Knew? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good job and your wife works part time and you have tow girls together your wife wants to spend much of the money as possible and tells you cant spend none of your earnings because you have bills to pay is this right she wants to control. the money that you and her both make.
When you get into fight she tells you she doesn't love you and wants to leave but haven't left yet. You have been going though this for eleven years tell you what it is not going to change and if you are staying in this marriage for your children guess what they already know that the two of you are not getting along. First of all we are all human we have a desire to love and to be loved and with out love there is loneliness god did not intend for us to be unhappy but to be loved just as he loves us. Why do you think that you will lose your children if you leave. Do what you know is right in your heart and god will do the rest.
best of luck
2007-12-08 22:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you go through the emotional & monetary stress of divorce, maybe you both could benefit from Marriage Counsuling classes. If you feel like you been hanging on too long, then you must have some very good reasons!
2007-12-08 18:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no use trying to hang onto someone if they don't want to be there. In the event of a divorce,regardless of who gets custody of your daughters, you never really lose them as they are of your blood, and are yours for life.
2007-12-08 18:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time for a divorce is the minute you get married!!! However you have your babies and so you are stuck. Put up with the crap until they are out of the house and then leave. If she doesn't give you sex get it from someone else.
2007-12-08 18:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can raise the children > Sound like my past marriage 12 yrs>Been great since she gone>
2007-12-08 18:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try and convince your other half to go to counseling and try and work things out expecially when you are married and have a family.. try to work things out before ending it
2007-12-08 18:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋