Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

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heres the deal my boyfriend and i have been going out for
like 2 years and well i have no idea what to get him for christmas!!!!! and i dont want it to be stupid I want it to be something speacial because he just bought me a diamond ruby necklace and i want to get him something nice too !!!
HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! plzzzz
plzzzz help me i dont know what to do !!

2007-12-08 11:24:37 · 1 answers · asked by meredith h 1 in Singles & Dating

like changing a bad guy to a good guy?

2007-12-08 11:17:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have you ever had sex with a girl wih a funky kitty cat.and if so was it real bad to where you had to blast quick.

2007-12-08 11:14:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cause im bored

2007-12-08 11:14:02 · 17 answers · asked by Tila Taqila Lover 1 in Singles & Dating

from my fiance's friend, who owns a cake shop and he has quoted us £300.00 for a 2 tier cake all chocolate cake, no mention of a discount

This price does not include out names being on the cake!

This friend who owns the cake shop expects to also come to the wedding and eat the food, listen and dance to the music at the reception blah blah blah!

Do you think is the correct wedding manners from the baker?

2007-12-08 11:12:30 · 10 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

A lot of times I get accused of being in it for the lay by people based solely on my appearance so Ill write out how I dress and what I do and you let me know.
I mostly wear dress casual following Italian fashion. This means nice collared shirt, dress pants, and shoes with heels that click. I comb my hair with gel.
When I meet a girl I use a lot of body language since I have a pretty thick accent and I am self conscious about it. Also the loud music at a party doesnt really let you talk.
When I dance I dont touch anywhere I wouldnt touch my sister, but I do like to dance and I get pretty into it.
Another thing I am not afraid to do is compliment, so if the girl I am dancing with is good Ill say it, or if she's wearing some really nice perfume or hairstyle ill say it too.
So what do you think?

2007-12-08 11:12:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 11:12:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have chosen this dress:
http://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii131/do_what_you_love/Clara_B.jpg

http://www.verawang.com - Go to Maids, Full length, No. 5, 13 and 25.

My after party dress is: http://www.verawang.com - Go to Bridal, Vera Wang, No.10

Thanks!!

2007-12-08 11:11:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-12-08 11:10:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so many marriages run into problems in 1, 2, 5, 10, even 20 years down the road,

if it wasn't true love, why did they get married in the first place? if it was true love, why would they experience problems?

2007-12-08 11:08:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know biblically it's wrong to have a prenup and be a christian it's something I have struggled with however I have decided prenup is a must..Is it true that a pastor will not marry you if you have a prenup?

2007-12-08 11:08:56 · 7 answers · asked by steve g 1 in Weddings

A few months back, I asked my gym trainer out. She refused coldly and started avoiding me. But as I always had been looking for an opportunity to talk to her, complimented her on new glasses last week. This observation on my part made her laugh and she thanked me effusively. Should I ask her out again or should I wait more? We both are 28.

2007-12-08 11:08:18 · 24 answers · asked by frescocomolluvias 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex-husband is in critical condition and his minor children(ours) cannot see him because the current wife has put a passcode on any inquries about his condition.I was told even the children have to be given a passcode to inquire about their dad's condition. I do not have any of his family members #'s but they do have mine and none have called and he has been in the hospital for about 2 weeks, anyway, If he dies how would I go about finding out about his death?

2007-12-08 11:06:07 · 5 answers · asked by KinWin 5 in Family

Do they re-marry, ever?

2007-12-08 11:04:33 · 14 answers · asked by Jag J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is it ok (sort of speak) to remarry after your wife (or husband) died and he (or she) was really loyal to you?

2007-12-08 11:02:52 · 5 answers · asked by Terrier KIng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-08 11:01:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that you want to be in a relationship and don't?? Why can't you give it a try when you say you've been hurt before??? (Like a woman has never been hurt before?)
Just need to understand MEN

2007-12-08 10:57:34 · 10 answers · asked by stoutunicorn 6 in Singles & Dating

I mean dont you feel that your differences sometimes causes MAJOR conflicts cuz i am in an interracial relationship with a guy who is not only a different race but a different religion as well(he's muslim and im agnostic). I feel like we both has two different view of life. I feel like we cant agree on the stupidest things cuz he thinks that i am wrong all the time and he is right. Plus his family are very strict and they would have a heart attack when they find out that he is going out with a chinese girl. They want him to marry a nice (lol) girl from his country. so whats a girl like me to do?

2007-12-08 10:56:46 · 11 answers · asked by Lorrane 2 in Singles & Dating

This is quite long-winded, but kind answers only please. My husband and I have been together for 5 and a half years and married for just over a year. i guess you could say its been and up and down relationship. when i think back over the years there have been a fair few arguments and i suppose the bad times outweigh the good really. Ive thought about leaving before as im not really happy, however I cant pluck up the courage to do so. Ive been looking for alternate accommodation but when it comes down to viewing the places I cant go ahead with it. Ive spoken to family and friends who just tell me to do what i feel is right but i dont know what to do. We have no children and we rent our place, but we do share many posessions which would be difficult to sort out as I know my husband would make things difficult just to spite me if we split. I really dont know what to do. I just wondered if anybody has been through something similar.. thank you

2007-12-08 10:55:27 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Right...
Im confused.
I asked a question on here last week about this guy who kept holding my hand and stuff even though we're only friends. Everyone answered saying that he DEFINATELY likes me.
Well i've been out with him most of the last week and he's been the same all the way through, so...yes those people were right. (:
The only problem is: What do i do now??
Coz he holds my hand at every available opportunity and hugs me and stuff but he still hasnt said anything about asking me out or whatever. I really dont want to say anything to him coz i want to wait and see if he says something first.
Has anyone had a situation like this? Coz i've never heard of it...a friend acting like a boyfriend ..but we arent together! AHHH!

Please help D:

2007-12-08 10:53:39 · 8 answers · asked by ..xXxXx.. 1 in Singles & Dating

I am nearly 18, and have never had a serious boyfriend. All my friends have either got one at this present moment or have had one in the past. I am really happy for my friends but i do sometimes get jealous. Just the thought of never meeting anyone who will love me scares me so much. I just want to be happy like me friends are. I can be quite a shy person, i dont see myself to be attractive but all my friends and their parents and even teachers at school disagree and say i am beautiful, so why cant i find someone special? what is wrong with me?

2007-12-08 10:53:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cause they just want something to go tell their friends

2007-12-08 10:51:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yesterday my boyfriend talked to me about "us" going to the football game today since the high school we went to is playing the CIF finals.. but is also the Mayweather fight, which we also had talked about finding a place where we can watch it.. he knows i love watching fights.. when i called him today he said that some guys at work invited him and his brother over to watch the fight at someone's house (boys only though).. i got mad at him because he wanted to change our plans but he has never gone out with guys like he wants to today.. we've been together for 5 years.. i'm 22 and he's 25.. should i be mad at him and make him go out with me like we'd plan or should not be mad and him and just let him go on his night out and maybe go out with my mom.. ??

2007-12-08 10:50:11 · 4 answers · asked by Bee 4 in Singles & Dating

why do men with small hardware talk like they have something, but when the time comes, say," its not the size that counts".

2007-12-08 10:49:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, my fiancee is wants to get me another ring for my engagement. She wants one that looks really spiffy and will stay looking nice. Plus, she wants to be able to add the full quote that she originally wanted to (I have a ring from her now, but through a series of events don't have it inscribed the way we wanted it). So, I posit this question for all of you.

Which ring do you guys like better?

This one...http://www.titaniumera.com/catalog/detail?cid=691&pid=1144

which will have our saying on the outside, and a personal message on the inside.

or...http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=8269408

this one, which will just have the message on the inside.

I love them both and am having a hard time deciding, so I just want to see what others think.

2007-12-08 10:47:08 · 24 answers · asked by Dan 2 in Weddings

Like on their collar bones he let me feel it and I was feeling him. Do they like it??

2007-12-08 10:46:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 10:44:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hardly looked at you or acknowledged u were there but still said hi and answered u if you spoke to them on msn,what would u think?????????

2007-12-08 10:44:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So awhile ago (two mounths) my ex-broke up with me. It was a weird anding though and think that we both regretted it at the time, i still do.
Now we still see each other a lot because we have the same friends and we hang out. The thing is that she acts like she hates me even though ive done nothing wrong. Also every now and then ill find her looking at me. I want to think that she still likes me but that doesnt quite feel right.
Help me out here please

2007-12-08 10:44:32 · 5 answers · asked by jlebowski245 2 in Singles & Dating

im 21 my boyfriend is 19 on monday he said hes going to try to have sex with me again for the second time because the first time it hurt really bad and he wants me to take the pain in he said hes not going to stop onece it starts hurting because he wants me to get use to the pain and hes going to hold me down and he has to get alittle aggressive he loves me though how do i not think of the pain?

2007-12-08 10:42:53 · 23 answers · asked by snookie 2 in Singles & Dating