So awhile ago (two mounths) my ex-broke up with me. It was a weird anding though and think that we both regretted it at the time, i still do.
Now we still see each other a lot because we have the same friends and we hang out. The thing is that she acts like she hates me even though ive done nothing wrong. Also every now and then ill find her looking at me. I want to think that she still likes me but that doesnt quite feel right.
Help me out here please
2007-12-08 10:44:32 · 5 answers · asked by jlebowski245 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you have ended a relationship you are hurt, and it may take a long time to get over it. Being around each other makes it all the more difficult. After being hurt, people are vulnerable and afraid of being hurt again...You say you are regretful but you haven't told your ex this...probably because you don't want to face rejection. If she is feeling the same way and is also afraid of approaching you, then you are at an impasse. One of you has to take the first step.
It may be hard to get the courage to say something to her, but you will never know how she feels if you don't. Think how you will feel in a few weeks when she does finally start dating someone and you didn't' take a chance. Just be prepared for whatever she says, if she isn't interested in dating again, at least you will definitely know there is not chance.
2007-12-08 10:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the last two. She doesn't hate you. She regrets the situation and hanging out together still brings a lot of memories of you two that perpetuate the feelings of regret and bitterness of the breakup.
2007-12-08 18:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by HumbleAdvisor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she hates you personally. I think she hates the fact that you two are not together anymore...would probably be best to talk to her about it unless you really have no intentions on getting back together.
2007-12-08 18:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure that she doesn't hate you, she's just putting up a tough front
she probably thinks it would be awkward to get back together again so shes trying to make it seem like she doesn't like you at all anymore.
2007-12-08 18:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by FieryRedAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe the reason y she broke up with u is b/c u did something to her and she prolly dont wanna be nice to u b/c she dont wanna show her true feelings
2007-12-08 18:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by carly f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋