I mean dont you feel that your differences sometimes causes MAJOR conflicts cuz i am in an interracial relationship with a guy who is not only a different race but a different religion as well(he's muslim and im agnostic). I feel like we both has two different view of life. I feel like we cant agree on the stupidest things cuz he thinks that i am wrong all the time and he is right. Plus his family are very strict and they would have a heart attack when they find out that he is going out with a chinese girl. They want him to marry a nice (lol) girl from his country. so whats a girl like me to do?
2007-12-08 10:56:46 · 11 answers · asked by Lorrane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most interracial relationships, do not last. There are just too many differences.
It's not only skin color people! Get your heads out of your asses.
2007-12-11 12:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by uberhawk906 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They absolutely can if the interracial couple doesn't mind each others cultural differences. My opinion is, that if you really value your culture and hold it close to your heart you will need a spouse who you can relate to. Others who don't mind all the traditions and cultures getting mixed into a new beautiful culture that you have created within your own family do what you want, just know that your spouse or soon to be spouse feels the same as you do. Common grounds in a relationship is a strong foundation, uncommon grounds can be the reasons to pull you apart. Communication is the key!
2007-12-08 11:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is from where i live i see a lot of interracial relationships. Most of them never work. It comes from having different ideas on life and the different way the races live. If you can live the same way he does and think the same way he does then you might make it. But' If the differences are to much you will never make it. You have to be like minded in at least some ways. Sounds to me like it's time for you to go. This isn't going to work. You said it your own self. He thinks your wrong all the time. That in itself is enough to tare you apart eventually
2007-12-08 11:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your situation is different - you have more than one complication. I advise you to look for a different mate - this relationship is insurmountable problems - he's right (or at least he thinks he is) and you're not - that's not a relationship - that's domination, and that's not love. Plenty of inter-racial relationships work, but from what you describe you would probably be better off to quit this one.
2007-12-08 11:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got self belief that there are maximum of factors working against any relationship, why take on the luggage of cultural differences, which will continuously rear its gruesome head while the relationship matures and the newness wears off. Plus the opportunity of youngsters. toddlers have adequate rigidity on them now days to accomplish academically, and socially . Bi racial toddlers are continuously going to be concern to extra ridicule than everyday, and then the questiom of what race are they? White, Black, Latino, Oriental?
2016-10-01 04:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by nason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some can yes. religious view's can make things harder than race issue's. Thing what people for get is if you both do great in life. How will you teach your children to accept the indifferces of society,and how will one deal with the prejudice in it too. good luck in your quest.
2007-12-08 11:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by shadow of life. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive that according to the Bible( I'm a Christian and American) that different races should not intermarry, but many people have different oppnions. Also if you and him can't get along now how would you be able to get alone marry.
2007-12-10 11:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its alot easier when same belief system in place, My wife Chinese Im Irish we get into good arguments.. but we are both Christian we always work it out. Its possible but Islam tends to be hard on women!
2007-12-08 11:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any relationship can workout it all depends on hope the individuals feel about eachother and not what other people think age , color , race , nothing shouldn't be an object , it all have to do with their affection , feelings , caring , honesty, love , generosity, support, all these things should be what they feel and have for eachother
2007-12-12 09:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by shawn s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a white Muslim and my guy is a black Christian. We've been happily together for 42 years. Go your own way!
2007-12-08 11:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋