that you want to be in a relationship and don't?? Why can't you give it a try when you say you've been hurt before??? (Like a woman has never been hurt before?)
Just need to understand MEN
2007-12-08 10:57:34 · 10 answers · asked by stoutunicorn 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The man typically gives a million and one reasons, the woman chooses to be in denial while everybody else can see what she can't! Sorry, but, quit being a victim.
2007-12-08 11:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, I think you are being a little prejudiced against men. This happens with women as well. If the man doesn't do it quickly enough, then the woman gets scared he isn't true to his feelings for you. Then you start backing down. Committment is tough all around. But the ones that will last are those that are tested and make it through a few rough patches in the road. True love is patient and requires work to make the most of it. It don't just happen all on it's own.
2007-12-08 19:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by O2BEFISHIN 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some men are like that. Some aren't. I've been in a relationship for a mere 17 years. Not all men are the same. Look for a different guy.
2007-12-08 19:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most men lie to get what they want. And if that means they lead you to believe something that isn't so. That is what they will do. There are women that do the same. I am a woman and at times have lied and lead a guy to believe what isn't true. Just to get my way.
2007-12-16 17:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand men, by understanding your own gender.
Plenty of women do the exact same thing. So ask the person who has done this to you, don't ask men why only men do it. As a man, I can't give an answer because I've never done it, but have had it done to me by women.
2007-12-08 19:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well it makes some girls fell good and some dont and i do it becuse i wont to see if girls would go to the next level with me but if they say yes then i will go with them i wont just leave them it is up to the dude and it depends on the mood of the scence
2007-12-08 19:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by Black Ice 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be just a way of letting you down easy...b/c if i liked the girl and i was single i'd go for it... no matter how many times i've been hurt..gotta take chances.
2007-12-08 19:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you really need to be told why? Let's just say he's not thinking with the head on his shoulders.
2007-12-08 19:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His little head wants to be in a relationship. His big head is scared and doesn't.
2007-12-08 19:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ughh same here
2007-12-08 19:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋