Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

ok so this is kind of a long story.. hang in there though. I really need some advice! (in advance I already told him I like him)
So I have liked this guy for a while and we talk some every day at school. There have been times when I thought he might like me earlier in the year. He always tried to make me smile and gave me his sweatshirt one day when I was cold.
Now I really dont think he likes me cause.. well I dont know.. I dont have much confidence. He still talks to me some and smiles and yesterday we walked to the bus together.. but im still not quite sure what he thinks of me.
Last night I was really upset when I was texting him about a friend of ours who was high on acid. He made me feel better and was really sweet sending me long text messages explaining things and making me feel better. He told me he would look for me today at the lake where we sometimes see eachother. When I saw him I called out his name and then said hey. He just hit me with a peace sign.

2007-12-08 10:41:55 · 14 answers · asked by Chat Noir 3 in Singles & Dating

she sent it to him for a Christmas gift! he hasn't spoken to her in about 3 years because he has no long distance..she does and has not called him. he has sent gifts to his grandson without even a thank you in return. How would you respond to that? I was thinking a nice thank you card? Any other Ideas?


Also for those who will ask...she is a spiteful b***h and did this to be mean.

2007-12-08 10:38:47 · 4 answers · asked by AzzGoodAzzItGetz 4 in Family

Recently when my boyfriend who is 17 has been round and for example when we were lying on the bed together he was on top in the missionary position but we were fully clothed and just making out, we havent actually slept together yet and it would be his first time but anyway he had his c*** pushed against my area below, i could feel it positioned there. Another time i was on top of him and we were making out he asked me to sit up and down on his c***, other times he was nudging my thigh with it. Does this behaviour show he is hinting he wants to sleep with me or what? could you give me your opinion please because im not sure what he wants! cheers

2007-12-08 10:36:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay Im 12 And Im In Middle School I Totally Lack Populartity And Need Adivce Own How I Can Find My Place In The School. One Problem Why I Cant Find Self Is Because Im Extreamly Shy And Have Social Problems. So Do I Have To Hang Around With The "Popular" Crowd Or Just Start My Own. Does My Persoanolilty Have To Change? I Just Need For Some One To Give Me Some Idvice For Somthing I Can Do To Do.

2007-12-08 10:36:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She is 12 years old and she has orgasms and everything. and im 17 and i never really had a real one. but i walked in on her having one once. and she was alone and she doesnt have a boyfriend and has never had sex. i dont think it's normal or healthy. and she always has sexual fantasies about the boy she likes. i think it's really weird but-hey do what you want.

i've already told our mother. she doesnt believe me and my sister lies when our parents try to "talk" to her about it.

so once i tried to talk to her about it and she wouldnt talk.

i just need advice on what to do. and what the heck is wrong with her ?

2007-12-08 10:35:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

than you! LOL!
Should I be worried?
http://www.flickr.com/photos/erin_li/1815422122/

2007-12-08 10:35:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 5 yrs. now. I find my self not wanting to get out of the house and i have gain 20lbs.My husband is not a romantic guy. In fact he does not even touch me any more and when he does he does it to shut me up.he never kisses me romanticly . I do the cooking and cleaning i pay the bills and i even have to take care of my own car.( flats and all). I was in the hospital once for surgery and he got lost in the hosptol and couldn't get there before they put me to sleep. But he brought me to the hospital. He says he love me more than i know. But he's never there for me . Can anyone give me some advise.I'm not perfact by know meens. I do have my faults.I have tried to talk to him about it but he's the kind uv guy that is very closed. So he just looks at mewhen i ask himabout those things and says nothing. I guess i need someone to talk to. sparkle..

2007-12-08 10:34:42 · 6 answers · asked by sparkle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a "meal and to watch the game", would you accept?

2007-12-08 10:34:21 · 8 answers · asked by gldnsilnc 6 in Singles & Dating

(because in my case) I'm really shy and :( unfortuately did that to the guy I like yesterday. Okay, past is past. Gotta move on and talk to him.

Anyway, would you think she could be shy or would you assume she's conceited if she didn't talk to you (but you didn't talk to her either).

2007-12-08 10:31:57 · 4 answers · asked by kay 1 in Singles & Dating

well this guy wants to kiss me.but he asked if he could touch me.I have ask many times before about this and i would like long senseful answers(if you can give).Opinion's and tips and comments only.

2007-12-08 10:29:09 · 22 answers · asked by Senica 2 in Singles & Dating

For example a picture book
Or a list of great things about them

hmmm need more ideas pls?

Thanks x

2007-12-08 10:27:30 · 5 answers · asked by Nat 2 in Friends

A friend of a friend of mine is 20, and he sleept with 13 girls in less than two years. Is this normal? (he isn´t even hot)

2007-12-08 10:27:15 · 9 answers · asked by BarberaT 2 in Singles & Dating

today i asked my 12 year old cousin do i look mean to you and he told me yes... and ive never been mean to him..

2007-12-08 10:26:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cause some really pretty girls i know who are really nice, never get asked out... but then a lot of average girls with not so nice personalities get asked out more..

2007-12-08 10:26:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend is a great dad but I feel I am not getting enough quality time with him. He has moved to the same suburb as his ex to be closer to his children & work(an hour away from me). He sees his children almost every day to pick them up from day care or visits them just to say goodnight if he doesnt see them every day he will call them which is lovely don't get me wrong, he has the children 3/4 weekends. I see him during the week but usually only for a couple of hours and in that time he is so exhausted I feel he is trying very hard to please all involved. I just feel like I am getting the "leftovers" as such. I think I might be becoming a little jealous and/or unappreciated please help!

2007-12-08 10:25:53 · 10 answers · asked by Neishi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a 17 year old male and i don't know but i really want a girlfriend i don't know what it is but i feel so pissed off because im feeling desperate but not for sex because i am a virgin but for a long term girlfriend there are a few of my friends that have this and i am so jealous what is it ????

2007-12-08 10:22:06 · 17 answers · asked by dan 90 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 10:19:03 · 2 answers · asked by Ew. 4 in Friends

ok people talk so much about how much "work" marriage is. i've heard lots of times people go into a divorce pretty sure its the "right" thing to do. despite it being "right" so many people still wonder if there was something that could've been done to prevent the divorce. could they have tried harder? i can understand if there is physical abuse and things like that. adultry is tricky because some people just cant get over that even from a boyfriend or girlfriend much less if it was from a spouse. i think this is geared more towards to the,"i'm tired of arguing" or "he being mean to me" so they file for divorce under irreconcilable differences. is that being a cop out? should they suck it up and make it work?

2007-12-08 10:15:24 · 5 answers · asked by cuffem916 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm so sick of being dissappointed.

2007-12-08 10:12:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is did boy who i really like. well a few weeks ago he "supposedly" got a girl pregnant. i recently found out that the girl lied to keep him. He told me that he did not like her anymore, and i believed him. They broke up,and now they tell me that they are back together. What should i do?

2007-12-08 10:11:22 · 8 answers · asked by MakeLove,NotBabies!!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 10:09:24 · 17 answers · asked by gassybug 4 in Friends

Stuck between these two:

http://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii131/do_what_you_love/christina_hurvis_bridal3.jpg

http://www.verawang.com/ - Go to Bridal, Vera Wang, No. 10.

2007-12-08 10:08:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

HELP I CANT LIVE WITH IT ANYMORE! ITS TEARING MY HEART APART AND I CAN ONLY CRY ABOUT IT

please help.... i cant take it anymore!

2007-12-08 10:08:05 · 34 answers · asked by something crazy 4 in Singles & Dating

I started dating someone twenty years older than myself purely because i found the man funny and kind but as i got to know him more i found him controlling and completely untrusting because of a previous relationship. He was quick to fall in love and quick to treat me badly when i said i didn't feel the same. We were on and off for quite some time but he was continually nasty through texts and calls and worst of all when i was at work (in a pub to pay for my studies) so i would reconcile for the wrong reasons i.e. to make life easier. But I ended up moving away not because of him but because of family difficulties and now he's continually texting me and calling me saying he's found out that i've cheated on him behind his back with yet another man (I have never done this) I do not reply to his texts but he is continually nasty. A lot of people have my number and it's a big upheaval to change mobile number and i feel i shouldn't have to but i don't know what to do it makes me feel bad.

2007-12-08 10:06:58 · 42 answers · asked by tward1989 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if this guy likes me or not. can you explain any of these!
So thing number 1, he is struggling in French and always comes to me for help, but his mom speaks French fluently
2. He always sits near me on the bus
3. He makes up all these weird nicknames for me
4. He "copies" my features, if I smile he smiles. If i am in a bad mood, he is in a bad mood
EXPLAIN PLEASE!

2007-12-08 10:03:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but when it came to your partner sayin it they had the tendancy to sort of look a way when they were sayin i love you back.. wouldnt that tell you that they dont mean it? and when you actually tell them they look away, they look directly in your eyes and say it, would that just mean their tryin to dig themselves out of a hole?

2007-12-08 10:02:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she said it made her day, she is shy too,(she was talking to a friend about some day getting some pictures for her place) but it made me feel uneasy is that because of my shyness I don't feel that I was wrong though.

2007-12-08 10:01:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you still have sex? How often?Is it more trouble than it's worth or is it still good? How is it different from when you were in your 30's and 40's?

2007-12-08 10:00:03 · 3 answers · asked by Wildfire 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm thinking like...Why am i with this girl... I throw my dignity away just to live with her under the same roof who her legal husband is as well.

I'm not in the position i want. or i think i should want. Argh just confused. I'm extremely uncomfortable sleeping with her especially when her legal husband is around. I keep asking her to get a divorce because we are together. At least a divorce would put in me a right place just to be together with her.

She and her husband are seperated. He does what he wants with his own life, she does what she wants with hers. But they still communicates with each other because they have a kid together.

Right now, i'm pressuring her to get a divorce. but she wants to wait till her house sells? is that even good actually?

2007-12-08 09:59:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this boy zach at school i co cute. i am in love with him&dont know what2do. he makes me feel good but talk to me bad. in 2 1/2weeks we get out of school 4christmas vaca. i know i will cry in my missing of him and not knowing if he likes me yet.
should i give up on him 4GOOD or try my best to convince him to be in love with me.

2007-12-08 09:56:07 · 8 answers · asked by i LOVE zjefferson121 1 in Singles & Dating