Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

we have a contest to see who could get the most stars..
and he is rubbing it in my face that he beats me at everything! i rele want to beat him but i feel it is impossible!!! can u plz star me?? & if you already did before in my other question.. do u mind giving me another!?!?

2007-12-08 08:10:09 · 6 answers · asked by ♡ 4 in Family

Come on you can say no one will find out.

2007-12-08 07:59:57 · 46 answers · asked by Sheb 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 07:57:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We really don't have much money and my partners mother is going to help us out alot (her choice) even though she hasn't much money, my parents have loads more but are quite stingy, should I ask them to help out and how much should I hope thy contribute?

2007-12-08 07:54:46 · 35 answers · asked by Yoyo 1 in Weddings

what height / weight / eye color / hair color do you prefer for your bf/gf?

2007-12-08 07:53:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met him when I was seperated from my husband and was just getting to know him. I fell inlove with him but I still got back with my husband for my daughter and because I didn't know how he felt for me. He broke it off a year ago this month, yet we see eachother atleast every other month for either one or two nights together. I don't know what his life is like, does he have a girlfriend, is he married too? but I can't seem to just be happy with my husband. It's like I NEED to have my lover too. and although I know my lover will never commit to me, I love every moment we spend together even if its for one day. How do I stop hurting myself and my family when it hurts to think of letting go? I've never cheated in ANY relationship before this, but I am jaded from being cheated on. Am I just pissed off and won't let go of my past? Crap...I'm so dang confused. I just want to have the strength to let go of someone. And should I tell my lover I'm inlove with him? Help!!!!

2007-12-08 07:48:27 · 10 answers · asked by Fiera69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean their own favourite dresses obviously!

2007-12-08 07:46:57 · 28 answers · asked by Yoyo 1 in Weddings

I'm in a live in relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years. This Christmas we are doing it at our home togeather with my daughter that is 8 and his daughter that is 8 from other relationships. My family has ALWAYS had really big christmas' for my daughter. I want my daughter to enjoy the christmas' like always with lots and lots of gifts. I talked to him about this when i started my shopping .. He said for me to take care of my daughter and he would do his. Thats sounded great, but he has only got like 10 gifts in all for his daughter. I have bought alot more. I really dont want the kids to get up on Christmas morrning and not have the same amount of things. I feel like his daughter is not going to understand why Santa brought my daughter more and will be hurt. But at the same time i do not want to take away anything from my little girl. I don't have the extra cash to buy for his daughter like I did mine. I am really lost and dont know what to do.

2007-12-08 07:45:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see im dating this guy and im starting to like one of my best friends whose a guy and i really dont know how i should tell my boyfriend i like my best friend

2007-12-08 07:43:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I absolutely hate being tickled as I am VERY ticklish. But, I also love to tickle other people... call me crazy.

2007-12-08 07:43:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of six months said I've been acting clingy for two months by being overly emotional and "bringing down the mood." so i was wondering how i can stop portraying myself by being clingy.

2007-12-08 07:42:51 · 1 answers · asked by carhack 1 in Singles & Dating

i miss my loved ones a lot and i got kids so i no i dont want to leave them too but, i find myself dreaming of heaven and meeting up with all my loved ones i even got a book called 90 min. in heaven it is so good what i have got to read so far now my question is how can i stop dreaming of it so much i no it is not good to do that. or at least i guess not anyways. does anyone else do this or is it i have had a bad life for so long i am just tired of this earth already???confused...

2007-12-08 07:38:53 · 7 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Singles & Dating

recently i hurt someone very close to me. we have been together for years, and through time, we ended treating each other not so good. in the end i did something very hurtful to this person and i dont know what to do to make the situation better. i love this person very much and i want to still be with them, but i dont know what more i can say or do about the situation. now i have to move over 200 miles away and im scraed of what will happen to us. what should i do?

2007-12-08 07:38:02 · 12 answers · asked by tj573 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is presbyterian and i am converting to catholicism. We would like to have a church blessing for our renewal of vows. I was married once before (not as a christian or a catholic), and I was wondering if I can have a priest bless our marriage even though I was married before?

2007-12-08 07:37:40 · 14 answers · asked by Leslie Y 2 in Weddings

my friend and i have been close since sixth grade and someone wants to break our friendship up. what do i do?

2007-12-08 07:37:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Been friends throughout my teen years with somebody but recently shes been wierd. She started declining to come out with our group, leaving early or ignoring us. She'd already alienated a few people due to s**t stirring and talking behind backs but i'd always given her another chance because she was generally a nice person and i'm obviously a mug.
I thought maybe she was upset about something and i let her know i was there for her but she insisted nothing was wrong-then she stopped calling,texting,kept cancelling on me at the last minute and standing me up. I was the only one still inviting her out but i took the hint and stopped and we haven't talked since.
I bumped into her whilst i was shopping with a new friend and she put on a show,making out like nothing had changed?!?(i hear she doesn't really go out at all now).I was off with her, then since have txted several times asking for my stuff back but to no reply.Without kicking down her door how can i get answers and my stuff back?

2007-12-08 07:37:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

People find that outrageous; yet, the man is supose to kneel and beg the woman to marry him.

2007-12-08 07:36:21 · 52 answers · asked by Defender of GoodDestroyerofEvil 4 in Weddings

My grandma lives with us. My mom is getting to the point where she hates her, and I dont blame her. My g-ma is constantly bugging her. We've askd her to go and stay at my mom's sisters and brothers houses, but she wont. Just for a week, she wont! What can i do to help my mom, and give her a break from my g-ma?

2007-12-08 07:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok so this girl had a boyfriend but things didnt work out so she dumped him. Sh was single for a couple months and the same guy came to her and said "i want to try to make things work again". The girl said she would think about it. Then the girl met this other guy and he asked her out and she said she would think about it. so now she said she would think about dating two guys. What should she do.

2007-12-08 07:35:17 · 13 answers · asked by Liza 2 in Singles & Dating

hes never given me money for baby and he says he wants to see him.baby only 12wks old.

2007-12-08 07:32:21 · 17 answers · asked by help? 2 in Family

This guy that's in my English class, we're pretty good friends, but recently (don't ask me why.. I have no idea how this started) but everytime we see each other we stick our tongues.. he started it! And tonight, he was all trying to get me to go on the ice, and he's taken to tipping his hat whenever he sees me (think like what they do in the old Enligh movies) and getting some guy back because he was being a jackas.s, I had taken my skates off (I can't skate for long from a figure skating injury). Why is he suddenly acting so different? Just like I was helping my friend to choerograph a dance, and he spent the entire block (an hour and forty min) plus the lunchhour hanging out with us, and showing off. So why is he going to all the trouble? I mean I'm friends with the kid, but all the sudden he's hanging out with me like allll the time.

2007-12-08 07:32:18 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

So..been with boyfriend for almost 3 years..we are in our 20's and I talk about marriage alot...he does once in awhile and I think that is normal..we love eachother very much and have ups and dows like any relationship...well I want to get engaged when I am atleast 22 no later which will be in a year and half(we are the same age) yet he just keeps talking about moving out of his parents house and leasing a better car..he never mentions anything about our future together...a ring(engagement) or getting a place together..what do you think??? I'm thinking maybe he wants to live alone for a year or so independently and then we get engaged or something..but if he doesnt propse at a decent time then i am leaving him..i want to be engaged for 2 years and plan and stuff and i mention this to him but it seems as though he isnt thinking about these things like I am and i know he loves me but maybe he needs room...opinions! thanks...

2007-12-08 07:31:38 · 26 answers · asked by old 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend, and the other day I asked him just out of curiosity what kind of girls he liked. He said that he liked them to have a pretty face, to be outgoing, and to be able to get along with him. By pretty face I know he usually means Caucasian girls, nice eyes and cute nose. I know he broke -up with his GF of two years last year, and got hurt badly. Now he is just randomly dating girls that are according to his description. Although to me those girls are basically party girls, that are pretty. I understood that he got hurt badly, and all. And like most guys he is looking for the nice, pretty girl he can feel good with. But in the end. Do these guys end up marrying these girls?? I mean, I have seen pics of his bef GF and they are nothing like what he says he is looking for.

2007-12-08 07:30:49 · 3 answers · asked by rockgurl 1 in Singles & Dating

Well there is a girl that I know and whenever she is upset she doesn't listen or talk to you or anything and I just want her to stop doing it!!!

2007-12-08 07:30:20 · 5 answers · asked by Chester11 2 in Friends

I'm 19 he is 21 we plan to marry after we finish college we have know each other for only 4 months and have already clicked (we both are religious so nothing will happen) just wondering how long should you know someone before you know that they are 'the one' you want to spend your life with?

2007-12-08 07:28:57 · 9 answers · asked by meomy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK i have this sweet and nice boyfriend. i love him dearly. we have been going out for 3 months and i want to get him something for Christmas. i asked what he wanted and he said potassium nitrate. i don't' know where to buy that at and even if i did i would not buy it for him. so what do i get him. he loves jazz, science, musci, and rockets.

2007-12-08 07:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by advice_2_u 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, long story and I'll try to keep it short. Brandy was the girl I always had feelings for, but we where always dating other people. We finally got together 3 1/2 years ago and got engaged last december. Things had been great save for some arguements. The past month she has seemed off and a week ago told me she loves me and wants to get married and have kids with me, but is not ready. She wants to stay in our house through the summer and then move to LA for a few months. She said she just isn't happy with herself and needs to find out why and try to do things on her own because she never has.Needs to find herself. She insists she loves me and once she comes back she wants to continue the wedding, have kids, and everything we planned. I'm totally crushed by this. I can't even begin to figure out what to do. Her friends and family told her she's insane. She insisted on keeping the ring around her neck so when she comes back I can put it back on her finger and get on with our life. Help?

2007-12-08 07:26:14 · 9 answers · asked by Craig 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I knew this guy for about 2 years. When he's around me he gets kinda shy when I mention something sexual. His myspace says otherwise. Everything on there is sexual. Well he asked me out a couple of weeks ago and I rejected him because I thought he would be a pervert to me like he shows on his myspace and what I want is a relationship that doesn't involve sex till marriage. Did I do the right thing by rejected him?

2007-12-08 07:25:27 · 15 answers · asked by Danuta F 3 in Singles & Dating

Which one of them should I talk to first, Annabelle or DFA? Don't you sense electricity from those two, or is it my retarded imagination? Those two would make a perfect Y!Couple... DFA with his mild retardation and a weakness for silliness, and beautiful Annabelle with a mind and wit as sharp as a straight razor... If this is not a textbook example of beauty and the beast, I don't know what is.

2007-12-08 07:25:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 3 boys age 10, 12 and a baby boy thats 11 weeks. With my hubby, thats 4 boys and me. They are always on the video games and computers (one of the kids use mine) and Im always feeling left out. As soon as my husband walks in the door everyday (Im a stay at home mom), he goes straight for the computer, etc and hes on it until all hours of the night. I think its great that hes bonding with the 2 older boys, but Im doing everything at night and on the weekends. While theyre doing their fun things, Im still doing the chores, taking care of the baby and everything else. I do this all day and I dont get a break. I feel ignored, invisible and like a robot maid. Ive voiced this to him and he knows how I feel, but nothing has changed. We have a great relationship and this is the only thing that bothers me. I know if I asked him to do something specific he would but Im torn because i feel like id be taking him away from doing something he loves to do. Am I being selfish?

2007-12-08 07:23:30 · 10 answers · asked by tulips♥77 5 in Family