I have a guy friend, and the other day I asked him just out of curiosity what kind of girls he liked. He said that he liked them to have a pretty face, to be outgoing, and to be able to get along with him. By pretty face I know he usually means Caucasian girls, nice eyes and cute nose. I know he broke -up with his GF of two years last year, and got hurt badly. Now he is just randomly dating girls that are according to his description. Although to me those girls are basically party girls, that are pretty. I understood that he got hurt badly, and all. And like most guys he is looking for the nice, pretty girl he can feel good with. But in the end. Do these guys end up marrying these girls?? I mean, I have seen pics of his bef GF and they are nothing like what he says he is looking for.
2007-12-08 07:30:49 · 3 answers · asked by rockgurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It works a lot of ways and not all of them are good.
There are different forces at play in the male/female game, and they include intellectual attraction, sexual attraction, genuinely caring for the other person, and several other types of attraction.
Most guys like pretty girls. But they might settle for girls who have attractive personalities and are pleasant to look at.
The best person to marry is one who will connect with you in many ways and one who will love and care for you on your best days and your worst days. That is a rather tall order.
My first wife was very attractive and sexy. Unfortunately she had the morals of an alley cat. The marriage didn't work out. And your guy friend doesn't know what "hurt badly" is until he's had to end a 15-year marriage.
My advice is pretty consistent. Be a friend. Get to really know the other person. Then connect if you can, and let nature take its course. Be patient. Nature doesn't always take the course we want.
2007-12-09 19:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like you, I was a "chubby" girl throughout high school. I never thought I would find somebody to love me, for the way I was. I waited and waited, and you know I found a lot of guys that finally took notice of the person inside, not the outside. Take it a day at a time, don't be in such a hurry to find a boyfriend, when the time is right, Mr. Right will come along.
2016-05-22 05:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going out with those party girls as you call them because though he does want a long term relationship with a nice girl, he doesnt want to get into one of those relationship because he is concerned (ok scared) that he will get hurt again so going out with the "party girl" is the way around it; no real interest or worry about long term.
2007-12-08 07:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋