Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

2007-12-08 05:33:54 · 6 answers · asked by Natalie B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 05:33:47 · 9 answers · asked by 8thvision 2 in Singles & Dating

I love him so much and it's impossible for me to live without him. Everything's been great and i've never been happier than with i'm with him. But he said we need to take a break because our relationship is too physical, which is something we have discussed a lot. We are soo close emotionally that neither of us wanted to lose that so we are taking physical slowly but i dont understand why he doesnt want to just break from the physical. He's becoming depressed and i dont get it because it was his idea. All i want to do is hold him and make him feel better but he wont let me. He still loves me but he wont let me show or even tell him how much i love him.
I dont know what to do. I want him to feel bettter and it's destroying me to see him in pain.

2007-12-08 05:30:34 · 4 answers · asked by ali 2 in Singles & Dating

well im 17, and having a hard time comprehending things....lol go figure?
but my problem is this i have a boyfriend, we meet online, on HERE actually, been together 6+months and have met in person and hit it off quite well. ANYWAY (this isnt abt him) but i like this guy at school and he knows me pretty well and i know he doesnt like me, and im ok with that for the most part, but what im not okay with is he and my very close cousin started talking on Thr. and now are dating and its SATURDAY I REALLY dont want to be jealous but i just feel like he stabbed mein the back and she wasnt going to tell me, btw i found out from him today. they went to the movies ystd. i know i sound jealous but im still just hurt so what do i do, am i totally wrong about my "stabbed in the back" feeling????
anybody help guys and girls

2007-12-08 05:29:14 · 3 answers · asked by KandD 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf ,who iv been with about 2 months, is coming here tomorrow, I told him I wanted to talk to him about the way I feel. But now im feeling I wont know what to say to him, how to explian my feelings...I feel like I will be too shy to tell him what I think....I love him but he doesnt make me feel loved...
Like we made love for several times now, (We are a bit away from eachother so we meet just 2 times per week)....I feel like he just thinks of himself, Im still virgin but he has been with many girls, he is very hot.....we tried intercourse but since it was very paiful for me, we stoped it,...then I satisfy him (oral)... and he immediately leaves me,...it makes me feel bad...like he doesnt care for my feelings, you know what i mean?
I told him on the phone that we may have to end our relationship cuz i feel he doesnt love me,.It made him angry ..he couldnt understand whats the problem, he thinks everything is going well.So tomorrow I wanna talk to him about it,but no idea wt to say!?

2007-12-08 05:28:48 · 6 answers · asked by a fantasy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a prospective attorney with a starting salary of $80,000 and possibly more.
I've worked incredibly hard to get where I am, but I did have help. I come from a good family that put me through a private high school and top college and law school.
I do care very highly for a man's character and health, but I honestly don't think I'd be able to marry a man with lesser status. I want my kids to have the same advantages that I had and more.
I'm moderately attractive but really kind and bright and dress well. So I guess it over powers my 7/10 or 6/10 status.

Does anyone agree or disagree with me? Am I now all of a sudden a "gold-digging witch?"

2007-12-08 05:27:31 · 23 answers · asked by Carolina P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been noticing this trend more and more. I'm not saying we are perfect (far from it) but we try. Enough already!!

2007-12-08 05:23:20 · 6 answers · asked by MLA 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 05:22:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She doesn't snoop through his stuff, but he still insists on cleaning out the history on his computer whenever she asks to borrow it, except this last time. She was attempting to attach a photo to an email and stumbled upon the 20 videos of "hot asians looking for action"!

She is concerned because he has been hiding it from her. He has not shown much sexual interest in quite a while (he has a cut off time of when it is acceptable to have sex). She is a white girl and is concerned he has been spending too much alone time with the "asian girls" and is no longer attracted to her. What advice do I give?

2007-12-08 05:22:30 · 9 answers · asked by Cherry Darling 6 in Singles & Dating

I've known her since the 3rd grade, we are both freshman in college and are really good friends. She is coming to go to a party next friday night and is staying the night at my place becuase I live a couple hours away from her. How do I tell her that I love her and should I tell her before the party, or before she leaves Saturday morning?

2007-12-08 05:21:20 · 8 answers · asked by The Real McCoy 3 in Singles & Dating

Married to my wife was the best choice ever in my life. Her Birthday is coming up and i was wondering what would be a good presant to give her?

2007-12-08 05:19:58 · 18 answers · asked by dli 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Its four months that Im married now, two months after the wedding hubby got back to his home country. cuz me and husband live in different countries, he'll stay there until his papre works are done in the immigration service. what worries me is that though we're far he never talks of sex, lacking it, missing it, remembering it...absolutely nothing, am I right to worry?

2007-12-08 05:19:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-08 05:18:58 · 22 answers · asked by mm22 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife borowing money to support her sun (he is 28 and does not like to work living with us ) we bought a hause joint tenancy.every time i complain she sayes she will divorce me.
are they going to cofiscate my own asset if she cant pay her debt or i am save?

2007-12-08 05:17:55 · 11 answers · asked by spicy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short, one of my husbands close friends told us that my cousin"Joe" said nasty lies about my husband and I. I know Joe said it because he said details that would apply. Such as when we lived with Joe for 3 weeks we did not pay him (lie). Joe said that my husband and I are irresponsible which is another lie and so on. Lie after lie. He is a cocaine addict and talks about everyone and tonight he is having a party for his mom at his house. We do not want to attend because I don't appreciate his lies. I want to confront him so bad but I gave my husband my word that I would not. What should I do about the party and the confrontation. This is really bothering us. I hate being around liars and back stabbers. All my hubby ever did for him wqas get him a job, lend him money etc. and this is the appreciation that we get.

2007-12-08 05:16:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy in my language arts class, i'm pretty sure he likes me too, but i cant tell for sure, and if he does like me, how do i tell him, without actualy telling him?

2007-12-08 05:15:53 · 2 answers · asked by pks9797 1 in Singles & Dating

Some people just presume they are going to be invited. People I know very casually through association and don't even know my fiance.

My mother said it's wrong to be blunt and that's just being rude.

Your thoughts?

2007-12-08 05:14:52 · 21 answers · asked by Jazzy 4 in Weddings

2007-12-08 05:14:05 · 22 answers · asked by High_Sun 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has been being bitchy for like a week and after every little argument she apologizes and says she is sorry and she really should not be taking her anger out on me. She said part of her anger is that I dont fully trust her...basically because of her past (drinking and hooking up). Then today she said she wants and open relationship...but not meaning to hook up with other guys. anyone ever in a situation like this?..what does it mean?>

2007-12-08 05:13:39 · 3 answers · asked by Johnny J 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i find if a person is married...he is saying he is not but i really think he is...

thanks

he lives in california and not sure if their are websites for this info

2007-12-08 05:13:26 · 6 answers · asked by Suzanne P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bff keeps daring me to kiss my guy friend. She wont leave me alone til i do.im gonna in 2 days...monday. Should i just go up to him and kiss him or tell what im gonna do and wait to see what he says? answer A.S.A.P!!!plz

2007-12-08 05:10:46 · 45 answers · asked by luvin him 1 in Singles & Dating

mainly for woman... but guys can answer tooo

2007-12-08 05:07:37 · 14 answers · asked by John 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 05:06:50 · 14 answers · asked by * 1 in Singles & Dating

All my family lives in texas and my husband had us (me and our son) move to virginia(where we have no family or friends) we have been here for 2 years (we are going to have anouther boy in 4 weeks, and now my sister (who is my best friend) says she might move up here to live(with her 9 yr son) but she would live with us and we are barly making it. but i miss her so much !!!
but my husband says its wrong to push her to leave my other sister(her twin) and other family just to be with us. that if i giult her into it and she's not happy she will hold it aginst me. but im having a baby none of my family will meet . i havent seen them in 2 years (no money to visit)
I think the jobs are better for her here and i stay home with my kids so i can watch her boy (wich i have helped raise) too.
Is it wrong to try to move her up here?

2007-12-08 05:05:21 · 7 answers · asked by jessica l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been pretty close to each other since september.he is a player,and bad boy.he flirts around a lot of girls.but today.when we were on msn,he asked me to reply his sentence "i love you babe"
but i wont,i asked him if he is serious.then he said just reply.
i didnt reply,then he said again, im just kiddin,i just want to know if my msn is workin well.
after an hour,he return his word with that "i love you beb"
i didnt reply anything,after he said okay just reply me with i hate you,i dont love you like i did yesterday.
he forced me to reply,but i still didnt do it.i asked him to explain about it,but it takes so long after he replied with im just kiddin.i didnt mean to ask you out

what has happened?
im soooooooooo confused

2007-12-08 05:04:15 · 16 answers · asked by msdigitalism 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you go home feeling like a loser and unattractive? Today I'm just thinking about those 2 and how I couldn't have any time with them, so my confidence is shot today.
What would you do/feel?

2007-12-08 05:03:46 · 6 answers · asked by topink 6 in Singles & Dating

He sayz he lovez me & he sayz he actually meanz it but he hasn't called me in dayz...I luv him 2 much 2 break up w/ him but I dont get a chance 2 talk 2 him about it!

2007-12-08 05:03:40 · 19 answers · asked by amber1320012000 1 in Singles & Dating

Are women brainwashed to believe they are only good for Playboy or making babies?

Seems like many women(even men) are catty towards each other and cannot accept females as authority figures.
Cause if that wasnt the case there would have been at LEAST 1 woman President in America by now.......since the year America, land of the free and equal was born.

Over 200 years of "free and equal" and no woman President yet? hmmmmmmmmmmmm interesting.

And for those who are slow and will point out that women havent had the right to vote until recently...........THAT's exactly my point. It isnt free and equal then..... is it?????

2007-12-08 05:01:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife just told me she is pregnant, we are fairly young and already have one kid. I'm not ready for another one. I know for a fact that she has already had 2 abortions so i don't see what the big deal is. She is a stay at home mom and I am the sole provider of our family. I am very stressed out as it is and I don't know how to tell her that I can't take any more right now. I feel like we should wait. We always decided that we wanted to wait until our 1st child was 2, and he's not yet, but the BC pill was making her sick, so she stopped taking it. I don't get why shes trying to change the plans that we made just because she happens to be pregnant now. Am I wrong, Is she? How do I tell her that I love her and our child, but that I'm just not ready.

2007-12-08 05:00:12 · 18 answers · asked by james 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-08 04:58:27 · 13 answers · asked by Rod W 1 in Singles & Dating