Family & Relationships - 8 December 2007

i need help! i have 2 kids. my husband left me 1 year ago and now i hve no money! i havent been paying my bills and the electric company will be shutting it off soon. my mother wont let me stay with her because she has no room in her house. My kids are 10 and 7. i really need help. i will not be homeless and live on the streets!! i dont know what to do!! please help me!!

2007-12-08 04:57:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If someone loves you they wouldn't give in to what other people thought or say?

2007-12-08 04:55:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 04:52:28 · 17 answers · asked by kittens 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I think i've fallen for someone, but in a very pathetic way, because it's been going on for like 2 years, and 90% of the time i'm just trying to avoid him because i'm afraid to get hurt of any little comment he says (oh and it happend) and analyze every step he does in a very stupid way.
It's really weird because I know you can't fall for someone you don't like being around (scared and emberassed would be a better way to describe).

And now this year I started dating someone else, but when I met this guy I like, I started being obssesed about him again, just because we had a little talk. But now my feelings are more of an on and off feelings, because I don't see him that much and because I like my boyfriend, too. Yeah, I know this is really pathetic.

So, have I fallen for this guy, and if so, what can I do?
oh and btw this 'little' thing made my last year really sucky, I was really miserable and cried a lot.

2007-12-08 04:52:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my height and single status is always at the back of my mind these days and troubling me a lot :(

2007-12-08 04:48:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in the process of a divorce and have two little boys, ages four and six. He's got a girlfriend, and I HATE that I was replaced so soon after he moved out (ten days after he moved out, she slept over). We have split custody (a 4-day rotation).

I KNOW it's a bad idea for me to get into a relationship at this point. I still care about him and the divorce isn't final yet. I don't need to get attached to anyone right now, and I REALLY dont' think our kids should be getting attached to anyone else right now.

But on my four days off, I pretty much just go to work, come home and do nothing all night. A guy friend asked me out, and I told him I'd think about it. I know I don't need a serious or sexual relationship right now, and it would not be something I would let my kids know about, much less bring around them. Would it be just as bad an idea for me to go out on a date as it would for me to get into an ill-advised relationship at this point?

2007-12-08 04:47:11 · 20 answers · asked by CrazyChick 7 in Marriage & Divorce

really shy and kind of unpopular. but she was kind of cute. she didn't have a lot of friends and didn't really talk to a lot of people and when she did, you had to be the first one to talk to her.

what did you think of her?
would you date her?

2007-12-08 04:43:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are deploying to Iraq in six days. So he wanted to go to a bachelor party tonight with one of our friends who we won't see for a year or so. Our friend said there would be beer pong at the barracks on base for this guy's bachelor party (three hours from where we live). Our friend who my husband wants to spend time with is getting married in two weeks. The last words out of his mouth when they left to make the trip this morning was "Come on! Let's get on the road so I can get back and get laid!" There is a new girl in his company who he's been cheating on his fiance with. His fiance is also our friend. She lives over nine hours away, and has no idea what he's doing with this other girl. After he metioned sleeping with this other chick, he mentioned how they were going to the strip club tonight. My husband knows that I see porn and strip clubs as disrespectful to me and all women. I have made my point very clear from the beginning...

2007-12-08 04:42:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a huge crush on a junior that goes to my school.i am a freshmen.i have never talked to him b4 but ppl tell me that he is a super nice guy! i wuld really like to get to kno him though. i have liked him for like 4 months and just recently he has been looking at me constantly in the mornings and at lunch and then when i pass him in th ehallways he glances at me EVERYDAY! He has been doing this every day for the past 2 weeks...why?? He has a GF though and they supposely just started going out. What does glances mean if they happen every day from the same guy? could it mean something? does he know i like him? he barely even knows me and i don't know him that well but he seems like a really cool guy...can u be interested in someone you don't know?? and at lunch his friends always look back at me and he does it too...my friends even notice him glancing at me all the time...please help me i am so confused!!!

2007-12-08 04:39:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was told I had cancer about 2 years ago.
My husband left me because he said I was going to die anyway and he wanted to find someone new.
Well my surgery went very well and I am healthy again.
My husband now wants me back, I took vows and I am very serious about them but all my friends and family say not to go back.
Deep down I know I dont want him back but I still love him and we share our daughter.
Its just very confusing.
So one more chance for him or nothing anymore?
Would the best thing be for me to just move on?
Any advice? Thanks

2007-12-08 04:37:19 · 20 answers · asked by nuvision93952 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy who i like
and i slept with him before
anyway i saw him in the town centre with his girlfriend and told them me and my guy split up
a week later i saw him in the pub and found out he broke up with his girlfriend (someone to;d me )
so then he asked me how was it where i was living and asked me if i met anyone yet
also he told me that he liked i wanna love you by akon.
and he sent a song through blue tooth
so what do you lot think

2007-12-08 04:36:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just curious.

Been hunting when it was -34 out. Just curious on the creative ways one could stay warm.

some ideas could actually make a marriage better, LOL

2007-12-08 04:36:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For the longest time my boyfriend was without a cell phone yet he always called me promptly. Now that he has a cell phone he doesn't call as early as he says he will, or he won't even call at all. The last time we made plans, he never called to give me a time. I called him and he was doing his laundry! What is going on here?

2007-12-08 04:34:22 · 10 answers · asked by mdaneshrsenior9990272 2 in Singles & Dating

Also, for wedding registries, what would be a good price range to be in?

2007-12-08 04:33:06 · 12 answers · asked by Now SC 1 in Weddings

I stay with my younger brother and mother. I am the sole bread earner for the family. We are in hand to mouth living, staying in a small portion for nearly 10 years. Mt landlord wanted us to vacate as he wanted to increase the rent. We refused to vacate as we have been maintaining the house for the last 10 years without failing the payment even for one month.

Failing to convince us, he started a new game. The next day he came to my house when my brother left to school and my mother to temple.When I opened the door immediately he hugged me, kissed on my face and squeezed my butts violently. He bit my lips so blood was spilling. He did all this at the door where outsiders can see, and I had to rush inside. He too entered and grabbed my breasts from behind, squeezed them violently, told me that he would do this till I vacate.
Next day I went along with my mother to temple stayed for half hour till my office time and left to office. I returned late in the evening so my mother was back eventhough my brother went to play. He again came, even knowing that my mother is in kitchen but still reached me biting my lips. He pushed his hand in to my blouse and grabbed my breast and even crushed between thighs with other hand. When I tried to shout he closed my mouth and licked my cheeks. The only word he told me is that I needed to vacate.
The issue in our society is that even if I raise my voice people may help and beat the guy but they will show disrespect to me as well for no reason. This is one reason why I was not able to tell any others.
I tried my best to avoid him by going out early and coming late back to home, but his attacks continued somehow and the degree of molesting increased.
On one day when he caught me on the terrace of house where no one can see us. He was leisurely removing the buttons of my blouse while lifted my sari up to waist groping my bare thighs. Thats when had to break and agreed to vacate. He heard me but continued fondling my breasts. When I requested him to leave me as I agreed to vacate, he kept quite but continued.
The attacks repeated. He even indicated that he wanted me wherever I go.
Now the problem was not even vacating the house. I must get rid of this person. All I am thinking is to get some training on offesive techniques to tackle him. Can any of you help me?

2007-12-08 04:32:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, like I have 2 little brothers and from time to time I get really mad at them. Like for example, my little brother who is 5 years old was bugging me and so i just gave him a little shove and he started freaking out crying. Then my mom came in and called my dad who is at work and said that I choked him, and cracked his neck and stuff like that, because my little brother said that I did that but I didint! He fake crys too, just to get me in trouble, but my mom believes him because he is her favorite. So, now they are saying that I am grounded, and not getting anything for christmas, and my mom called me a little bastard. They are also not talking to me. And now he is fine! He just faked cry to get me in trouble then he goes on with his life. Please help me with this. This happens alot.

2007-12-08 04:31:30 · 3 answers · asked by Nick Says Relax. DONT DO IT. 2 in Family

If a married woman has a very close guy friend who she knows fancies her is it acceptable for her to engage in teasing and light playfighting (gentle punching, poking, chasing, tickling, etc) with him? Is she sending the wrong signal? Does it make a difference if they're alone?

2007-12-08 04:30:49 · 14 answers · asked by SITSC 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently living with my girlfriend. We've been together for quite a while, and I feel like I am getting the short end of the stick so to speak.

I work full time during the day and go to school in the early morning and some nights. I study when I can, but I still make time for her and I to go out and just have fun at least a time or two a week. She doesn't work, because she stays home and takes care of her 18 month old and I am fine with that.

However, am I being unreasonable to ask that the house be kept at least somewhat clean and that we don't have dishes rotting in the sink despite the fact that we have a dishwashing machine? Particularly if she doesn't work?

The place is a disaster area whenever I get home, and I eventually end up cleaning up because it becomes impossible not to step on or kick something when walking through the house. I do my own laundry because if I don't it doesn't get done and I take out the trash as well as care for the yard...

Am I being a jerk?

2007-12-08 04:29:55 · 22 answers · asked by Doogin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

girls is money attractive cause i flash my wallet and ladies love it, they should i work to hard for a 14 year old

2007-12-08 04:27:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-08 04:25:30 · 5 answers · asked by sequoyah chick 1 in Singles & Dating

when you dream there's no sound? Or is that just in my dreams? What did you dream about last night?

2007-12-08 04:25:07 · 7 answers · asked by CaDBFe 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-08 04:24:29 · 7 answers · asked by himu 1 in Singles & Dating

lets say you were with somebody whom treated you sooooo good. You had the best relationship but the sex wasn't always spectacular. Would you cheat?

I am asking because my hubby and I have a wonderful relationship and a very active sex life. (almost daily... sometimes more!) Some nights its really hot and I KNOW he was loving it and others... its just "eh". I mean, there is only so much you can do and if you do the same thing EVERYDAY, wont he get sick of it? I want to wow him on occasion, not the same routine everyday kind of thing

2007-12-08 04:23:59 · 9 answers · asked by blah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm smart with a great personality, but because my looks, I'm scared I'm shafted to not so great looking guys.
http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd287/anagavalda109/MyPicture_2.jpg

2007-12-08 04:23:02 · 4 answers · asked by Carolina P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in need of this.
I want to make myself more appelaing to guys.
I am 13 and need to lose alittle weight.
AND EVERYTHING ELSE!
Help!!

2007-12-08 04:22:07 · 4 answers · asked by Courtney♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if your husband repeatedly done this. Yesterday I was supposed to meet him in town at 1:30 and because I have to rely on someone else for transportation I was like ten minutes late. But he left AT 1:30 because I wasn't there. Then he was angry at me for being late and for not getting things done that I said I would. But everything I had planned on doing depended on my ride. I am still very upset with him. It is the principle that he is so inconsiderate.

2007-12-08 04:20:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or do guys just get nervous about a new baby on the way and fear the responsibility?

My guy sometimes says he doesn't think the baby is his because my dates are off.....my dates have been the same since the first day I told him. (the first day of my last period is June 13th. I conceived June 27 or so. My daughter's birthday was that weekend....I remember other things that happened that weekend clearly. in any case, I've never cheated or given him a reason to feel I was)

What makes me unsure if he's for real or not is because we are having a girl and he says 'it' still like I don't know the gender either.

Is he just messing with my head or does he think it's not his?

2007-12-08 04:18:23 · 4 answers · asked by Cita 2 in Singles & Dating

How did it turn out?
Do you regret it?
Do you still talk to that person?

2007-12-08 04:17:23 · 7 answers · asked by qwerty 4 in Singles & Dating

i've worked with this girl for about 1 & a half years, we become pretty good friends, i started to have feelings for her about 4 months ago & i told her how i felt but she said she only see's me as a friend but shes got a boyfriend so shes bound to say that anyways. Anyway she said it would be best if we diddn't talk anymore to help me get over her, so i agreed, it's killing me but in the long run it'll help. BUT these past couple of shifts i've worked with her i've seen her looking at me, i don't mean a 1 second glance, i mean a full stance stare but when i look at her she looks away. i was just wondering if this means anything or not?

2007-12-08 04:13:28 · 29 answers · asked by Allstar 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm in the mid 30's and I'm trying to salvage my current relationship. I see the same pattern, my gfs say I'm the one of the nicest person. But then I'm too nice, trying to please everyone.

2007-12-08 04:12:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating