What would you do if your husband repeatedly done this. Yesterday I was supposed to meet him in town at 1:30 and because I have to rely on someone else for transportation I was like ten minutes late. But he left AT 1:30 because I wasn't there. Then he was angry at me for being late and for not getting things done that I said I would. But everything I had planned on doing depended on my ride. I am still very upset with him. It is the principle that he is so inconsiderate.
2007-12-08 04:20:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why weren't you there?
2007-12-08 04:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by crazykiaray23 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's really ridiculous that u guys are married and ur fighting about something like this, but it is also pretty dumb that he couldn't wait an extra 10 min. Don't u have cell phones?
2007-12-08 12:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he was rude sounds like a controlling type a person
hope it gets better..maybe he should seek counseling
He knew you were depending on a ride!
2007-12-08 12:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by dawnO 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
His communication skills are rotten and I think he has other things on his mind bugging him, this is just the excuse to rag on you.
He shares responsibility for your limitations...he can either help FACILITATE your transportation success or be GRACIOUS and PATIENT with how you handle it alone.
Dumb shxx. (him, not you)
2007-12-08 12:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a good idea to tell him not ask that you need a car of your own so you can get things done when he wants them done. Then you shouldn't have to get them done when he wants them your not his slave
2007-12-08 12:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ring him to tell him im on my way im late.
however if it was his lunchbreak i can see why.
ten mins late is not a lot but if you always late it can be quite annoying why dont your husband pick you up and go together
2007-12-08 12:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by jetsetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you couldn't get yourself there on time because you had to rely on someone else to get there. so you should tell him that and that you are sorry for not being there on time and ask for forgiveness. thats all you can do.
2007-12-08 12:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he should be mature enough to realize anything you had to
do was contingent upon your ride getting you there on
time, if your ride was late, thats not your fault.
2007-12-08 12:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Marriage makes it so much harder because you can't just leave the relationship. I would be infuriated. I hate men!
2007-12-08 12:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by cool_jivin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to stop being a strict timekeeper is he or ever been in the ARMY [sergeant major]
2007-12-08 12:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should of aleast waited for 10-15 mins. thats not right wat he did, maybe he was having a bad day?
2007-12-08 12:23:24 · answer #11 · answered by JoBroLuver4LiFe<3* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋