i've worked with this girl for about 1 & a half years, we become pretty good friends, i started to have feelings for her about 4 months ago & i told her how i felt but she said she only see's me as a friend but shes got a boyfriend so shes bound to say that anyways. Anyway she said it would be best if we diddn't talk anymore to help me get over her, so i agreed, it's killing me but in the long run it'll help. BUT these past couple of shifts i've worked with her i've seen her looking at me, i don't mean a 1 second glance, i mean a full stance stare but when i look at her she looks away. i was just wondering if this means anything or not?
2007-12-08 04:13:28 · 29 answers · asked by Allstar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't mean squat. She is probably just checking to see if you're over her yet.
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2007-12-08 04:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Šωèé†íé♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you were asking a guys point of view. But from a girls point of view she probably just needed time to think about how she felt which is why she told you that she only views you as a friend. And it sounds like now she is starting to be a little more interested. If I were you I would just ask her out on a date but only as friends and see where it goes. Good luck!
2007-12-08 04:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to read to much into it. Go out with your friends and have a flirt with other girls to help yourself get over her. Even if she does have a soft spot for you, she most probably won't leave her boyfriend. They never do. My best mate has a boyfriend and another boy likes her who she quite likes but she will never take that step to leave her boyfriend. It's too uch of a risk for her to take to throw away her relatiosnhip when you two may not have worked out. Go out there and find someone who will make you happy and not so complicated.
2007-12-08 04:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean either a: she MAY have feelings for you or, (more likely) she's distracted by your admission and doesnt know how to make it not awkward between you guys. I would suggest giving her space for now, and letting her figure out how she feels about you (and i mean that on a friendship level, not romantic. This can be an awkward position for her, especially because she has a bf), before approaching her and talking to her again (and not about your feelings for her!). I wouldnt bring it up again unless you feel that she may reciprocate the feelings.
2007-12-08 04:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means prolly that she misses you as a friend. And she feels bad for telling you that you shouldnt talk anymore. But if thats how she feels she shouldnt be teasing you with her looks ya know? Find a new friend to crush on that's available. Good Luck!
2007-12-08 04:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by DirtyPersian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, no one wanted to tell you, but you got a huge booger hanging outta your nose.
Seriously, if you were good friends she probably misses your companionship. At the same time she's thinking she doesn't want to lead you on. Just be friends with her and find another girl.
2007-12-08 04:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by ChemESGH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think dude. If you are in the situation and you don't know...how are we as complete strangers going to know...when we've only had your 7 lines of text to read. If you had the balls to tell her how you felt before, you surely have it in you to ask her why she's eyeing you. Go for it and report back to us, maybe you'll even get lucky.
2007-12-08 04:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by M.M.12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask her if her feelings have changed, and at the same time, tell her that just being friends is OK if they haven't. Tell her that you noticed her looking at you a few times and that you were just wondering. If she says that she hasn't changed her feelings about you......Drop it and move on..... she had her opportunity.
2007-12-08 04:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it dude, if shes got a boyfriend whats the point of you thinking that way. Goodluck.
2007-12-08 04:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by WWJD? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably feeling bad about the whole situation, and how she gave you the whole 'i think its best we don't talk anymore' lyrics. whenever she glances at you, she's just checking if your looking at her. i suggest you never go up to her nor talk to her, give her what she suggested. if she really likes you, then she'll come talk to you and say sorry as well.
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2007-12-08 04:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on , man. You know none of us have any idea what might be going on in the dizzy heads [no offense!] of females. Just grab your b*lls, walk right up to her and ask "what's up though?" Tell her you need to know because others are waiting.
Do what this Pimp says and get results.
2007-12-08 04:18:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋