My bf ,who iv been with about 2 months, is coming here tomorrow, I told him I wanted to talk to him about the way I feel. But now im feeling I wont know what to say to him, how to explian my feelings...I feel like I will be too shy to tell him what I think....I love him but he doesnt make me feel loved...
Like we made love for several times now, (We are a bit away from eachother so we meet just 2 times per week)....I feel like he just thinks of himself, Im still virgin but he has been with many girls, he is very hot.....we tried intercourse but since it was very paiful for me, we stoped it,...then I satisfy him (oral)... and he immediately leaves me,...it makes me feel bad...like he doesnt care for my feelings, you know what i mean?
I told him on the phone that we may have to end our relationship cuz i feel he doesnt love me,.It made him angry ..he couldnt understand whats the problem, he thinks everything is going well.So tomorrow I wanna talk to him about it,but no idea wt to say!?
2007-12-08 05:28:48 · 6 answers · asked by a fantasy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You told us all the things that you should be discussing with him. Find the right time and just talk to him as frankly as you have been talking to us.
2007-12-08 05:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by megalomaniac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consideration and equality I believe are 2 words you will need to be using tomorrow,among the many you gonna need.
anyone who gets angry when told their''other half'' has a problem....seems the wrong person to be with..
2007-12-08 13:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say what u wanna say, what the thing on your mind...
u must be honet to him, especially to yourself...
if u don't work out to him, there must be another good person for u... 1 man go, another 10000 come... =)
2007-12-08 13:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by milan-on-d-air 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!
You suck his **** and then he leaves - your right - hes arrogant and only thinks of himself!! what does he do for you?
Its hard face to face - and if the worst comes to the worst - do it over the phone (phone him - dont text him cos thats really bad)
2007-12-08 13:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k let's get this traight...i understand that you loe him n everything but if he can't respect the way u fell dump him. As for telling him...even tho it sounds hard as hell but u have to be upfront and say it
2007-12-08 13:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you should tell him in a nice way that its not working out between u 2.if he is hurting u that much then u shouldnt be with him and you never know wat he has(an example would be aids) tell him the truth about how u feel.
2007-12-08 13:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by tweetylover#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋