Do you go home feeling like a loser and unattractive? Today I'm just thinking about those 2 and how I couldn't have any time with them, so my confidence is shot today.
What would you do/feel?
2007-12-08 05:03:46 · 6 answers · asked by topink 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just walk on and live your life like a man. There are PLENTY of fish out there and they may not be at that party.
2007-12-08 05:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, other people found you attractive (whether they were trolls or not) they still thought you were attractive. Maybe the 2 you like aren't interested because you're not their type. It shouldn't make you feel like a loser. My suggestion is maybe you're standrads are too high and maybe you should look at realistic women who can be attractive too
2007-12-08 13:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
situations like that use to make me feel inadequate. hell, i went with a girl for four years, that was always trying to change me and made me feel inadequate. other friends thought i was cool enough for them. who was right? why should you change your opinion of yourself based on what the minority thinks? maybe it was the trolls that really were the attractive ones. maybe the other two were trolls underneath the glitz.
the best part of my ex-relationship, was that she was sleeping around, while making me feel like a loser. in that instance, i let myself be a loser. it took me several years to see it. i went back to the wonderful woman that i dropped for miss glitzy. she finally agreed to marry me. we have been married 5 years now. she makes me feel good about myself.
maybe this isn't what you wanted to read/hear, but superficial qualities may be a waste of time. you never gave yourself a chance to see what the others were really about. would you have felt better about yourself with one of the trolls?
i wonder?
2007-12-08 15:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by tomjohn2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, that's just the norm.If you go out with the one's that find you attractive, you usually end up breaking it off with them. if you go out with the one's that you find attractive they usually end up breaking it off with you. It's your choice!!
2007-12-08 13:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by david 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I WILL BUILT MY OWN CONFIDENCE AND BOYCOTT THE PARTY.
2007-12-08 13:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by Maharaj K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are the troll
2007-12-08 13:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by kaddykat 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋