well im 17, and having a hard time comprehending things....lol go figure?
but my problem is this i have a boyfriend, we meet online, on HERE actually, been together 6+months and have met in person and hit it off quite well. ANYWAY (this isnt abt him) but i like this guy at school and he knows me pretty well and i know he doesnt like me, and im ok with that for the most part, but what im not okay with is he and my very close cousin started talking on Thr. and now are dating and its SATURDAY I REALLY dont want to be jealous but i just feel like he stabbed mein the back and she wasnt going to tell me, btw i found out from him today. they went to the movies ystd. i know i sound jealous but im still just hurt so what do i do, am i totally wrong about my "stabbed in the back" feeling????
anybody help guys and girls
2007-12-08 05:29:14 · 3 answers · asked by KandD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
p.s. he has ben going out with other girls and up until now i totally was okay with it i was more looking for a friend dispite how much i like him, he has been a cool guy to talk to, but why is it her that got me upset???
2007-12-08 05:32:25 · update #1
It doesn't sound like anyone "stabbed you in the back". Your cousins don't have to okay their new boyfriends with you, do they? Your close cousin can have a boyfriend who you know without telling you. It's her business, and his business, not yours.
Maybe you are just a little teeny bit jealous, and that's okay. Really. But try to be happy for your cousin and for the guy you like in school. You have a boyfriend, right? So let the other guy enjoy his girlfriend. The "jealous" feeling will probably go away soon. There is no reason for you to feel hurt. No one has done anything wrong.
Hope that helps you.
ADDED LATER:
I just read the addition to your question, maybe because it is your cousin, a family member, who he likes that is causing the jealous feeling. Are you usually jealous of her? Again, try to be happy for them. There is really no reason not to. The fact that you are concerned about these feelings you're having proves that you are a caring and considerate young woman. Give yourself some credit...we are ALL allowed to feel jealous sometimes. It's how we handle it that matters.
2007-12-08 05:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you are wrong to feel that way because you and him didn't have anything going on. Just because you like someone doesn't mean that it puts an "off-limits" stamp on their head for people that you know. Your cousin was probably trying to spare your feelings by not telling you. Just realize that the things you found attractive are probably the same things your cousin sees.
2007-12-08 05:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause you have diffrent expectations of her
2007-12-08 05:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Right 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋