She doesn't snoop through his stuff, but he still insists on cleaning out the history on his computer whenever she asks to borrow it, except this last time. She was attempting to attach a photo to an email and stumbled upon the 20 videos of "hot asians looking for action"!
She is concerned because he has been hiding it from her. He has not shown much sexual interest in quite a while (he has a cut off time of when it is acceptable to have sex). She is a white girl and is concerned he has been spending too much alone time with the "asian girls" and is no longer attracted to her. What advice do I give?
2007-12-08 05:22:30 · 9 answers · asked by Cherry Darling 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAVE HER LAY IT ALL OUT WITH A SIT DOWN WITH HIM. And have him make a choice...then leave him as there are plenty fish in the sea and even more Asians to compete with. For her anyway, bad joke. How long were they together? Are they married? It's not the porn it's the secret & lack of physical love.
2007-12-08 06:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by nonstp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-17 06:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like what they like, and they fantasize and have porn collections. Its all normal stuff.. not much you can do about it. Really the only thing I can suggest is for that couple to talk to each other about what has happened with their sex life and go from there. Maybe he will give another explanation that had nothing to do with asian porno such as being bored in the bedroom due to boring repetition.
2007-12-08 05:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd put my foot down and demand he choose her or the porn. I'm a guy, I know. And no, this isn't going to end well, but it'll end worse the longer she waits.
2007-12-08 05:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a nature for especially a guy...
u just have to accept that, what the hell can he do with those kind of stuff? =)
at least it means your friend's BF isn't a gay and he's normal..
2007-12-08 05:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by milan-on-d-air 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He needs to stop if it's upsetting her & effecting their sex life & relationship.
Tell her to talk to him about it
2007-12-08 05:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dulcie, Find a different guy !
2007-12-08 05:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude dont be ragging on asian porn its the bombdigity
2007-12-09 17:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell her to confront him about it
2007-12-08 05:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by mr fugi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋