hes never given me money for baby and he says he wants to see him.baby only 12wks old.
2007-12-08 07:32:21 · 17 answers · asked by help? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
http://www.childsupport.com/ChildSupportLaws.asp....
Here is a good website to go to they tell you all the laws and what process you have to go through to get money for child support. Good Luck!
2007-12-08 07:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If you havent went to court, I would start there. If you have I would say child support enforcement. Good luck with both I went to court did all that and havent seen anything for 4 years! Oh and by the way if he pays or not he can see the child! A parents interest in a child is more important than money, in court!
2007-12-08 07:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to get a court order for child support.
You need to go down to the courthouse and file a claim for child support. Most courthouses will have a directory or information desk that can direct you.
Important point: Once he's obligated to pay you child support, there's a VERY good chance he'll be given visitation rights unless you can provide them with a really good reason why he shouldn't. I.e.: The fact that you hate him isn't going to be enough.
So make sure that you understand that he's going to have a LEGAL RIGHT to spend time with the child once you begin collecting child support.
Good luck!
2007-12-08 07:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he will give you a set amount of money per week for your son. Failing that you need to get the C.S.A involved. Is his name on the birth certificate? If your on Income support and the C.S.A get involved you wont feel the benefit of his money. If he is still not paying go see a solicitor and take him to court.
2007-12-08 08:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men! i'm still waiting to find a decent one there must be some out there somewhere.
my ex used to give me money but my son didn't like staying overnight with him so i said i wasn't going to force my son to stay over with him and now he dosen't give me a penny although he still sees his son at the weekends. I don't think there is a way to get the money although you could try the csa but they take forever. Try making him feel guilty that might work. I've given up asking my ex if he dosen't want to pay up for his son thats his problem, i hope he can live with himself.
Good Luck:)
2007-12-08 07:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by sharon b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not paying child support is against the law. Take him to court and make sure you have some documents proving him guilty of not paying child support. Good luck.
2007-12-08 07:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Danuta F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a man and in the same predicament but i pay for my children.
I would say the CSA is the only way to go but they can cause so much harm than good for the father.
I pay not only my babys mother but also the csa because she is on benefits she only recieves £10 off my £60 a week i pay the csa and my child does not benefit from that so i also her £30 so my child can benefit i do see my child quite alot.
But if your ex refuses to pay anything at all csa is the only way to go im affraid.
2007-12-08 07:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by sephton19662002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the beginning, the courts won't enforce that paper in maximum states because of the fact that is against "public coverage", as properly as not in "the perfect interest of the youngster". this suggests that the daddy not paying toddler help won't do him anyy solid, no count how plenty money the mummy makes. for this reason i'm fairly particular that while you're youthful sufficient for the law enforcement officers to be interested in his sexual relationship with you, which you likely do not make sufficient to help the youngster on my own. so some distance as public coverage is going, in case you won't be in a position to have sufficient money the youngster and could desire to pass on some style of government counsel, then people who're not the mothers and fathers of the youngster are paying what toddler help could (and is meant to) help pay. Now that the legal stuff is long previous.....directly to the ethical! i anticipate he's a grown guy, because of the age ingredient. And no grown guy could desire to attempt and weasle his way out of his regular jobs. He could desire to be attempting to purchase you issues the toddler will desire the day it comes homestead from the wellbeing center. What i could do is tell him to enable you have the paper he needs you to sign so which you would be able to examine it. Then i could save it and not sign it. i could save it to teach to the relatives regulation lawyer you hire to report what's called a fit Affecting discern toddler relationship. that's the technique the place he gets a dna attempt or sign a acknowledgment of paternity, visitation and toddler help would be regularly occurring. i could use the paper he provides you provided that he tries to combat you for custody without reason! that is only the wench in me tho!
2016-12-17 11:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The District Attorney for the State or County you live in.
2007-12-08 07:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact the child support agency but don't hold your breath they are not very good and it takes ages
if he takes you to court he will be able to see him but they wont make him pay
my daughter was in this position its ridiculous
2007-12-08 07:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋