A lot of times I get accused of being in it for the lay by people based solely on my appearance so Ill write out how I dress and what I do and you let me know.
I mostly wear dress casual following Italian fashion. This means nice collared shirt, dress pants, and shoes with heels that click. I comb my hair with gel.
When I meet a girl I use a lot of body language since I have a pretty thick accent and I am self conscious about it. Also the loud music at a party doesnt really let you talk.
When I dance I dont touch anywhere I wouldnt touch my sister, but I do like to dance and I get pretty into it.
Another thing I am not afraid to do is compliment, so if the girl I am dancing with is good Ill say it, or if she's wearing some really nice perfume or hairstyle ill say it too.
So what do you think?
2007-12-08 11:12:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, don't wear heels. that's not cool and attractive and keep complimenting them, that's so sweet and cute.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
also, no! You're not a sleazeball.
2007-12-08 11:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
no, most of what ur doing is ok
btw, don't get misled into the idea that italian men r great, they are not, its just all hype, if anything i've heard, they could be pretty boring personalities who only get action becoz of their false stereotypical representation
anyway, back to the problem at hand, complimenting is good, but don't use run of the mill type of compliments, be more creative, e.g. instead of saying thats a nice dress, say 'the cut really suits u' n u can add a bit of cheek by saying, 'it accentuates ur curves more' then flash a cheeky smile
what kind of accent do u have? some accents are considered sexy, irish, rp (queen's english), scottish (to a certain extent), french (can be, but it can also be annoying sometimes), (italian is annoying becoz they overdo the macho act), some people consider german accent sexy, i would say german accents are ok, they can sometimes be considered sexy depending on which part of germany r u from.
anwyay if accents bother u, work on it, get a speech therapist, they can work wonders on ur accent, it might even give u the ability to switch accents really quickly, which can be amusing
2007-12-08 19:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't wear heels- it does not make you seem like a sleazeball but it makes you look like a cross dresser.
2. Keep complimenting girls, that the best!
3. Accents are sexy, don't be self-consciouses
2007-12-08 19:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. You seem like a really nice guy but....
somesuggestions: dont comb your hair with gel. all the guys i no who use gel use too much and it ends up just looking GROSS. NO SHOES WITH HEELS THAT CLICK! thats also kinda weird...
also back off with the body language..if the girls dont like your accent then they can back off.....also some girls think accents are adorable...
2007-12-08 19:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by catch me. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like it to me. Make sure when you comliment that it's not going to make the girl uncomfortable. Don't be self concious about your accent, some women find an accent very sexy. Could it be that they are intimidated by you? Make sure that you are being friendly without crossing any personal boundries.
2007-12-08 19:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol actually yeah you do... have you thought about a wardrobe change? you should also try meeting people outside of the club so that you could really talk to people (dont worry about ur accent, a lot of girls think thats sexy) and that way they can get to know the real you instead of judging you solely on appearence... :)
2007-12-08 19:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by smartchik1243 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way u dress sounds like a gentleman and i like it, but not all the time. i would think an accent would sound cute and also if u dont like actual touch the girl wen u dance or if u even dance and u like her shell get the TOTALLY WRONG PICTURE! dont be afraid!
2007-12-08 19:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound like a sleezeball. You might be coming off to strong though. Don't over compliment a girl in one night because it will seem like you are trying to hard. Be nice and don't overdo it.
2007-12-08 19:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by timarasmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heels?
2007-12-08 19:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Janis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like it when guys dress well and also when they compliment them oh and most of the girls i know like accents so don't be insecure about it be proud of it. i don't think that any of this stuff makes you a sleazeball.
2007-12-08 19:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by heidi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋